Yeah I like Ella but did wonder about that? Can’t she use the white noise videos on YouTube - there’s loads of water ones
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Think she’s probably a young and inexperienced mum who wanted to appear ‘relatable’ - if I were her I would have put 2+2 together and thought hmm they love the shower let’s try some rain sounds on YouTube. Personally the water bill gives me anxiety but I’m guessing it’s something she’s not worried about.
If she’s in Scotland, we don’t have separate water bills
Wow that's really interesting I didn't know that! Free higher education, possibly rejoining the EU, integrated water bills, not having Boris as your leader ... I'm wishing my Scottish family didn't raise me in England now
Yeah, it’s rolled up into our council tax - when you receive your council tax bill for the year, it will state the additional amount that is being charged for water but it’s a fixed rate not based on individual usage and depends on which council tax band your home is in.Wow that's really interesting I didn't know that! Free higher education, possibly rejoining the EU, integrated water bills, not having Boris as your leader ... I'm wishing my Scottish family didn't raise me in England now
Come on in, we are great people too!
I do feel sorry for her because it can be be daunting and she’s clearly alone with the baby which is hard.
However it speaks volumes about how outta touch with us common folk
get a Ewan the sheep or a white noise machine or app on your phone. I guess she’s just young and whilst it really irritated me I did think to myself after she’s just young and getting her hand on things.
However it speaks volumes about how outta touch with us common folk
get a Ewan the sheep or a white noise machine or app on your phone. I guess she’s just young and whilst it really irritated me I did think to myself after she’s just young and getting her hand on things.I agree, she obviously hadn’t thought it through but everyone uses white noise app. Not really aimed at Ella as such but I always think with influencers they just love getting praise & admiration so much but they get so angry at any negative posts. I can understand it’s not nice to receive & of course there are some horrible people who take it too far but the message people were saying was genuine & that it is a lot of waste to be doing that every morning for what...25/30 minutes probably.
Exactly - I don’t understand why people on here don’t seem to realise it isn’t a present and think they should send to ‘normal’ people instead, it’s an advert they want thousands of people to see...
She is what 6 weeks postpartum and already on about laser removal for her stretch marks, there is more to life than perfect appearances.
Just saw that. She’s only a few weeks PP, stretch marks will still be able to come if so
Feel sorry for her tbh she’s a young new mum and she needs to realise we are in a pandemic too. She’s pretty with or without stretch marks
Theres lots of naturel oils and creams to get rid of them that do work? but no needs them gone instantly for insta doesn't she. what a sad mindset
I’ve always defended her on here, had nothing but nice things to say but that post about stretch mark removal is just ridiculous!! She didn’t even look like she had any, they’re probably tiny white ones you can’t even see anyway. I don’t know why anyone would be interested in trying to get rid of them so soon! Too much money to burn now!
Ugh really disappointed in this as well especially after such natural after birth pics! She was unhappy about receiving hate just a couple of days ago, surely she must realise people are going to have something to say about this & no wonder as she’s made it public. And as said above, can’t see there being many or even that noticeable
I’ve unfollowed her, she’s completely ridiculous.
I haven’t seen the stretch marks thing but I’ve found her photos of post partum very uncomfortable. Almost like she has a point to prove. She seems so insecure. She’s just had a baby for crying out loud, who cares what she looks like at week 1,2 or 4 post partum. She even posted the other day how her c section scar was still too sore for her to consider working out. What’s the rush? Enjoy the baby and the cuddles, it’s over so fast and I never paid attention to my body as it just wasn’t important. It’s taken 9 months of changes, the most incredible journey and then actually having your baby and watching them grow and change was so much more important to me then what I looked like.
