Emilie Kiser

[TheSheep]

This is going to be my last post on this thread and I won’t be reading the replies either.
You might not want to read this if you’re easily triggered.

These people have no dignity.
Trailer trash at its finest.

Matching tattoos with Brady????
The same Brady who should be in jail for manslaughter? The police wanted to charge him - quite rightly so- his son was treading water for almost 10 minutes. Where was he??
He should be in jail reflecting on how he failed as a father.
She should be also charged for not providing adequate protection around a pool, isn’t it the law??
Matching tattoos… yeah go for it, mask up the real issue with trivial shit like a cheap trashy tattoo.
She’s out there filming materialistic crap, where in fact she should use her platforms to educate and bring awareness to pool safety for children.
Or maybe support children’s hospitals or bring awareness to causes where children are less fortunate in this world. Supporting parents in grief who maybe lost their children through no fault of their own.
She will be knocked up again within a year, having another child that she can shill and exploit on social media.

I don’t believe she needs the money and that’s why she’s back. There were a lot of mountains moved so that her trashy husband didn’t go to jail and that the social workers are not involved to protect the other child. Lots of hush money.
Her brothers fancy cars worth more than some people earn in their lifetime.

No integrity, no dignity, and no sense.

I won’t be looking at her social media and I won’t be talking about her and about what she does any longer.

RIP little guy, I’m sorry that your parents have failed you.

 

[ahtisyourself]

I feel for them I really do. But there is some kind of twisted irony in wanting these details kept private when the reason anyone is in any way interested is because you’ve sold your privacy and your families privacy for years now and there are people out there who don’t understand boundaries, and who feel entitled to this information. When the lines of public and private become blurred, boundaries are removed and people will act in strange ways. That’s the nature of the beast when you sell your privacy for a living. Again, I’m not excusing people being entitled or intrusive, it’s wrong and sick - but it’s the wrong and sick consequence for living your life online. Very Black Mirror, imo.

 

[Walnutss]

Let a grieving mother LIVE. She has another son to show up for. Some of these comments are vile. All I see is a women and mother trying to put one foot in front of the other and get some normality back in her life whilst she will be dealing with a LIFE TIME of grief. It never fails to shock me how heartless some people - probably mothers themselves- can be.

I think it's more so that she stayed with the man who caused the grief through the sheer neglect of their child. Allowed his son to desperately try and live for was it 4 minutes? And then got matching tattoos with him it blows my mind. I'd kill him with my bare hands if that was me. It wasn't just an accident it was neglect

 

[Old Soak]

What a maddening read.
•Malfunctioning door
•Alarms to alert that a door has been opened not in use
•No pool fence
•A kidkatcher net that wasn’t put back on after use
•The cover wasn’t put on after use
•Repeated warnings from their followers about the need for a pool fence
•Both parents knew that Trigg couldn’t swim
•An absolute loser of a husband who was more focused on the match than his unsupervised 3 year old
•A kid who can’t swim but valiantly used whatever he had learned from his swimming lessons to fight for his life for 2 whole minutes
•A cluttered pool area full of toys which not only attracts the 3 year old, but also caused him to trip and fall into the pool area
•Many safety features but none of them in use, which is the whole point of putting them in.
Pure laziness on the part of both parents and the father should absolutely be charged.

 

[Upintheair83]

I dont know what people expect of her. The woman is grieving and she will grieve until the day she dies. But she's trying to put one foot forward and be a mother to the child she has, she's trying to find pockets of happiness and normality in order to get up in a morning and parent the child she has.what is so bad about that?...I see a strong and brave woman who is trying her hardest to be the best mother she can be to Teddy. All whilst struggling to adjust to her new life withoutTrigg- she's admitted her mistakes with the pool fence, she knows she could have done more. We can sit here and judge their decisions all we want but they have paid the ultimate price, and their guilt will be carried all their days and sleepless nights.....they dont need strangers telling them how to grieve or how bad a parent they were for not protecting Trigg. They know what went wrong, but that doesn't mean they didn't love that little boy with every ounce of love that they had.
I really don't understand this mentality of she shouldn't be back online- it's her job, it was her normality, it was her place to share things and to make money. And she's already said she wants to use her channel to help others now. Let her speak of her journey and help others, let her have her job back...because she's lost so much already. Grief isn't the same for everyone, and if being online helps a mother to get up every day and piece her life back together then I'm not one to judge. All she has is my sympathy and best wishes, no mother should ever lose a child.

