Candice Brathwaite

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My two pence worth is this, a documentary by jodie Marsh on TLC should not be held up as a beacon of investigative journalism that holds any kind of authenticity or reflection of how the world of sex working/escorting truly works. And I say this as someone who used to work with sex workers from a public health perspective, and would regularly visit off street brothels and work with women who sold sex on the street.

The role of madam/pimp doesn't really exist.
There is a kind of business model (if you like) whereby more experienced or older sex workers would ensure younger and less experienced workers were safe and not being ripped or or putting themselves in vulnerable situations. It's not pretty or pleasant but it's the reality of sex work.

Both types of women selling sex are vulnerable in their own way and one should not be seen as more worthy of a victim status than the other. They both are.

However, this won't make for a good dialogue on a jodie Marsh documentary on a trash TV show.

I understand that Candice explained her role as a madam but to truly explain and go into the workings of selling sex takes a lot of time, and needs a non judgemental audience willing to listen and to try and understand it.

In addition, some of our best volunteers and employees within 3rd sector agencies who worked with sex workers, were themselves ex sex workers. I valued their previous experience and they could see things from a perspective I couldn't, having not sold sex myself. Some of them would probably be viewed as having previously been pimps/madams but I worked alongside them and valued them as work colleagues. And would have happily gone for after work drinks or had them over to my house.

I feel this 'revelation' about candice is simply a way to distract from MOD having been outed as a bully
Also,...’the role of pimp/madam doesn’t really exist ‘
But yet here Candi is admitting to being a madam...

 
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Bit late jumping on this and don’t know all the ins and outs re her brothel keeping but why the duck would you do a documentary about sex work if you didn’t want anybody to find out? She’s clearly fame hungry. I’ve done sex work and the one of the reason lots of escorts prefer selling sex rather than other forms of sex work is because it’s ephemeral. Most don’t allow pics/videos as opposed to webcamming or porn which could come back and haunt you, there may be rumours obviously but going on TV talking about it... Only people desperate for fame do that. It wasn’t ‘coming out’ in order to fight for sex worker rights or something commendable, just vanity.
 
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If I was her I wouldn't be celebrating with management just yet! That's asking for it.

All the information is out there and she's done far worse than MOD and lied about it.
 
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If I was her I wouldn't be celebrating with management just yet! That's asking for it.

All the information is out there and she's done far worse than MOD and lied about it.
Exactly. It’s crass and egotistical. Oh wait... no surprise.
 
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If I was her I wouldn't be celebrating with management just yet! That's asking for it.

All the information is out there and she's done far worse than MOD and lied about it.
It’s all smoke and mirrors isn’t it. If she looks like she has the backing of her management team, and the DM write a supportive article then the truth might disappear and all the brand deals might suddenly reappear....

I think probably not though but a girl has gotta try!

I also doubt that management team have dealt with an escort / madam before so are probably really out their depth. They can’t let her know that though!
 
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So I left this, deleted straight away. So I’ve unfollowed and can move on with my life. Any recommendations on anyone to follow who’s raising racial awareness in the UK (but better) greatly appreciated 👍🏼
You have said exactly what I’m thinking. She had a wonderful message, but on my eyes she has lost some authenticity.
 
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I have no issue with how Candice was or wasn’t a sex worker.
My concern has always been the way that she treated people when they questioned her in the past.
The aggression, the setting others on to then, the fact that her stories changed as much as the weather.
She isn’t a nice person. That has nothing to do with the colour of her skin.
She has been really rude about some people and I personally feel the whole outing and blaming it on MOD is another smoke screen.
Agreed!! Nothing to do with her skin colour, I just find her very rude and the way she goes on irritates me. Yet if I were to comment this, no doubt the race card would be pulled out. I unfollowed her few month back and still seeing/hearing her in other peoples posts annoy me.
 
