My brother in law is currently staying with my husband and I on holiday and his fiancé is at home as she’s working.
He’s been on bumble and tinder, I know for 100% because he matched/messaged one of my friends who then messaged me. He’s also now stayed out for the last two nights and come back in the morning….
He has said they are having problems and are going to break up etc but cheating is cheating. I did try to suggest to him if he is definitely breaking up then to do it while he’s away but he ‘cba with the hassle’ 🫣.
Previously I’ve told his fiancé about things and she always throws me under the bus which then strains my relationships with my husbands family and to some extent my husband. They’re all of the opinion to not get involved - a.k.a let the little get away with murder. He has cheated before and she does know but somehow between him, his parents and her parents they all convinced her to go back with him and then she was rather content once she got a ring.
He’s sneaky, has a private instagram with his fiancé on and a public ‘work’ account without her on. He’s covered his bases that whoever he’s cheating with wouldn’t accidentally find out.
Any ideas how to tell his fiancé anonymously without it coming back to me? . Or should I just leave it? I feel like I’m keeping his dirty secrets
He’s been on bumble and tinder, I know for 100% because he matched/messaged one of my friends who then messaged me. He’s also now stayed out for the last two nights and come back in the morning….
He has said they are having problems and are going to break up etc but cheating is cheating. I did try to suggest to him if he is definitely breaking up then to do it while he’s away but he ‘cba with the hassle’ 🫣.
Previously I’ve told his fiancé about things and she always throws me under the bus which then strains my relationships with my husbands family and to some extent my husband. They’re all of the opinion to not get involved - a.k.a let the little get away with murder. He has cheated before and she does know but somehow between him, his parents and her parents they all convinced her to go back with him and then she was rather content once she got a ring.
He’s sneaky, has a private instagram with his fiancé on and a public ‘work’ account without her on. He’s covered his bases that whoever he’s cheating with wouldn’t accidentally find out.
Any ideas how to tell his fiancé anonymously without it coming back to me? . Or should I just leave it? I feel like I’m keeping his dirty secrets