Does anyone hate their job? #3

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No, they're just mad that you're potentially leaving.
 
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In your situation with the dwp I don't think you're wrong. Do you normally have to justify an absence with e.g. a sick note? My initial thought was that maybe they just needed to record why you wouldn't be in that day but this "it's unprofessional" is a bit odd to me and sounds more like someone is realizing that zero-hour contracts aren't what people are staying for. I also don't quite get why they would want to call your work coach, and quite frankly find that a bit alarming. Can you contact your coach yourself and explain the situation there? Dwp asks you to apply, which you did with good success, you got that interview already, so why would they need to call them now?

Anyway, wishing you good luck with the interview and don't think about your current job doing it!
 
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My current boss says it’s because I am taking time off work to fulfill my commitments for the dwp, I explained that i have to do what they say pretty much due to me being in receipt of benefits.
The dwp are happy I have some what of a job but realistically it’s not taking me off benefits so obviously they require more hours.

I mentioned this to my workplace and that’s why they want to speak to my work coach because they think that the dwp needs to lay off me due to me having a job, they don’t realise that it’s not enough hours.

Thank you
 
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@Meg78 Personally, I think it’s very telling that the issues are with them and not you. I mean they’re still in the same position that you moved on from years ago. You recognized that you could do better and you are thankfully not in that place anymore, and there’s nothing they can do to you anymore.

It is also very normal to still experience all this pain years later, and to get triggered by things. I left a toxic job more than 2 years ago and it still haunts me. For about a year, I used to get overly anxious about things my current team would do. Would they be snide and tear apart my work when giving feedback? Would they give me the silent treatment? Would they try to use my words against me if I ever did say something? While my anxieties were valid, I did realise that I was attributing the words of others to my new work colleagues (all of who are generally quite professional), which isn’t fair either.

I think as another poster has said, getting a bit more closure on this would help you. It benefited me to talk to a therapist about my previous endeavors too.
 
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My boss is a stealthy and has done a lot of shady stuff including reorgs to get rid of people he didn’t like. Now it’s become apparent he’s pitting me against a coworker as a distraction from his own failings. Unfortunately this person is falling for it and has been very combative with me off the bat and it dawned on me what he’s done.

He has a habit of playing favourites and previously gave one person a lot of power and it didn’t work out. He’s now trying to do this with them. I had a meeting where I got no support and this coworker was super hostile and openly laughing at my explanation. He sat there and agreed with them. But something after told me to revisit my job description and what I was saying was there in black and white. He’s essentially gaslit me in the meeting as he is diluting my role and promising them things behind the scenes.

I intend to mediate with the coworker to create a professional united front and hopefully they won’t be too blinded by his love bombing, but it is a big deal to switch my number one role in my job description without consultation, right? We didn’t collectively pull him in the last team which led to a restructure and him getting away with poor management, so I am documenting everything and going to follow through on this. My view is it’s untenable anyway as I’m not playing favourites and having my career balance on this.
 
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I’ve got major Sunday scaries as I’ve been off for a week and for some reason, I always get scared that I’ll get the sack when I get back.

I know I’m underperforming currently which doesn’t help ease my nerves. Logged in to check my emails and a job I was doing has been taken away from me to go in house as it was for another office. It wasn’t necessarily a bad email, it was just an email stating that they’d get someone else to do it while I’m away as that office love a quick turnaround, but something within me honestly feels so ill like I’m going to get the sack or something once they realise how bad it was.
 
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Sick of lazy people on my team who think answering their own work mobile is beneath them and so their call gets diverted me to and I get all their shit to sort out!
Rant over.
 
Sick of lazy people on my team who think answering their own work mobile is beneath them and so their call gets diverted me to and I get all their shit to sort out!
Rant over.
Is there a reason why they don’t? Have you tried speaking to them about it. Some people may be really nervous and uncomfortable speaking on the phone
 
Is there a reason why they don’t? Have you tried speaking to them about it. Some people may be really nervous and uncomfortable speaking on the phone
This person loves the sound of their own voice, so I don’t think that’s a problem. They’ve already been warned once that if they don’t answer their phone when wfh, we’ll be made to work in the office since they can’t be trusted. Which isn’t fair on everyone else.
 
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