flappy_ears
Member
Carrie Hope Fletcher #38 Shes gone to Disney, not to war. Joel stop crying on the kitchen floor
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LilytheSunflower
New member
Hey everyone,
TW: This post talks about SA and similar topics.
With this whole engagement, this post may get lost in the masses but I came across this forum a while back and considered posting this and now I feel more than ever it's time to.
A while ago Joel posted about his favourite footballer being Ronaldo and I messaged him to explain why I didn't think he was the best role model or potentially why people might find that quite problematic. Regardless of my experience with SA, seeing the footballers face made me pretty uncomfortable and disappointed Joel calling him is favourite. I want to share with you the response I received. I have never EVER been spoken to in such a condescending and rude tone in my life. I was absolutely astounded by the way my kind and consecrate message was turned into an attack. It is evident to me that Joel has no respect for women and hurting people's feelings. I decided to email his agency with the proof of the disgusting was I was spoken to as a fan and I of course heard nothing back. So now I feel like I'd like to make you aware of what this man is truly like. Another warning- there are words and phrases thrown around in here that are very triggering.
TW: This post talks about SA and similar topics.
With this whole engagement, this post may get lost in the masses but I came across this forum a while back and considered posting this and now I feel more than ever it's time to.
A while ago Joel posted about his favourite footballer being Ronaldo and I messaged him to explain why I didn't think he was the best role model or potentially why people might find that quite problematic. Regardless of my experience with SA, seeing the footballers face made me pretty uncomfortable and disappointed Joel calling him is favourite. I want to share with you the response I received. I have never EVER been spoken to in such a condescending and rude tone in my life. I was absolutely astounded by the way my kind and consecrate message was turned into an attack. It is evident to me that Joel has no respect for women and hurting people's feelings. I decided to email his agency with the proof of the disgusting was I was spoken to as a fan and I of course heard nothing back. So now I feel like I'd like to make you aware of what this man is truly like. Another warning- there are words and phrases thrown around in here that are very triggering.
unt Bessie
Well-known member
Still got a whole thread to catch up on (superb tattling, gang) but thought you would enjoy this perspective: I started a new job the week after Carrie and Joel had their first date. I'm still in my probation period.
Sanctified
VIP Member
There's a fucking reason SA victims aren't taken seriously. Victims rarely get the justice because it is a 'he said, she said' situation. His attitude is absolutely disgusting.
EducatedRobot
Member
Sorry this is totally wrong. You're imposing your views onto her personal inbox , a person you've never met.
When people con themselves and fail to remember that she is literally a stranger online - this is why social media worries me. People blur the lines between actual real relationships and influencers they'll never know in person.
By all means, write your concerns here, but actually messaging her is going way too far imo.
Alice_Taylorx
Well-known member
Absolutely foolish the lengths this woman has gone to to avoid dealing with the pain of a single breakup.
Sanctified
VIP Member
I just want to say thank you to the users on here for sharing your experiences regarding the SA post and Joel's response. You're all wonderful, strong humans 
Joel can go fuck himself.
Joel can go fuck himself.
emma_meerkat
Member
Carrie Hope Fletcher #38: The #12DaysOfRedFlags
allthemyths
Well-known member
This video. I can't, guys, I just can't.
- There are so many things wrong with his behaviour. Toxic, controlling relationship. Been there, done that. We all see the signs, why can't she? What's up with her family, we does nobody talk to her? Was her mother seen at the party?
- The way he talks about her being away – as if she is terminally ill and about to die. His heavy breathing. Come on, mate, you're in your thirties. What the fuck is wrong with you?
- Even if Carrie were to go on a month-long musical tour around the world, wouldn't Joel have to be beaming all over? Knowing that she will return and indeed marry him?
- So, so, so many red flags. Yesterday I was entertained, today I'm honestly concerned for her. He pretends to suffer 24/7 in order to make her feel guilty at a distance, just to make sure she notices. Also imagine being Scott, ffs. Having to listen to Joel read Carrie's card aloud, wishing he was there. A nice slap in the face for the supposed best friend.
- I can't shake off the feeling that there's seriously something off with Joel. Of course he's a massive walking ick, but this is... something else. The sudden obsession with "Mr and Mrs M". Subtly making sure she won't ever travel without him again. I have the weird impression that he has not only planned the engagement, but probably already the wedding and the christening of their five children since day 1. He seems completely obsessive, manipulative and controlling.
Isn’t it weird that they haven’t had a single Valentine’s Day together yet