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xoxoxo13

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Yes, that's what I think too. If he was her boyfriend, she would probably call him that. She would have no reason to just call him her ‘crush’ if they have established that they are boyfriend and girlfriend. I think they are just dating but not officially in a relationship yet?
why announce it on her 'professional' social media at all? is she trying to make it seem like she has a life besides studying, eating mcdonalds and listening to German rap?

i really want her content to go back to English though. I've even messaged her a few times.
 

vio

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ehh She only shows some grades, the ones she wants to show. grades are also arbitrary. she took a semester off school her first year because she thought it was "too much." She probably wasnt doing too well. Grades also have nothing to do with intelligence in the real world. the girl reads harry potter books ffs.

I feel like sometimes she comes across as arrogant, especially in the gifted video.

Also, she said her parents are not rich, but she made them pay for her private education anyway, when Germany already has great public schools. Same thing with Cambridge, she's doing a year abroad in Germany, where she could be studying for free, but instead, she's paying Cambridge.

And all her expensive clothes... Idk, she seems like a great person and a hardworker, but she's not my cup of tea. My favorite is definitely Paige.
It doesnt surprise me. Oxbridge takes a certain type of student. These students are usually intelligent and meet the criteria, but they are also overwhelmingly children who grew up with immense privilege and fit a certain type of profile that guarantees that they will continue to maintain a high profile later in life as well. (usually these are well-connected kids).
 
She has said herself that she is middle class. If you have any proof that she is not that would be a different issue but you don't. Therefore you are assuming things whereas I am simply defending her based on the facts we have. That is the difference.

She was in a privileged position due to her own hard work. Her fees are actually completely covered. She stated on instagram that her university owes her money and has to pay her back a certain amount because her scholarship covered a larger amount than the fees she had to pay. I don't know if you watched the video in which she lists all the things she did in high school but she tutored younger kids, was volunteering for years and did lots of other activities (I think about fifteen or so). She spent basically all of her time studying and helping others. She is not an ordinary person. I can't even understand how one could manage so much stuff.

Designer things are more sustainable and the opposite of fast fashion. She can't win with people. If she bought her stuff at Primark or Shein they would criticize her too.

Yes, as you said, they are not in the same spot exactly. That was my point.

Thanks for the interesting discussion!

I am actually curious where she will go to university in the autumn. I assume it will be in Germany this time.
 

ellieaniston021

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She mentioned once (some years ago) that she would stop doing YT videos if she ever felt that she had nothing productive or meaningful to say. Maybe she feels that this time has come? Or maybe she just grew as a person –it happens– and doesn't enjoy the same things anymore. Maybe TikTok requires less time and effort and that's why she has focused on that instead on YouTube.

Unfortunately, I don't speak German, so I can't talk about her acting like a “completely different person” when she speaks it (maybe you could translate a german TikTok or two for us that you feel show her as a different person? I'm curious). But she's mentioned that she enjoys speaking German more, because she can make jokes that she can't make in English. So maybe she seemed different when she used to speak English because she wasn't very familiar with the English slang and just didn't have the necessary vocabulary to speak in the way she wanted.

I don't know whether her boyfriend played any part in that, but the fact that she switched to German when she met him seems like an odd coincidence.
 

Karolina1985

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Has she ever mentioned what are her plans on masters degree? Also in todays q&a she said something about quiting yt once she feels like it's time? I'm not sure, my german is terrible.
 

ellieaniston021

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New video from Elena!! I missed her.

I think it’s cool she analyses poetry as a study break activity haha, very random. If Ruby Granger came out with that I would find it performative but with Elena you can tell that it’s genuine.
Why would you find it performative if Ruby did it? 🤔 Just curious haha
 

ellieaniston021

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Can someone that speaks German and follows her on Tiktok update me on what's going on with her crush/boyfriend, whatever he is? I can't understand a word of what she's saying, but I'm curious haha.
 
Pretty much everyone who goes abroad doesn't graduate with their class. I know because I didn't and I can't think of anyone from my year who did. That doesn't mean you don't stay connected or that you can't stay friends. A year abroad is also expected by many employers in Germany these days, I don't know for sure what it is like in other places. But a year abroad opens many doors and is also a great experience. I learned a lot during mine and loved it. I would always recommend it as there are lots of scholarships that don't get used every year. I went on a scholarship too.

Obviously I don't know how close Elena still is to her friends from uni but I know that she did meet her roommate again because she shared it on instagram.

