Exactly, it is very much not a minority of men, incels are at the extreme end but I have been in so many situations in person where men do not take no for an answer, then result to insults/threats etc it is in no way a minority issue. I always felt like a bad feminist saying "I have a boyfriend" as an ecxuse for saying no as it is sad that men will only respect another man but usually you just have to as risking just rejecting them can be dangerous
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what misogynistic crap is this
Yep. And every celeb uses the media when it suits them - not sure why someone would think Emily is alone in that.
Oh no, there are sainted celebs why can do things raising awareness that are fine. Look at the flack people who raised about Tom Moore’s family not being strictly as they made out….. who on earth would think that a man going for a walk and a daughter that had good pr links would ever make it to be well knwon
but she’s different, and it’s all because how dare a woman who might pose in a bikini mention she doesn’t like people sending her photos of their rooster. It’s not like documentary makers have to have a story and evidence to commission funding and research focus groups etc to use on it, it’s just coz her management have shoved her forwards for it.
I actually really liked her after watching the documentary, thought she came across well. So many men are disgusting sordid pieces of tit. I thought she should start screenshotting their messages with their handles and full names and put them on her insta, name and shame. Why don't more celebrities do that?
Ffs the internet is full of weirdos and pervs obviously if your going to put bikini pics up and have bits out while at a charity do ( also proudly make blow job jokes and sex jokes in your ‘comedy act’) one with half a brain cell knows your going to get weirdos messaging you fool pics and messages not right but that’s the outcome I’m afraid you can’t have it both ways then use sex to promote your career ! Also what a poor example to young girls with her catfishing making yourself look like a size 8 when reality is she’s probably about a size 14
Unfortunately, she’d be more likely to be done for doxxing than they are for harassment. The world is ducked up.
This all sounds like we must all dress in our best nun attire and not make a single sexual joke in our lives otherwise we’re asking to be sexualised and should expect men to not be able to control themselves around us?
Are the school girls walking down the street getting catcalled asking for it? No.
Is the woman who posted a gorgeous photo of her wedding day where her dress shows whopping cleavage asking for it? No.
Is the sex worker who has clocked out for the day asking for it? No.
You can’t say “you should expect it” about one woman and not to the rest. No one should expect to be sexually harassed, online or offline.
I will agree and the fact she’s a massive catfish though and needs to lay off the filters and facetune.
Are the school girls walking down the street getting catcalled asking for it? No.
Is the woman who posted a gorgeous photo of her wedding day where her dress shows whopping cleavage asking for it? No.
Is the sex worker who has clocked out for the day asking for it? No.
You can’t say “you should expect it” about one woman and not to the rest. No one should expect to be sexually harassed, online or offline.
I will agree and the fact she’s a massive catfish though and needs to lay off the filters and facetune.
I have pics of me in a bikini on my Insta and I’ve even shown off my cleavage on nights out! And I’ve probably joked about blow jobs and sex more times than you’ve had hot dinners. Quick! Alert the village elders!! Seriously though, I can do what the duck I like with regards to photos and clothes and humour but NO ONE is entitled to send me photos of their genitalia without me saying it’s ok to do so.
Erm no…… coz in actual fact, it’s not just girls like the ones you citied that do bikini shots that get these messages. Teenaged girls in school uniforms do. Normal women in flowery maxi dresses do. And that what half of this stuff is for what she is doing, making the point that it’s just becoming a normalised thing and people seem to be accepting it. And I think the point she is also making, and us all is that it doesn’t matter HOW you behave, the onus is on people just not to bleeping do it. You wouldn’t just get a random rooster out in a nightclub at girls in short skirts, or on the beach on holiday to show your appreciation so why online? Why is that fair game??
As for ‘catfishing’, so bloody what. We all use filters etc to make ourselves feel better. my work photo is filtered to duck, but no one says I shouldn’t do that and should look rit. so why shouldn’t she? She’s never gone out there, unlike some and seemingly pretended not to do it. And her target market isn’t the kids, it’s people old enough to know that filters are used etc.
