A recap of some of the most liked or reacted-to posts of the last thread:
1.
@blueblue who spoke these wise words: Being a good guy is like being powerful, if you have to say you are, you aren't.
2.
@Laughalong who shared some encouraging words: I think the point I’m trying to make is that it really does come when you least expect it, and the right person will act correct from the beginning without being told. You’ll never be wondering, because they’ll text first, reply quickly and the effort won’t waiver or be inconsistent. I was under the impression you just “had” to deal with
duck boy behaviour - with the right person you won’t
3.
@EndofInfluencers who shared: Some of you are playing yourselves on here.
If you want want casual, look for casual.
If you want a relationship, don’t act like you’re really ok with casual and sleep with a complete stranger you’ve met off the internet on the first or second time of meeting them hoping they’ll magically want a relationship with you. A complete stranger owes you nothing.
4.
@sleepflowers who shared their views regarding 5 ft 6 men and their bedroom preferences:
Anyway you'll never convince me any cishet man who describes himself as a 'dom' on a public platform isn't just a massive misogynist who wants an acceptable way to act out his disgusting p*rn addiction and hatred of women
5.
@Carapop who dropped this truth bomb:
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@LaBlonde who has encountered a number of bed photo’s and even (hold on to your knickers ladies) a bed video: the main thing i hate about bed selfies is that they’re always doing this face
in an attempt to look like they’ve adorably woken just woken up and want you to “cuddle” or something. plus then i get into the ick of imagining them holding the phone above themselves, taking several photos and picking the one that they think makes them look the most alluring and then i just want to vomit.
there is a guy on south wales bumble, control yourself ladies, who has a bed VIDEO where he sort of gently blinked at the camera and smiled in a hey you way and i swear my phone screen almost cracked form the level of ick.
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@IGiveUp22 who dated a man that was jealous of a cat… and was worried about the fact that he was losing the attention competition to a cat
: in the response he put “so you’d pick your cat, who is like your child, over having a real child with a man
”
Huh???? What is this man????
I just wrote something similar to this: it’s weird that you think I’d have to choose and that the two things couldn’t co exist. Plus my ideal partner wouldn’t make me pick between something so important to me and them. I don’t think we’re compatible, I wish you all the best in your search!
& I unmatched.
honestly, hinge should be UNHINGED
8.
@BWGossip who shared her mother’s sage advice: I'll say what my mother used to say when I was a kid: better alone than in bad company
9.
@SpindleWhorl who found her very own Prince Charming:
10. And lastly,
@sleepflowers who asked the question of all questions: Men and their blimmin 'spontaneous adventures'
duck off honestly why don't they spontaneously get some morals
Darlings, lots of heartache was shared during the last thread. I’m hoping for more happiness and good times for all of us, whether that’s with or without a partner.
everyone. I really do appreciate it. Yes, he was 5’6 on his profile. Although I think he was shorter 
he’d mentioned a speech he’d given for work in which he stated “size matters, and I know coming from a 5’5 man”. I literally don’t care about height but I know of plenty women who do, so good luck to him.
thank you