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Agreed!! Nothing to do with her skin colour, I just find her very rude and the way she goes on irritates me. Yet if I were to comment this, no doubt the race card would be pulled out. I unfollowed her few month back and still seeing/hearing her in other peoples posts annoy me.
Talking about “race card” is not appropriate, it is belittling based on skin colour. One thing that I think CB is spot on about, is that her life will be impacted daily due to her race. So if you feel like it always comes back to race with her, it’s because it does.. and it should. The fact that WOC are more likely to die giving birth is a race issue. I’m really pleased that CB has used her forum to talk about that.
I wish MOD hadn’t used the line, as I believe she is being unfairly tarnished with the racist brush.
I hope this isn’t coming across as an attack, as that isn’t what I want to do. x
 
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Talking about “race card” is not appropriate, it is belittling based on skin colour. One thing that I think CB is spot on about, is that her life will be impacted daily due to her race. So if you feel like it always comes back to race with her, it’s because it does.. and it should. The fact that WOC are more likely to die giving birth is a race issue. I’m really pleased that CB has used her forum to talk about that.
I wish MOD hadn’t used the line, as I believe she is being unfairly tarnished with the racist brush.
I hope this isn’t coming across as an attack, as that isn’t what I want to do. x
I have never used the term “race card”. My issues with her have never been about her race. Just the way she sets others on to people who dare question her.
It was way back when she called out Mum in the Mad House for questioning how she felt spending 300 on a pair of shoes yet stating she was 20k in debt. Rather than discussing it or anything she set people on call and asked her out for a fight.
 
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Candice is abhorrent. So is the term “the race card”. Replace race with disability or gender (e.g. “the disability card” would never go down well).
 
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I have never used the term “race card”. My issues with her have never been about her race. Just the way she sets others on to people who dare question her.
It was way back when she called out Mum in the Mad House for questioning how she felt spending 300 on a pair of shoes yet stating she was 20k in debt. Rather than discussing it or anything she set people on call and asked her out for a fight.
She really goes into witch mode when someone questions her or disagrees. I remember when she said about getting her son circumcised and loads of people told her it wasn't necessary (many of whom were of Nigerian descent) and she got really angry and was rolling her eyes and huffing and puffing and telling them to take a chill pill. It's the way she does it too, so sneery and mean girl. Maybe her and Clemmie have more in common that I thought!
 
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Haven’t seen her stories, but in her FAQs section she says you aren’t allowed to ask her questions unless you pay for them.😳
Oh yeah, I forgot I had posted this. Wonder how much she is charging to be interviewed?
 
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It’s all smoke and mirrors isn’t it. If she looks like she has the backing of her management team, and the DM write a supportive article then the truth might disappear and all the brand deals might suddenly reappear....

I think probably not though but a girl has gotta try!

I also doubt that management team have dealt with an escort / madam before so are probably really out their depth. They can’t let her know that though!
Isn't her "management team" just her sister?
 
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Why has someone with 50k followers got management? 🙄

I wanted to like her, I really did. I even stuck up for her with the meldrum tit, but I find her really unlikeable.

She rates herself so highly but outside of that app she is just a regular, ordinary person.
 
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She really goes into witch mode when someone questions her or disagrees. I remember when she said about getting her son circumcised and loads of people told her it wasn't necessary (many of whom were of Nigerian descent) and she got really angry and was rolling her eyes and huffing and puffing and telling them to take a chill pill. It's the way she does it too, so sneery and mean girl. Maybe her and Clemmie have more in common that I thought!
I totally forgot about the circumcision thing. That was what changed my mind about her, not even the way she reacted but the fact she put her son through that.
 
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I totally forgot about the circumcision thing. That was what changed my mind about her, not even the way she reacted but the fact she put her son through that.
My son was circumcised. It wouldn't have occurred to me to go into witch mode when people tried to discourage me. It is their opinion, they are perfectly entitled to it, just as I am mine. She did literally shut people down but not only that, she tried to make people feel that they were dirt for having an opinion that opposed hers.
 
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It's saad that she's got away with it all. She's so bleeping sanctimonious and in my eyes is far worse than mod who is just stupid and selfish. What a world we live in when an influencer can do a documentary about being a pimp and then bury that information. Don't pr/press/ad agencies check anything anymore??
 
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She won’t have gotten away with it all: she wants you to believe that; because that’s what she’s trying to achieve.

The brands she is working with will not pay her to promote. She hasn’t done one paid ad since the news broke and I can bet money that if she dares promote brands like pampers, Disney etc again people will complain in their masses. They just couldn’t be involved with someone who used to sell sex and pimp women out. It would never ever happen.

She cares about cash, money, coin and that is the area that’ll be affected the most from the news she was a pimp.
 
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