 

[whoareyouu]

I cannot judge a grieving mother. End of.

 

[bananabutter]

I read a lot of people saying she was post partum - I must say I am surprised she was on an evening out and leaving her newborn so soon. I'm not saying mums have to be on house arrest but it seems so soon to be leaving a newborn and clearly dad wasn't equipped to manage a newborn and a toddler single handedly.

Completely disagree. She went for dinner with her friends allegedly, so she would have been gone a few hours at most. She was expected to look after a toddler and a newborn from day one. I’m sure he’s left the house for a few hours too. He’s their father and frankly he didn’t have a job, he’s just as well equipped to look after them as she is.

 

[Bonjour92]

Listening to her last video about how her and hubby went on not one but two “grief retreats” since Trigg passed is making me feel some kind of way. At this point I’m convinced she genuinely led herself to believe that what happened to Trigg was a freak accident that was unavoidable, which could not be further from the truth. I just cannot imagine my toddler drowning for 10full minutes in full sight while my neglectful husband is placing a sports bet, and me wanting to go on a grief retreat with said husband. She weirds me out.

Also, she keeps repeating that her grief counsellor and therapist told her that she deserves to feel happy and says she shouldn’t feel guilty for being happy again, but does she feel any guilt for what happened to Trigg? She will never admit to that. It sounds very cold to hear a mother emphasize her absolute right to feel happy again, months after her son died. No one is saying she can never feel happy again, but her son JUST passed away. Literally the only thing she shows is how happy she is. Baffling…

 

[Dexy]

Firstly the words “ grief journey “ give me rage.

As if she took that worthless piece of shit to therapy with her.
If I had carried our baby for 9months and delivered that baby safely only for my husband to be unable to give his undivided attention and care to that baby for the grand total of 32 minutes that husband would be dead to me.

 

[storminaDcup]

This is honestly like a black mirror episode. That girl is not right in the head

 

[ahtisyourself]

Excitedly shopping for Halloween bits when all anyone else would be thinking is how their little boy isn’t around to dress up for Halloween this year. I find her behaviour completely bizarre.

 

[Lonelylondon]

I’m unsure how anyone could possibly give a fuck about table scapes, thanksgiving dinners, linen, clothes and whatever else when their child drowned 6 months ago, I know it’s ’her Job’ and ‘we don’t see her whole day’ and ‘she only shows what she wants us to see’ and ‘she has another child to look after’ but this isn’t healthy, she’s acting as if it never happened, it’s really bizarre, but I haven't lost a child (thank god) so maybe I just don’t know how I’d be if I did, I just think social media has altered a lot of people’s brains and makes them act weirdly tbh

 

[Mooms]

I feel so sorry for Teddy, what a horrible start to his little life. It’s so important for a baby’s development to have a mother in good health and able to interact and engage positively with their baby

 

[ChickenPorridge]

I'm stunned by the filmed in July thing. It's not even like she's just out walking around in robot mode going through the motions. She's chit chatty, singing along to songs, slurping up coffee through a straw. Sorry but what the fuck

 

[PoorPatrol]

Despite what I’m about to say I’m not actually judging her. I think in a few years she’ll be sitting down processing with a very close actual friend and saying about this comeback “what was I thinking, I was numb” so I’ll give her very much the benefit of the doubt. I don’t think bizarre behaviour after your child dies is who you actually are. I’d hold nothing against someone after this, pretty much ever. Her entire brain chemistry must have been turned inside out after that trauma.

That being said, IMO, this is an awful look. An absolutely awful look. We know social media makes money but it still falls into the realm of not looking like anything other that self serving, vacuous bullshit. Probably because it is, even if you make money from it, it’s not something I would ever steer my children towards. Selling your soul and privacy has always slightly disgusted me, so I’m not neutral. I don’t believe Emilie should have been selling the family’s life in the first place.

