Yes! I read a quote a while ago that said that we have a life separate from our dogs, they don’t have that, we are there whole life, they don’t have anything but us. I only got my first dog 3 years ago and I will admit that before I got him I didn’t get it, I really didn’t, thought dog people were weird. Now I have my own I fully admit I was wrong.As many have said their lives are so short, they give us so much and are quite literally the best creatures on the planet. So whatever my dog wanted she got.
It actually is sad. You can justify it all you like at the end of the day you care more about the appearance of a bloody bed or sofa than having them comfortable and happy with you. Your tone in your posts says it all lol.It’s not sad at all. We give our dogs plenty of cuddles, on the floor. Just because you don’t want them on the sofa doesn’t mean they don’t get plenty of love and cuddlesimplying you love your dogs less because you don’t want them on the sofa is ridiculous.
We don’t allow ours (two labradors) on the sofa, and they aren’t allowed upstairs at all. Both dogs have, in the past, taken a fancy to sleeping on the sofa when we are out of the room! They cover it in hair so it’s not hard to tell when they’ve done it!
It’s not sad at all. We give our dogs plenty of cuddles, on the floor. Just because you don’t want them on the sofa doesn’t mean they don’t get plenty of love and cuddlesDogs should be a part of the family, they have short lives as it is and deserve to be loved and cuddled every chance they get. I don’t see the point in getting a dog if they can’t even have a cuddle on the sofa with you, all they want is to love you. Sad really.
I can’t even lie, this breaks my heart. I hate leaving my pup for work even though she’s never on her own. I can see the sadnes in her eyes as she watches me out the windowYES!!!
my MIL has a little dog. He’s beautiful and so well behaved. He’s only allowed in the kitchen. So, when they watch telly, he sits there on his own. All the time, just in the kitchen. Why bother having him?
My dog is allowed everywhere. He is family. He does sleep at night on the landing in his bed. Outside our room. He can sleep on our bed in the day if he wants. People forget that dogs have baths and flea treatments that cover them monthly. There is no harm. It does depend on owners and their dogs. My dog is really loving. He wants cuddles and love. I can't ban him from anywhere. He can't sleep in my bed at night for fear of my husband squashing himI think there are two types of owners: people who have “dogs”, and people who have “fur-babies.” Definitely the latter...Ours are allowed everywhere, they’re the children we’ll never get to have.
My dogs are extremely happy and as comfortable as they can be, thanks for worrying though. Our eldest girl is very arthritic now and close to the end of her life so we are doing all we can to make her last months happy. Our big boy is full of love and cuddles, which he gets loads of. I don’t give a toss about the appearance of my sofa. I have 3 young kids. Our sofas are not in any way pristine. Please don’t make assumptions about me, just because you do things differently. Our biggest dog weighs 7 stone. I don’t want him ever thinking about jumping on a sofa when my small kids are on there.It actually is sad. You can justify it all you like at the end of the day you care more about the appearance of a bloody bed or sofa than having them comfortable and happy with you. Your tone in your posts says it all lol.