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This is probs gonna be a long comment be warned ![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
A friend sent me this loons tiktok when her whole bowel saga began as I have been in a similar boat. I had cancer in 2015 at the ripe age of 20, had 3/4 of my pancreas removed, spleen and gallbladder in one go and nearly died from complications but I’m still here, 7 years NED!!
a year later to the day of my surgery I had emergency surgery as I had a small bowel obstruction, I was throwing up the contents of my bowel uncontrollably and I have primary adrenal insufficiency. I was 21 and had to consent for a stoma, luckily woke up without it and they saved mt bowel and removed the scar tissue. I then had a subacute obstruction, same symptoms but caught early treated with complete bowel rest, ng tube and gastrograffin (contrast dye and mega strong laxatives!) and it cleared. Since then I’ve had another major operation to rebuild mt abdomen. 10 days later I was in theatre having the repair undone, 40cms of mesh removed and had to consent for my abdomen to be left without mesh and with a stoma due to scar tissue again. It just loves mt small bowel. Luckily woke up with the mesh replaced and no stoma. I’m now having frequent subacute bowel obstructions regularly requiring admission, ng tube. Bowel rest and gastrograffin and laxatives down the tube which works. I also have IBD- UC and also a lazy bowel due to opiates prescribed due to cancer and chronic pain. My intake is minimal and more often than not my bowel works. I’ve also had many episodes of ileus where my bowel stops working due to trauma, handling in surgery etc.
how the hell she managed to go on for so long with no bowel nonevent, allegedly. Despite all the laxatives and bowel prep, did she even take them or do anything to help herself?! Necking Imodium and opiates will fuck your bowel motility sideways and she seemed to relish the attention she got from being “sick”. I will do anything to avoid surgery although I desperately need more which is in the pipeline to do a complete abdominal wall repair and reconstruction, again with a hernia repair.
I would give my left arm to not have any illnesses. Whenever I have an obstruction I get completely terrified of surgery resulting in a stoma, for me it is a massive fear. I have little peripheral access so have piccs whenever an inpatient or femoral and central lines which save my life due to needing masses of iv steroids to keep me alive. Why was she so defensive about having one?!! She could get IV morphine, every opiate users dream. I usually end up with a PCA of fentanyl which works well but she’s on another planet. Crying on tiktok saying her pain relief wasn’t working…as she took it. Give it a chance babes.
every hospital admission is traumatic mentally and physically as my life which I’ve rebuilt has to go on hold.
she clearly has munchausens or some underlying mental health condition. The fact she is pretty much the Poundland version of QVC astounds me, particularly when she took her shite to shell out into the hospital?! If she was in a ward with me I’d probably end up ramming her phone where the sun doesn’t shine and threaten her with a drip stand to be quiet. I don’t think she understands how having a stoma will affect her long term and I’m honestly in disbelief that someone operated on her when the issue is likely caused by eating Imodium like sweets and taking as many opiates as she can, it’ll just happen again. I’m gonna delve into her previous thread as I’ve read it’s wild. I wish she knew what it is like to live with debilitating and life limiting chronic illnesses and understood how it impacts every aspect of her life.
im 27 with a stomach that looks like it’s been hacked at by a blind mouse with a Stanley knife, I’m currently having a subacute obstruction but I’m not on tiktok begging for attention of validation selling a shitty shower head or sliders from shoe zone. Whenever this happens I have to put my life on hold that I’ve spent time rebuilding. I went from working full time in the NHS and going out, festivals, seeing friends and going to the gym to being in hospital with a tube up my nose, nil by mouth having gastrograffin poured down said tube, iv meds and bed bound. However, Cherine wouldn’t understand as she has no life except for being “unwell” and selling tat you’d find in poundstrecher.
cherine if you read this, grow up and sort your life out. Maybe ask your gp for help with your addiction instead of a fucking go fund me cause your lazy ass won’t fund anything for herself. get help babes.
