Just wanted to update and
@aggytha say again, maybe that hospital option would be good.
This disimpaction has been a nightmare. It’s horrible, everyone is miserable, it’s not even working as it should. We’ve had weeks now of pain, trauma, tears. LO seems to think every drink is poison, is reluctant to eat because they don’t want to ‘create’ poo, will barely wee in case a poo comes out. It’s made the problem 100x worse. Sleep is disrupted, we can’t go anywhere or have to come home if we do, they’ve missed nursery and activities and their behaviour is all over the shop.
They’ve been potty trained for as long as I remember now but after initial reluctance, is now asking for a nappy which we’re allowing due to leaks/risk of an accident (they’re not actively going in it but it can’t be good).
We’re now on to the next stage of a bowel stimulant but that’s not even working yet.
New baby is coming in 8 weeks latest and we’re in a position of being back to on and off co-sleeping and nappies, I even got a kick to the tummy earlier. We want to enjoy our time but can’t and my heart breaks because getting ‘serious’ is the only way to get them to even sit on the potty for more than a moment to wee. “Mummy’s angry” or “Mummy please smile”
![Broken heart :broken_heart: 💔](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f494.png)
And it’s not that they’re ‘naughty’, they’re scared and I’m doing the opposite of what you’d naturally want to do.
At least before we’d have a few good days, a few not so good then 1 or 2 really bad. At the moment it’s all bad. If there was another way, I’d 100% take it.
(I don’t mean that to be self pitying, it’s them I’m worried for but we are completely at a loss and scared of long term implications)