Crystal, hon, if you’re reading this, I
implore you to reconsider mentioning that you’re a solo mama every bloody day, for a number of reasons:
1. I’m no manifestation expert and I don’t subscribe, but you
DO. Isn’t the first rule of #thesecret, to be very selective about the words you say and frame them like you already have [insert desired result here]. If you keep saying your a solo mama to the universe - according to your logic - that’s what you’re going to keep getting more of!!! No man for you. If you’re going to spout messages that you’re a manifesting expert, should probs know the basics.
2. More importantly, it’s
realllllllly important that you make a distinction between “single mum” and “solo mum”. The former implies you are single as a relationship status but co-parenting and sharing the responsibility of raising human beings. The latter is reserved for parents who are
actually raising their children solely themselves (perhaps the other parent passed away, is stationed o/s or abandoned the relationship and child). These individuals have ZERO support and are truly doing it all themselves. The way you rabbit on, you’d think you’re raising these boys 100% custody FFS. It’s got to be hugely insulting for those people who are genuinely struggling - unlike you at 10% custody or whatever pittance access you have.
Now I was a single mum for about 5yrs at one point, and whilst it became part of my identity for a while, it certainly was not my
entire identity and something that I talked about non-stop.
It’s totally fine to share that it can be tougher for single parent families, but let’s think more about the impact of those challenges on the children as much as the adult - if not more, yeah? And stop taking it to next level victimhood status for the pure aim of trying to emotionally manipulate your audience in the feign hopes of retaining their attention.