To run about making pretty videos getting coffee and ‘going antiquing’ and a load of shit after not just her child, but ‘a’ child any child that has lost his beautiful little life because of said obsession with aesthetics and image, is frankly not ok. Like be humble. It was Brady’s fault but again I’d expect nobody to have the wherewithal to end a relationship at this juncture if you’re in the depths of grief. But showing off some charmed, curated life, when it’s literally their fault that Trigg is gone, as tragic and clearly an accident that was, have some humility and keep your heads down. They’re lucky not to be in prison! I know they loved their boy and never meant for any of it to happen and they must be devastated, but carrying on like he didn’t exist when it’s their fault he’s gone is fucking gross. If they need money send Brady out to do a 9-5. The self obsession of Emilie is like an illness, I don’t believe for one minute they need the cash right this second.

 

[bananabutter]

@Yesweknowyouhavekids oh please. You can have all the precautions, as I said before it takes a second for your attention to be turned to something else like another child needing you and it happens. Hence the saying we’re all a second away from tragedy. Why have you come here to judge two parents who have lost a child? Don’t you think that’s a bit dark?

“You can have all the precautions” but they didn’t.. and that’s the point the other poster is getting at.

If they’d been in a car accident and they hadn’t put him in a car seat, or he’d fallen down the stairs because there wasn’t a baby gate would you or anyone else be saying “you can take precautions but accidents still happen?”

Accidents happen every day, that is true, but he wouldn’t have come to the harm he did if they had those measures in place.

Both things can be true at once, I feel desperately sorry for them. They’ve paid the ultimate price but you can’t pretend their actions weren’t negligent. That would be doing a disservice to their son and other children’s future safety by saying otherwise. I said before that the only good thing that can come out of this is that I imagine pool fence sales will have gone through the roof this week and no doubt many will be being installed as we speak. This is going to no doubt save lives.

Obviously that would be dreadful for them to hear, and I’d never in a million years write that on one of their pages during the worst time of their life, but tattle is supposed to be a “private” space where we discuss things and people would have to actively look to find it. And if you look long enough, you’ll always find something you don’t want to read.

 

[hol20x]

I have no issue with her returning to social media. My issue is that she's staying with the man who caused the death of her child. I really do judge her for that.

 

[Upintheair83]

I can't imagine how it must be behind closed doors for them. The sense of loss, dread and grief must be so intense. I can't imagine how any mother goes on without her child. And Emilie is so vibrant, fun and full of life- she must be thinking she will never smile again
What hurts even more is that she's got a beautiful baby boy that needs her, and she needs him. But how can you enjoy a newborn in the depths of grief? How can you celebrate when he smiles? And as he grows how can you celebrate when he takes his first steps knowing his big brother isn't there? Maybe he will look like Trigg and at times that will take theor breath away? Or they go to shout his name and Trigg comes out?....all these things, all these milestones. The birthdays, the Christmas's, the celebrations will all seem so empty. Its so crazy because her life was literally perfect, she had got all she wanted and was doing so well financially and now none of the material things will ever matter again and it's such a valuable lesson for us all.
I think it's awful that some people are trolling her with nasty comments, she will likely torture herself for the rest of her life with the 'what ifs', isn't the loss of a child the ultimate price she's paid? She knows the pool could have been safer, without people pointing it out. And it won't just be that she will torture herself with, it will be the what if I never went out? What if we hired a nanny to help? What if I never got pregnant etc. All these things she will wonder and she will hate herself for it. I can't imagine how she will ever be the same again. But I hope she also gains strength and love from that little baby in her arms, who needs her more than ever. I hope she can start to heal and that her family stay together and stay strong together.
The whole thing is so shocking and unbearable to think about it, praying for her. Xxx

 

[ahtisyourself]

I think that is what is so jarring. She has come back in such a vacuous and superficial way. On about feeling ‘good’ and preoccupied by stupid crap that doesn’t matter. No one expects her to be in a ball on the bed still in the depths of despair as that would not be healthy or good for her. But it’s seeing the true superficiality and materialism of her life play out a few months after losing her son that people find remarkable. I don’t know, it’s a bit gross. I don’t think I could care about such trivial bs after such a huge loss. Again, she could be doing all these things behind the scenes as could many other grieving mothers and we would not know. But as she chooses to broadcast her life in the aftermath then people will naturally comment on it.

 

[elliebee27]

If that happened with my kid, I think my dad would probably have killed my husband. I certainly would never be able to look at him again and I would absolutely get a divorce considering it was preventable and not a real accident.. that poor baby.