It is not my own insecurities that she brings up. I don't know of you have been through fertility treatment but if you have you will know that you second guess every single aspect of what you do in your life before, during and after. What cosmetics you use, what cleaning products, what you eat, whether you took your injection or pills 2 minutes too early or late, should you have bent down to pick up that pen, whether that twinge is your Godforsaken period coming again, if your womb lining is 0.05mm too little or too much, if the phonecall you will get in the morning will tell you that none of your embryos made it to day 5 blastocysts, if the credit union are going to turn down yet another loan for "home improvement", if you don't chat to work colleagues today because you're so afraid you are going to start crying, if you hear another pregnancy announcement your heart is going to break into a million pieces - again. Denise did 9 IVF cycles and was blessed to have her daughter and really acknowledged that, to then go on and have a natural pregnancy and to state in various ways at various times that is was as a result of journalling, positive thinking and manifesting is just so disingenuous it actually beggars belief. I'm not insecure, I'm incredulous that she thinks it is ok to spout this horseshit having gone through numerous fertility treatments herself!! If she just said it was luck - grand but the bull of this manifestation balls!!!