Soz for the rant x
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
A friend sent me this loons tiktok when her whole bowel saga began as I have been in a similar boat. I had cancer in 2015 at the ripe age of 20, had 3/4 of my pancreas removed, spleen and gallbladder in one go and nearly died from complications but I’m still here, 7 years NED!!
a year later to the day of my surgery I had emergency surgery as I had a small bowel obstruction, I was throwing up the contents of my bowel uncontrollably and I have primary adrenal insufficiency. I was 21 and had to consent for a stoma, luckily woke up without it and they saved mt bowel and removed the scar tissue. I then had a subacute obstruction, same symptoms but caught early treated with complete bowel rest, ng tube and gastrograffin (contrast dye and mega strong laxatives!) and it cleared. Since then I’ve had another major operation to rebuild mt abdomen. 10 days later I was in theatre having the repair undone, 40cms of mesh removed and had to consent for my abdomen to be left without mesh and with a stoma due to scar tissue again. It just loves mt small bowel. Luckily woke up with the mesh replaced and no stoma. I’m now having frequent subacute bowel obstructions regularly requiring admission, ng tube. Bowel rest and gastrograffin and laxatives down the tube which works. I also have IBD- UC and also a lazy bowel due to opiates prescribed due to cancer and chronic pain. My intake is minimal and more often than not my bowel works. I’ve also had many episodes of ileus where my bowel stops working due to trauma, handling in surgery etc.
how the hell she managed to go on for so long with no bowel nonevent, allegedly. Despite all the laxatives and bowel prep, did she even take them or do anything to help herself?! Necking Imodium and opiates will fuck your bowel motility sideways and she seemed to relish the attention she got from being “sick”. I will do anything to avoid surgery although I desperately need more which is in the pipeline to do a complete abdominal wall repair and reconstruction, again with a hernia repair.
I would give my left arm to not have any illnesses. Whenever I have an obstruction I get completely terrified of surgery resulting in a stoma, for me it is a massive fear. I have little peripheral access so have piccs whenever an inpatient or femoral and central lines which save my life due to needing masses of iv steroids to keep me alive. Why was she so defensive about having one?!! She could get IV morphine, every opiate users dream. I usually end up with a PCA of fentanyl which works well but she’s on another planet. Crying on tiktok saying her pain relief wasn’t working…as she took it. Give it a chance babes.
every hospital admission is traumatic mentally and physically as my life which I’ve rebuilt has to go on hold.
she clearly has munchausens or some underlying mental health condition. The fact she is pretty much the Poundland version of QVC astounds me, particularly when she took her shite to shell out into the hospital?! If she was in a ward with me I’d probably end up ramming her phone where the sun doesn’t shine and threaten her with a drip stand to be quiet. I don’t think she understands how having a stoma will affect her long term and I’m honestly in disbelief that someone operated on her when the issue is likely caused by eating Imodium like sweets and taking as many opiates as she can, it’ll just happen again. I’m gonna delve into her previous thread as I’ve read it’s wild. I wish she knew what it is like to live with debilitating and life limiting chronic illnesses and understood how it impacts every aspect of her life.
im 27 with a stomach that looks like it’s been hacked at by a blind mouse with a Stanley knife, I’m currently having a subacute obstruction but I’m not on tiktok begging for attention of validation selling a shitty shower head or sliders from shoe zone. Whenever this happens I have to put my life on hold that I’ve spent time rebuilding. I went from working full time in the NHS and going out, festivals, seeing friends and going to the gym to being in hospital with a tube up my nose, nil by mouth having gastrograffin poured down said tube, iv meds and bed bound. However, Cherine wouldn’t understand as she has no life except for being “unwell” and selling tat you’d find in poundstrecher.
cherine if you read this, grow up and sort your life out. Maybe ask your gp for help with your addiction instead of a fucking go fund me cause your lazy ass won’t fund anything for herself. get help babes.
Soz for the rant x
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