I think everyone should just leave CHL alone to grieve. She has enough to deal with without having people bring added stress. I think the reason she told people she had lost her son is because she was quiet and people were messaging asking if she was ok. So rather than repeat herself and relive it she obviously found it better to tell people in a story which is totally understandable.
She hasn’t asked anyone for money. TRHOH put a story up saying if anyone would like to donate towards funeral costs she would give them the link. To lose a child is hard enough without added financial strain so many people including carol wanted to help in any way they can.
I truly hope people can see beyond the drama and let her grieve in peace x