I feel strongly that children need to be back at school, even though I know it will inevitably cause the virus to spread. I think the 'adults' need to be as careful, safe, sensible, and generally responsible as they possibly can to counter-balance this necessity. I don't mean 'don't go out' but try to avoid crowds, wash hands, wear masks on public transport, etc, etc. At the end of the day, we are just trying to keep this to a level that the NHS can reasonably cope, because until there's a vaccine its not going to disappear.
I have a 12 and a 13 year old. I have decided this week that I have to treat them as young adults, not children, and trust them to get on with their school work or choose not to and understand that will have (long-term) consequences of falling behind their piers. I have to let them decide when bedtime is, because there's really nothing for them to get up early for. I have to let them decide how many hours of X-Box, Tik Tok, YouTube or binge watching Netflix is too much. Under normal circumstances, I would not expect them to take on this level of responsibility, but with two parents working full-time (me from home, my husband not), and them at home all the time, I cannot be their teacher or their minder. I would make a terrible teacher, and I always knew that which is why I didn't ever contemplate it as a career! I figured I could be a good parent in other ways, without being a 'teacher' to them, and that was fine because they'd be at school to be educated. Their school has been brilliant, so far as it can be under the circumstances, but they are bored, unmotivated, lazy, sleeping terribly and possibly depressed. I keep trying to 'fix' all of this, but I can't. I can be a super-strict parent, but then we are all miserable. I can try to force them out of the house to do 'fun' activities, but they don't want to do it with me, they want to be with their friends - not just for an hour or two here and there, in the garden/outside, but ALL the time. At school, after school, over the weekend, playing contact sports, shopping, for sleepovers. Like it used to be. Like it should be. Let them be kids before they're all grown up.