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Aimed at Brady?
Doubt it. Narcisstic people rarely take their own lives - they love themselves too muchFrom everything that’s been said, I’d say she had Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Same with my ex who was horribly abusive. They’re vile when they want to be, especially in drink when their guard is down but unbelievably charming to the outside world. Completely deluded sense of self & nothing ever their fault, no capability to take responsibility for their own actions.
He may as well have tagged AB in it
Because they never believe the criticism could include them. I bet a ton of influencers who've been using her name for their own purposes this week also like it.Why has Laura Whitmore liked that? She was first on the radio with a script that was pointing blame.
Yes, be kind to everyone ...but he has no right to speak out?!He may as well have tagged AB in it
But, he’s saying her tribe are spreading love etc - yet is shading AB. I understand why he’s doing it but I feel it’s a contradiction of the message he’s trying to give out.
Pretty much!Yes, be kind to everyone ...but he has no right to speak out?!
If anyone knows her well it’s her ex.... and that’s probably why they’re worried about what he will now say.Pretty much!![]()
Very common practice within private healthcare there is such stigma with BPD they are given bipolar!!! Kerry Catona being a good example of this !Is it possible she was offered help but said no thanks? She was well off, she could afford private health care. I would think then the problem is someone may pick the diagnosis they prefer or go to someone else when you don't like the treatment or think it's not working.
They feel many jumping on bandwagon and without facts, family support, all the info have decided to campaign and accuse on CF behalf. People not even that close to her, people no longer in her life and people just using it for likes and engagement. Its upsetting for her family and closest frienda to see that happening. They also do not want wrong people accused or hounded for this. They just want answers and consequences for the right people. That is all.He may as well have tagged AB in it![]()
But, he’s saying her tribe are spreading love etc - yet is shading AB. I understand why he’s doing it but I feel it’s a contradiction of the message he’s trying to give out.
That was so sad to read. I hope you are in a better place now and if not can seek support and help to get you through the darkness.I've been in her position but never had the guts although really really wanted to. I had kids at the end of the day. And that teaches me balls all. If you're in the grips of it that's it. She looked unwell on the valentines post, no way did it look like her. She was an absolute diamond of a girl but I never knew her, she could have suffered for years and no one could of known. Nothing is going to bring her back. No one is going to ever learn. Sadly, and I really mean that, in a years time 'be kind' will be a distant memory. It's very raw now but over time it won't be. Just remember the Flack of who she really was. A lovely bubbly person with a very distinctive laugh! All this means tit. Good night god bless![]()
I can really empathise with this point. I was in a relationship with a horribly abusive man but it was mostly behind closed doors, his friends just thought he was a bit of a fool in drink. It got much worse in pregnancy & after so I pressed charges for assault & we split obviously. Anyway we had a child & 14 years later he died suddenly; all his friends, family & acquaintances thought he was wonderful so his death was like a local tragedy. The local news was full of articles about him with quotes from people etc. his funeral was packed with crying people and they‘ve even set up a charity in his name ffs. The thing is, he was so adept at manipulating his own PR & he’d painted all his exes as crazy women, two of us had his kids, so it was difficult for his kids (who he was rarely around for & tight with money) to hear all the adulation from people that didn’t match their experience of him letting them down all the time. Even in death he managed to give me grief.That seems distasteful considering she was arrested, charged and about to go on trial for assault by beating. Her name wasn't cleared and now her face is being used as the image for Be Kind.
I read further back in this thread that one day, the victim will probably realise what has happened to him and what he went through. I hope he has a lot of support when that happens.
How much would it mess up your head if you had been injured by your partner, and then everyone was posting pictures of them laughing, looking beautiful, talking about how wonderful they were and saying #bekind. If everyone was going on about how no one should say mean things.
And you started to wonder "but that couldn't have been an accident. Why would she accidentally cut my head open? My phone was private, why was she snooping through it?" but you couldn't say anything, because everyone was saying #bekind.
Im doing 'OK' now but I really wasn't before. This has been quite a trigger for me but I've kept on keeping on. Thank you so much for your concernThat was so sad to read. I hope you are in a better place now and if not can seek support and help to get you through the darkness.![]()