Emilie Kiser

[DrMeredithGrey]

‘I hope things get better for you’?!

That’s wild. Saying things like that when the literal worse thing in the world that could happen to someone has happened to you and you continue to fan on with TikTok.

 

[whoareyouu]

Arrested development, 100%.

 

[Dexy]

Where did this woman come from originally?
I only heard about her because of the child’s death.

 

[ThickEar]

Where did this woman come from originally?
I only heard about her because of the child’s death.

She started making YouTube videos as a child. There is at least one still online as she says she has lost the login so can’t delete it. I think she’s about 12 in it and talks mostly about dance, and herself. Standard 12 year old stuff that she seemingly hasn’t grown out of.
I guess she got a taste for it and became a lifestyle vlogger (or whatever they call them) as an adult.

 

[sparklingdee]

Where did this woman come from originally?
I only heard about her because of the child’s death.

Became a "mommy vlogger" a few years ago with the usual getting coffee /cleaning her house etc and then became really popular, her husband quit his job because he was doing so well and they moved into a huge ass house, she also started partnering with tons of skincare/makeup etc brands so is raking it in. She was constantly told/reminded by her followers to get a pool gate etc and she didnt because of 'aesthetics' - she got a net which she said came from a company that had been running since the 80's with zero fatalities, however they often left the pool net off at night (as seen in her videos) which is obv what happened when T drowned.

 

[Ivegone]

How are these people being grief tourists? They are more concerned for her dead child than she is

 

[Lifestyle86]

I could be completely wrong but in the report there seemed to be quite a few other factors (the Dad’s blatant negligence being the worst) that occurred on the day of poor Trigg’s death. The door alarm not working, net not on, no safety gate etc. Could it be that she is holding herself just as responsible? Almost like they are “in it together” with both having not ensured Trigg was safe? That’s how it comes across to me - almost they are both to blame so won’t turn on the other.
Sorry if this doesn’t make sense - it’s hard to articulate & avoid causing offence.

 

[Ivegone]

I could be completely wrong but in the report there seemed to be quite a few other factors (the Dad’s blatant negligence being the worst) that occurred on the day of poor Trigg’s death. The door alarm not working, net not on, no safety gate etc. Could it be that she is holding herself just as responsible? Almost like they are “in it together” with both having not ensured Trigg was safe? That’s how it comes across to me - almost they are both to blame so won’t turn on the other.
Sorry if this doesn’t make sense - it’s hard to articulate & avoid causing offence.

they are both to blame

 

[hol20x]

I could be completely wrong but in the report there seemed to be quite a few other factors (the Dad’s blatant negligence being the worst) that occurred on the day of poor Trigg’s death. The door alarm not working, net not on, no safety gate etc. Could it be that she is holding herself just as responsible? Almost like they are “in it together” with both having not ensured Trigg was safe? That’s how it comes across to me - almost they are both to blame so won’t turn on the other.
Sorry if this doesn’t make sense - it’s hard to articulate & avoid causing offence.

I get your point and it is possible that she feels equally responsible. But the thing is, Trigg didn't sneak out of the broken door, Brady let him outside. Brady didn't check on him. Brady left him unattended and drowning for 7+ minutes while he watched tv. I don't know how she can see past any of that.

 

[Lifestyle86]

I get your point and it is possible that she feels equally responsible. But the thing is, Trigg didn't sneak out of the broken door, Brady let him outside. Brady didn't check on him. Brady left him unattended and drowning for 7+ minutes while he watched tv. I don't know how she can see past any of that.

Oh I completely agree. Personally I would never be able to even hear his name again, let alone stay married to him. I must have misremembered, I thought Trigg had gone outside whilst Brady was distracted. As there was mention of the door alarm being broken & the net being off due to the pool being cleaned the next day. The fact Brady let him outside & left him unattended is even worse!

 

[Lifestyle86]

they are both to blame

1000%. It feels like they’re trauma bonded by their own wrong doings that led to Trigg dying.

