She’s honestly such an mole. Does she personally live with them and know how their relationship and or marriage works? No! Then don’t speak on behalf of them you miserable bleach haired witch.
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That’s so true! Half expecting her to break down what semiotics are
Me too! I thought that was unnecessary and mean. I also enjoy Clem and her take on marriage in general and I don't usually mind the way she calls out people but I felt that one was in poor form.
She could have pointed out that wearing a pink dress doesn't change the marriage in the long-run. Didnt have to share a specific person or event.
She ignores nuance. Marriage isn't a monolith
She did this last year to a couple that had their marriage ceremony in the crypt downstairs instead of in the main part of the cathedral, saying similar things like why do they think they're so special, like chill, its a personal choice not affecting anyone or their actual relationship
Thats pretty mean. To be her friend and accepted by her I guess you have to be single! Not sure what her thoughts are on same sex marriage or is it only marriage to men that she’s got issues with.
Personally I’ve never married but I’m not going to dis happily married couples. I think it makes more sense for her focus to be on problem relationships or problems in relationships. It’s never black and white. She still seems to enjoy intimacy with men, what if she fell in love?
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She had a long term relationship with a man and she had a child with him. I guess being a single parent is acceptable?
THIS. 100% this.
I wonder if she's friends with any married people and if so do they politely nod and agree with her take or debate her on it?
Yeah sometimes she just comes off bitter and so completely black or white. No marriage is good, ever. It can’t be as that would challenge her ‘brand’.
Personally I’m with Clem on this one but she still comes off as an mole for posting it on her stories.
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Also I find her whole disdain for marriage (bowing down to patriarchy) hypocritical when she fills her face with too much filler (her lips look bleeping awful) and skin treatments that make her skin look like it has enough oil to fry an omelette. To me it seems like it is also in a way allowing patriarchy to affect your self esteem.
This is awful. There are many things she could pick to whinge about at the moment *cough cough Deni and his damage to the trans and queer community and making light of domestic violence, but she chooses this?! Who cares if people chose to get married, and I say this as someone who is not married!
Gee she’s a bleep.
I clicked on the reel and the couple had a super colourful and bright “non traditional” wedding and ceremony. It suited them as a couple and obviously gives others ideas. I think shitting on marriage as a whole for everyone is just too black and white. What about those couples who have been together 50/60 years? Is her solution for us all to be alone? Guess the answers are all in her book which is the purpose of the stories!
Woah just watched the stories and she seems so bitter and downright nasty.
Jesus. Just watched her video about the wedding. Is that a little dog at her mate ex friend Amy who got married recently and then she never spoke of her again?
Has Clem ever been married? Who the duck cares what other people do. An inner city ultra white ultra privileged feminist isn't going to bring down the whole marriage/wedding idea. We know what we're getting ourselves into.
Has Clem ever been married? Who the duck cares what other people do. An inner city ultra white ultra privileged feminist isn't going to bring down the whole marriage/wedding idea. We know what we're getting ourselves into.
is her bottom lip bigger now as well? Is that a thing?
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I am with you on this. Of all the things to concentrate on !
Im not being mean but what is happening to her face? It’s now Lumpy in parts. There are strange lumps that appear on the lower sides of her mouth when she makes certain facial expressions.
Is that what happens with filler I thought she looked fine before?
Is that what happens with filler I thought she looked fine before?
It’s just mean spirited. Make your comments if you must, but phrase it generally instead of sharing a reel or someone’s actual wedding and saying it’s tit.
Snarking on it privately if it’s not to your taste is one thing, but it’s really rude to essentially leave a comment on it.
Snarking on it privately if it’s not to your taste is one thing, but it’s really rude to essentially leave a comment on it.
strange lumps around mouth and in forehead. Is that from cosmetics?
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I don’t mean normal lines either. It’s like something moving underneath her skin.
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Clem has her place being divisive. For someone I often want to high-5, I equally want to scrag fight. We have bigger fish to fry Clem!
This! So often I'm like YES, then every now and again she posts something that just makes me roll my eyes and think "God get a life."
So much of what she rails against marriage for is equally applicable to a de facto coupling, so really what she's witching about is heteronormative relationships. Her points about the history of marriage are solid and stand up - it's the total lack of context around modern marriage that makes me eye-roll. Unhealthy relationships are bad, yes. Male toxicity needs to be called out, yes. But not all men are awful (I hate that you can't say "not all men" now without feeling like a fool) and not all straight relationships are toxic. The majority of the world is straight, and humans are a social species so most of us would like to have a romantic companion. Rather than say we should all get in the bin and that be that, isn't it good that we embrace healthy companionship and celebrate righting the wrongs of decades past (where we do)? It's so diminutive and close-minded to assume all women in a relationship with a man are somehow being taken advantage of and just too dim to see it.
(She also seems to expect all men to think and behave like women, and that's the crux of the issue, which is just so bleeping arrogant and dismissive of some pretty core, basic biological differences.)
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