It took me 6 months to feel normal after my birth and it made me realise this ridiculous pressure for women to snap back is so unrealistic and damaging. What a shallow life to only care about the way she looks or what designer she’s wearing, her son will love her for her. I’ve hardly worn make up for the past year due to lockdown and staying at home, and while I feel like an weird foot most of the time, my daughter and husband love me for me not the me in layers of make up
It took me 6 months to feel normal after my birth and it made me realise this ridiculous pressure for women to snap back is so unrealistic and damaging. What a shallow life to only care about the way she looks or what designer she’s wearing, her son will love her for her. I’ve hardly worn make up for the past year due to lockdown and staying at home, and while I feel like an weird foot most of the time, my daughter and husband love me for me not the me in layers of make up
I haven’t seen the stretch marks thing but I’ve found her photos of post partum very uncomfortable. Almost like she has a point to prove. She seems so insecure. She’s just had a baby for crying out loud, who cares what she looks like at week 1,2 or 4 post partum. She even posted the other day how her c section scar was still too sore for her to consider working out. What’s the rush? Enjoy the baby and the cuddles, it’s over so fast and I never paid attention to my body as it just wasn’t important. It’s taken 9 months of changes, the most incredible journey and then actually having your baby and watching them grow and change was so much more important to me then what I looked like.
It took me 6 months to feel normal after my birth and it made me realise this ridiculous pressure for women to snap back is so unrealistic and damaging. What a shallow life to only care about the way she looks or what designer she’s wearing, her son will love her for her. I’ve hardly worn make up for the past year due to lockdown and staying at home, and while I feel like an weird foot most of the time, my daughter and husband love me for me not the me in layers of make up
All of thisIt shows how deep rooted her worry of how she looks must stem from
It takes you so long to find a new normal with a baby, your body has to find it’s new way of fitting (howwww many organs move to make way for a baby to grow) let alone the lack of sleep
These days I wear make up etc for myself when I can. It’s not about how you look - esp kids don’t care. I wonder if she feels pressured from her husband?
Williams’s a pretty decent guy. I doubt he’ll pressure her about make up.
I feel really sorry for her, I guess being in the pageant and instagram influencer environment where the sole focus is on your looks is not very good for anyone's mental state. I worry about young girls exposed to this mindset, I think it is actually getting worse rather than better. I'm in my mid 20s now, and was a teenager at the start of social media, the pictures I and my friends used to post were not filtered and edited and posed to perfection. I still feel the pressure to look good sometimes but I don't photoshop my pics and just try to feel comfortable in who I am. However I don't think the pressure to look perfect weighs as heavily on me as it does on girls just one or two years younger who have been exposed to this "insta perfect" idea for longer than me. And because everyone seems to edit and filter their pics so much it's actually hard to realise that it is totally normal for even very slim women to have stretch marks, cellulite, spots etc. Nobody, even the most famous models in the world have a perfect body, the pics you see in magazines are just photoshopped. We all have our little flaws and we shouldn't have to spend so much of our time and money fixing them or thinking about them. It's just so so sad. All that matters is whether you are healthy.I haven’t seen the stretch marks thing but I’ve found her photos of post partum very uncomfortable. Almost like she has a point to prove. She seems so insecure. She’s just had a baby for crying out loud, who cares what she looks like at week 1,2 or 4 post partum. She even posted the other day how her c section scar was still too sore for her to consider working out. What’s the rush? Enjoy the baby and the cuddles, it’s over so fast and I never paid attention to my body as it just wasn’t important. It’s taken 9 months of changes, the most incredible journey and then actually having your baby and watching them grow and change was so much more important to me then what I looked like.
It took me 6 months to feel normal after my birth and it made me realise this ridiculous pressure for women to snap back is so unrealistic and damaging. What a shallow life to only care about the way she looks or what designer she’s wearing, her son will love her for her. I’ve hardly worn make up for the past year due to lockdown and staying at home, and while I feel like an weird foot most of the time, my daughter and husband love me for me not the me in layers of make up
Yes it's nice to look nice, but that's only one small part of you. Looks fade with time for even the most beautiful in the world. She really should be trying to enjoy motherhood and her beautiful little boy as he is growing up without having to worry about how she looks. She is also recovering from major surgery! Although c sections are so common, people really do forget that it's a big operation! Totally normal to take a while to recover and there should be no rush. We also forget because medical advances are so good that childbirth is actually one of the riskiest things a woman can do, so many women and babies died in the past and still sometimes do today. Mother and baby being healthy and happy is the most important thing, not how you look.
William won’t be bothered about her wearing make up or not. I think it’s all her own insecurities from being a pregnant girl and on Instagram, she got a bit of hate from looking different and swollen in her birth photos so it’s like she’s trying to prove she still looks good.
Pageant* not pregnant!!
Pageant* not pregnant!!
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