Someone in another thread explained it as her not having a very strong connection to Trigg because of the hours she spent filming and it made total sense.
She said on a podcast how time consuming the TikTok was, many hours a day
so Trigg was in daycare 8 hours (unsure if it was 5 or 3 days a week) . And then think about her intricate self care routines; nails, hair, 15 step skincare all in silence, Trigg must have been by himself or maybe in the garden alone for her to have all that me time.
So the amount of time she spent on herself vs putting up a pool gate, or fixing the alarms and locks that didn’t work.
I think her connection to Trigg was more as a product of herself rather than as his own human with needs.