Tübingen is a good university and has a special programme for students who earned their undergraduate's degree abroad. She also earned a 2-1 which is good and with her degree being from Cambridge I don't doubt that she will have a great career.

The only thing I agree with is the boyfriend. He definitely seems to have a huge influence over her. Not exactly sure if it is for the better as I feel like he changed a good part of her personality but maybe it was just a part of her personality that she was hiding before? I can't judge this but I wish her happiness and hope everything goes well for them if that is what she wants and what makes her happy.

Also a 2:1 from Cambridge should get you into pretty much all postgraduate programmes in Cambridge and the rest of the UK (most of the rest of the world). Doesn't mean that you can't still get rejected as it also depends on internships, interviews etc. but grade-wise she's 100% fine. I don't think Tübingen was chosen because she had no other choice, I think it was a deliberate decision.

And usually you make friends from all over the world during a year abroad and lots of connections so it is pretty much the opposite of anti-social. It wasn't her fault the pandemic happened and her classes were done online.
 

xoxoxo13

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I can but it's him answering (sorry if that wasn't clear), so not sure he'll say anything about that

info so far:
  • they are dating!
  • he's from Stuttgart
  • his favorite tiktok content of hers is when she talks about german rap every week
  • his favorite book is improbable by adam fawer
  • he likes that her sense of humor is the same irl as in her videos
  • first thing he noticed about her was her hair
  • seems like he has graduated from uni already, did not study law
  • cereal first
  • nutella with butter
  • he gets her mcdonalds sometimes
  • his favorite german rap songs are Rhythmus meines Lebens by Kool Savas and Tempelhofer Junge by Bushido
  • someone asked if he was a vegetable what would he be and he replied with an aubergine emoji lol
can you ask if he speaks any other languages? and if he prefers her content in english or german?
 

ellieaniston021

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Not OP but because she doesn't actually "read," she only likes the aesthetic of "being a reader." Take a look at her Goodreads reviews and you'll see.
Oof for some reason I can't access her goodread reviews. Could you tell me what exactly makes you think that she doesn't actually read? She's always seemed genuine to me
 

tulip505

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Has Elena mentioned her plans after finishing undergrad? I don't think she has mentioned applying for grad jobs, so is she thinking of going down the masters/phd route?
 

ellieaniston021

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just scrolled through her tiktok for a couple minutes (from her most recent to the beginning of february) and the most recent info i could find was a tiktok from 10/04 saying she went on a date with her crush (still calling him crush, not bf) *but* there's also one from 09/03 listing "things to make elena happy" and the last one is her holding someones hand and the text says "him" that looks couple-y imo (people in the comments seem to think the same and she hasn't clarified) and in the tiktok from 08/03 she says she had her first kiss this year. The one video that I saw that has more info is from 24/02 and she says they're really close friends. Apparently he dm'ed her on ig (a while back?) and asked her out, she said yes but only as friends, so they became close friends but she now has a crush on him [she says the same thing in a "everybody makes mistakes" tiktok on 01/02]. She initially only agreed to meet him bc he also likes German Rap (Deutschrap). He speaks German (she doesn't say whether he is German) and watches her tiktoks. He recommended her the first book in a series and she liked it and also bought book 2 and 3 (she points at it but I can't tell what book it is).

If there's a specific video you'd like me to translate, lmk, I'd be happy to! I haven't watched all videos, if they seemed like they had nothing to do with the guy I scrolled, so I might've missed something.

unrelated but the way she makes liking german rap her entire personality is kinda annoying
Thank you very much!! I agree it's a bit annoying that she makes certain things her entire personality, like german rap and McDonalds. I wish she talked in English though! Elena has never talked about guys and dating before and I'm interested to see how this will go.

I‘ve cringed myself into another orbit reading that summary of her tiktoks. She acts like she‘s 14
Honestly it's nice that she shares these moments with us, but the “things to make Elena happy – him” is giving me 14 year old girl vibes for some reason.
 
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Jillie88

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Sorry I know this thread is basically dead but does anyone still watch her tiktoks? I really don't know what to make of her content now or where she seems to be going with it
Yeah,I still watch her once in a while.She‘s published a book which is unsurprisingly a study guide. Her tik tok is a mix on monthly updates and random stuff.She also showed off her english on tik tok ,where she got a lot of praise from the german community that they love her British accent.