Or are you linking things, saying she’s not pretty enough or skinny enough to warrent these pics, or should just accept it coz she’s not like the hottest love island girl???
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You talk about sex and don’t wear a head to toe sack! Bloody hell, get in the stocks for someone to flash their balls at you for misbehaving
Nobody has the right to make derogatory comments towards you regardless of what you're wearing or jokes that you may tell.
I'm sure each and every one of us woman on here have at some point recieved dirty unwanted messages or a had a random guy feel you up in a club without your consent.
This isn't ok and needs to stop
I'm sure each and every one of us woman on here have at some point recieved dirty unwanted messages or a had a random guy feel you up in a club without your consent.
This isn't ok and needs to stop
All you're saying here is 'she's asking for it'. Which I'm afraid makes you a misogynist. She could run naked up and down the street and she wouldn't be asking for it. NO man has the right to send her degrading messages or horrible pictures and no man has the right to deliberately make her feel humiliated.
I might have imagined all this so I apologise if so.
But..I'm sure there has been a long running campaign about the sexualisation of school uniforms ie dirty film etc.
If I remember correctly from her inbetweeners days her uniform was very "sexy" based ie button downed shirt.
This isn't a reflection on Emily but society itself. I won't attach my opinion either way on this post because this isn't an "emily" issue.
But..I'm sure there has been a long running campaign about the sexualisation of school uniforms ie dirty film etc.
If I remember correctly from her inbetweeners days her uniform was very "sexy" based ie button downed shirt.
This isn't a reflection on Emily but society itself. I won't attach my opinion either way on this post because this isn't an "emily" issue.
I actually laugh at fool pics , got sent one by a guy in college when I was younger had a right laugh with friends to be honest , go on tinder it’s full of them apparently , does not offend me personally, cat calling too / wolf whistles etc I take it as a compliment , snowflakes that find it offensive need to realise once you reach a certain age and everything goes south you won’t be getting any of that so take it as a light hearted compliment I’d say , there’s a big difference between pics and being groped / grape and personally I don’t think the police should be called if someone sent you a fool pic.
I think it's more the general view of these photos being kind of like the modern day flashing.
Not my view, don't bother me either. I'd have a bit of a giggle with friends over a glass of wine.
Where do you draw the line? What age is appropriate? As a mum to a 10 year daughter I find it troubling. Would I be offended by a fool pic or wolf whistle? Possibly not. Would I be offended for my daughter in the future- yes I would. Absolutely.
What’s the difference to a flasher in the street versus a flasher online?
I’m not saying I have answers but it’s certainly given me food for thought.
Might be a hard pill to swallow but just because you and the people around you find something funny doesn’t mean everyone in the world does, the ratio is very very small of your circle compared to the general public. That doesn’t make other people “snowflakes”, it just means they think differently to you. Might be something to think about
.At the very least Emily has got a conversation going on this thread so the documentary has done what it was made to do.
What would give me the rage the most if I got sent a fool pick would be seeing it without being paid. Apparently you can get paid for rating them on onlyfans.
Does the person doing the action not have a brain of their own? Everyone is responsible for their own actions, saying that it’s all down to the receiver is a bit ridiculous. Everyone and their gran knows that cat calling, groping, harassing anyone (yes, anyone because men can be harassed too. Consent is everything for anyone, not just women.) is seen an antisocial behaviour and shouldn’t be done. Especially in this day and age when there’s plenty talk on how it makes people feel uncomfortable.
Yes, you are in control of how you react to something but that in no way means that you’re responsible for someone else's sexually explicit behaviour towards you.
I never said consent was down to the receiver, I actually said asking for permission or knowing the girl.
I accept men can be harassed. As I said everything is about consent.
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Sorry my opinion cannot be put on struggling with Samsung with tattle. Driving me up the wall. Will further my point when issues is sorted.
I accept men can be harassed. As I said everything is about consent.
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Sorry my opinion cannot be put on struggling with Samsung with tattle. Driving me up the wall. Will further my point when issues is sorted.