 

[Dexy]

I could be completely wrong but in the report there seemed to be quite a few other factors (the Dad’s blatant negligence being the worst) that occurred on the day of poor Trigg’s death. The door alarm not working, net not on, no safety gate etc. Could it be that she is holding herself just as responsible? Almost like they are “in it together” with both having not ensured Trigg was safe? That’s how it comes across to me - almost they are both to blame so won’t turn on the other.
Sorry if this doesn’t make sense - it’s hard to articulate & avoid causing offence.

Maybe. And there is some truth in that.
But what I can’t get passed is the dad lying about what he was doing at the time. He used the baby as the reason for being distracted. Fuxked up to lie for one but even more so to use your newborn to try and get off with being responsible for your other child’s death.

 

[Dexy]

Oh I completely agree. Personally I would never be able to even hear his name again, let alone stay married to him. I must have misremembered, I thought Trigg had gone outside whilst Brady was distracted. As there was mention of the door alarm being broken & the net being off due to the pool being cleaned the next day. The fact Brady let him outside & left him unattended is even worse!

Not just that. In the police report Brady said they REGULARLY let him go out and play by the pool.
That blows my mind.

 

[Lifestyle86]

The more I learn about the case…the worse it gets! Trigg was failed so badly.

 

[Bonjour92]

I could be completely wrong but in the report there seemed to be quite a few other factors (the Dad’s blatant negligence being the worst) that occurred on the day of poor Trigg’s death. The door alarm not working, net not on, no safety gate etc. Could it be that she is holding herself just as responsible? Almost like they are “in it together” with both having not ensured Trigg was safe? That’s how it comes across to me - almost they are both to blame so won’t turn on the other.
Sorry if this doesn’t make sense - it’s hard to articulate & avoid causing offence.

It doesn’t seem to me that they believe they are responsible at all. I think they genuinely see it ad a freak accident that was unavoidable. The fact that you go on a grief retreat immediately after? Mind you, the police were still investigating them while they were on this retreat. Can you even imagine? They don’t think they are to blame. They see it as an accident that could have happened to anyone

 

[sparklingdee]

I dont get why you'd let your young toddler into the backyard KNOWING your pool net wasnt on. Who lets toddlers out in on their own anyway, even for 5/6/7 mins? Anything could happen, especially in the evening/night.

 

[Dexy]

I dont get why you'd let your young toddler into the backyard KNOWING your pool net wasnt on. Who lets toddlers out in on their own anyway, even for 5/6/7 mins? Anything could happen, especially in the evening/night.

I don’t know. I cannot relate. Water in particular gives me such anxiety. I can swim and my children can swim but it’s just knowing it’s such a preventable death and happens in seconds. Even when on holiday my husband will be in the pool with them I cannot relax fully. I’ve always got one eye on them and my husband is 100% capable of looking after them.

 

[ThickEar]

What even is a ‘grief retreat’? I imagine it as a kind of spa break but with counselling sessions and group therapy thrown in. Doing arts and crafts whilst talking about the dead person, being told none of it is your fault, then having yummy healthy food and drinks made by a top chef. A reward to yourself for the hard time you’ve been through. I guess Teddy wouldn’t go on such a retreat so where was he at this point I wonder, since she was breastfeeding him. Or did he go too?

 

[Ivegone]

I dont get why you'd let your young toddler into the backyard KNOWING your pool net wasnt on. Who lets toddlers out in on their own anyway, even for 5/6/7 mins? Anything could happen, especially in the evening/night.

Wouldn't let my pretty responsible 7 year old outside with a pool on his own no way

 

[Ivegone]

What even is a ‘grief retreat’? I imagine it as a kind of spa break but with counselling sessions and group therapy thrown in. Doing arts and crafts whilst talking about the dead person, being told none of it is your fault, then having yummy healthy food and drinks made by a top chef. A reward to yourself for the hard time you’ve been through. I guess Teddy wouldn’t go on such a retreat so where was he at this point I wonder, since she was breastfeeding him. Or did he go too?

Going away when you have another child is utterly selfish poor kid lost their brother and parents duck off too