Well my mum finally got her wish and the minute (second) the rain stopped there was a ring at the doorbell and she waiting with open arms for her hugs
We then had to put MIL out of her misery and told her she better come get her hugs as well
They all had big smiles on their faces and it was pretty sweet
For me that was 100 times better than anything else being lifted.
It was super strange and the adults all still had to stay apart. I kept trying to keep the kids back then remembering it was ok. It was also hard then to not start drifting to close to the adults it did take a lot of thought to keep us all right