Love this. We are so much better then what we were.I think there is a lot to be positive about.
1. we have 3 approved vaccines
2. The rollout is gaining momentum
3. Sunset timings are a few mins longer each day (in Uk, giving us a bit more daylight, it helps)
4. We have made it through mid jan
5. We have a free NHS - in the US ambulances are known to leave you roadside bleeding if you don’t have insurance cover!
I’m sorry to be a negative nancy here but things starting to get better in 2021 just aren’t enough for me. I completely agree that some things will probably improve, but being allowed to go to a non-essential shop again or being allowed to meet in a group of 6 outside again for example just doesn’t make me feel any better. Especially when there is the risk of these little ‘freedoms’ being taken away again at the drop of a hat.I know it doesn't seem like it right now and im just one of many from the outside looking in, but im really feeling positive for you guys. Things will start to get better now xx
Did you know there are sound videos on Youtube for offices? Background chatting, keyboard typing, photocopying etc. Its quite soothing for those that miss the office apparently. There's also coffee shop ones for those who like that sound too. I love the internet sometimes.Sadly I really like having bbc parliament on in the background whilst I work (miss the office chat),
Think they are starting regular testing for school staffMy Mum is having a COVID test on Monday as the school she works at is demanding all staff have one...my question is...why did they allow all the staff to go in for 2 weeks before doing this?! Not sure if it’s just my local area this has happened...but wow what a mess up.
Tbh although terrible to say if it was more deadly it would be gone quicker the diseases that linger are worse in the long term.Well, Israel has seen a drop in infection rates with the vaccine, which is very good news!
And at least COVID is not as bad as Polio, TB, Bubonic plague and many other diseases. Yes Long COVID is a problem, and people unfortunately die, but can you imagine how would it feel if COVID had the mortality rate of bubonic plague, which is around 40%?
And we are so well of with the medical science! Compare this to the Spanish flu - if this happened 100 years ago, lot more people wouldn’t have survived. We can treat it, we can save people from dying, we have a vaccine that can help with seriousness of the disease. And most of us are in the UK, with good and free healthcare system, where at least you don’t need to worry how your grandparents are going to pay for the vaccine or treatment in hospital.
I am feeling all doom and gloom frequently but I try to remind myself of the positives.
But we could literally meet people inside houses this (I mean last summer!) summer. There is nothing to suggest that this summer will be worse than last?It’s terrible that we are already writing off 2021. I wrote it off about a week ago. I can see shops and stuff opening up again but I think we are a very long way away from meeting people in their houses and ditching face masks.
Point 3, definitely. I think we all underestimate how much of an effect this has.I think there is a lot to be positive about.
1. we have 3 approved vaccines
2. The rollout is gaining momentum
3. Sunset timings are a few mins longer each day (in Uk, giving us a bit more daylight, it helps)
4. We have made it through mid jan
5. We have a free NHS - in the US ambulances are known to leave you roadside bleeding if you don’t have insurance cover!
I also feel like I’m wasting time with this lock-in, however we do have HOPE.
let me just repeat that to myself each day.
Israel have already seen a 33% decline since vaccinating people......I’m sorry to be a negative nancy here but things starting to get better in 2021 just aren’t enough for me. I completely agree that some things will probably improve, but being allowed to go to a non-essential shop again or being allowed to meet in a group of 6 outside again for example just doesn’t make me feel any better. Especially when there is the risk of these little ‘freedoms’ being taken away again at the drop of a hat.
Do people honestly think we’ll be hugging family again this year? Or travelling anywhere we fancy going (not just the few places we’re allowed and with the fear that plans will be cancelled as soon as they’re made)? Or going back to work? Or just generally having rules relaxed without worrying about that all changing again in 24 hours. Not trying to be a twat here, I’m genuinely interested in what people think.
Everyone has their own personal circumstances. If you are finding it tough, you are finding it tough. I try to find positives as much as I can but I do have times when I struggle and it's OK to admit that. Sending you a virtual hug xxDoes anyone else feel guilty for finding the pandemic so difficult when others have it worse? I've not had any family members catch it let alone become seriously ill or die. I can work from home. I'm introverted and don't do much socially anyway. I'm in the same financial position I was previously. I have no children to be home schooled... yet I'm starting to struggle a lot, and it feels selfish given my circumstances.
Not selfish at all our lives have been turned upside down we’ve all a right to be angry no matter what position we’re in.Does anyone else feel guilty for finding the pandemic so difficult when others have it worse? I've not had any family members catch it let alone become seriously ill or die. I can work from home. I'm introverted and don't do much socially anyway. I'm in the same financial position I was previously. I have no children to be home schooled... yet I'm starting to struggle a lot, and it feels selfish given my circumstances.
Would you feel guilty about being happy because someone else is happier or having a better time? Of course you wouldn't. Don't invalidate your experience and feelings by comparing to others.Does anyone else feel guilty for finding the pandemic so difficult when others have it worse? I've not had any family members catch it let alone become seriously ill or die. I can work from home. I'm introverted and don't do much socially anyway. I'm in the same financial position I was previously. I have no children to be home schooled... yet I'm starting to struggle a lot, and it feels selfish given my circumstances.
You shouldn't feel guilty. I would find it odd if anyone wasn't struggling in some way with what we have all gone through.Does anyone else feel guilty for finding the pandemic so difficult when others have it worse? I've not had any family members catch it let alone become seriously ill or die. I can work from home. I'm introverted and don't do much socially anyway. I'm in the same financial position I was previously. I have no children to be home schooled... yet I'm starting to struggle a lot, and it feels selfish given my circumstances.
Honestly, you’ll get to 31 and realise 30th birthdays mean absolutely nothingFeeling sad about probably not being able to celebrate my 30th birthday in March the way I would have wanted to. It’s not like I’d have had a massive party, probably would have just gone for a meal with all my family. Now it looks like another year of doorstep drop offs and a McDonald’s delivery for dinner. Last year was meant to be in Disneyland for my birthday and it got cancelled days before because of all this crap. Two birthdays lost because of this utter shit, may as well pretend it’s just a normal day. There’s going to be nothing different or special about it at all. Partner will be at work so I’ll still have to do all the home schooling. It’s just shit.
Sorry I know it’s only a minor thing in the grand scheme of things but I always imagined my 30th birthday being a sort of ‘milestone’ birthday, everyone I know who’s turned 30 always had a big fuss made of them. I just wish I had something to look forward to.
I totally understand how you feel. I’m 40 later this year and I’ve always said: I won’t be celebrating it here, I want to be on the most amazing, unforgettable holiday ever. The way it’s going, I can’t see it happening either. Not just because of travel restrictions and the virus but also because I have taken a major pay cut this year due to being made redundant and now working part time for a much lower wage. I know people say, oh you can celebrate later on but it’s not the same.Feeling sad about probably not being able to celebrate my 30th birthday in March the way I would have wanted to. It’s not like I’d have had a massive party, probably would have just gone for a meal with all my family. Now it looks like another year of doorstep drop offs and a McDonald’s delivery for dinner. Last year was meant to be in Disneyland for my birthday and it got cancelled days before because of all this crap. Two birthdays lost because of this utter shit, may as well pretend it’s just a normal day. There’s going to be nothing different or special about it at all. Partner will be at work so I’ll still have to do all the home schooling. It’s just shit.
Sorry I know it’s only a minor thing in the grand scheme of things but I always imagined my 30th birthday being a sort of ‘milestone’ birthday, everyone I know who’s turned 30 always had a big fuss made of them. I just wish I had something to look forward to.
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