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WhatABore · Mar 23, 2023

Tom_Nook said:
Every single short video seems to have footage of them crying while going through the miscarriage. As someone who has experienced this I cannot fathom wanting to document and share it repeatedly. It's quite upsetting to see those clips cropping up in every video, even ones where they're sharing good news. I just find this whole trend of filming yourself crying very very strange in general. Maybe I'm projecting but I just can't imagine wanting to exploit mine and my partner's loss for views.

I agree too.
I don't disagree with them sharing it, it should be spoken about.
But I don't agree in the slightest with filming yourself crying, video after video after video, and posting it to 1000s of people all over the Internet.

Tom_Nook · Mar 23, 2023

Yes, by all means document your feelings and the process and use the experience to help others. Miscarriage needs to be spoken about and it really helped me seeing others sharing their experiences. But repeatedly including clips of crying at the camera/ on the toilet could be really triggering for anyone who has experienced a similar loss and wasn't expecting to see that footage in something like a pregnancy announcement/ scan update.

minimaz · Apr 4, 2023

Don't follow them closely but have seen a fair few of their shorts over the last few days as I've been in bed with a cold.
Wanted to know what the rest of you made of their video saying they're not going to show their childs face online because they can't consent.

I think thats great, I hate children being exploited for views but if you're concerned about your childs privacy etc would you be documenting every step of their conception?
I also know that when they say they're not going to show the childs face they will have them in lots of photos/videos but shoot them from the back/put a heart over their face. To me thats just as bad because you're creating a curiousity about what the child looks like that you wouldn't be if you just didn't include them at all.

WhatABore · Apr 4, 2023

minimaz said:
Don't follow them closely but have seen a fair few of their shorts over the last few days as I've been in bed with a cold.
Wanted to know what the rest of you made of their video saying they're not going to show their childs face online because they can't consent.

I think thats great, I hate children being exploited for views but if you're concerned about your childs privacy etc would you be documenting every step of their conception?
I also know that when they say they're not going to show the childs face they will have them in lots of photos/videos but shoot them from the back/put a heart over their face. To me thats just as bad because you're creating a curiousity about what the child looks like that you wouldn't be if you just didn't include them at all.

This is something I never understand with these.
I agree with not showing children online. But, not at all.
I don't show my children online at all.

I don't think it gives them much privacy when they will, as you say, probably show everything but their face.
Especially when they're well known.
They share everything in detail about conception, pregnancy, I imagine birth too and then probably their life with the baby, day to day life ect.
What privacy does the child have?
Nothing

fallenwinchester5 · Apr 4, 2023

WhatABore said:
This is something I never understand with these.
I agree with not showing children online. But, not at all.
I don't show my children online at all.

I don't think it gives them much privacy when they will, as you say, probably show everything but their face.
Especially when they're well known.
They share everything in detail about conception, pregnancy, I imagine birth too and then probably their life with the baby, day to day life ect.
What privacy does the child have?
Nothing

Exactly, the child has zero privacy and they haven’t even developed properly yet.

StrawberryBanana90 · Apr 4, 2023

So many influencers hide their kids' faces and say they're protecting their identity but then share the birth vlog/gory details. If you're famous on the internet your kid is automatically tied to you, you can't stick an emoji on their face in public.
I'd respect content creators more if they just go btw I had a kid, anyways here's my normal content with no reference to my child

fallenwinchester5 · Apr 4, 2023

StrawberryBanana90 said:
So many influencers hide their kids' faces and say they're protecting their identity but then share the birth vlog/gory details. If you're famous on the internet your kid is automatically tied to you, you can't stick an emoji on their face in public.
I'd respect content creators more if they just go btw I had a kid, anyways here's my normal content with no reference to my child

That’s the problem. They’ve shared so much about their IVF journey that they can’t really not post photos with their child or post about their child… even if it is with an emoji on their face.

I understand posting about your IVF journey, especially as 2 women. It’s worrying how little some people know. But I would guess that the majority of their audience are young people, like children and teens. But they’ve posted far too much, it’s far too invasive and personal.

Tanne1999 · Apr 4, 2023

Julie said they’re not sharing the babies due date so we can’t work out it’s date of birth… yet posts how far gone she is, so permitting everything goes okay and she’s not too early, due date could be +/- two weeks.

They’ll probably end up posting their birthday eventually, but I don’t see why they have to be so cryptic about it. Just don’t announce any details when they’re born and stick to it, because they end up looking ridiculous when they inevitably end up sharing this info anyway.

Tanne1999 · Apr 7, 2023

Had to unfollow. Sick of seeing her saggy arse every five minutes.

WhatABore · May 15, 2023

Just seen that they're having a boy

CatsandKnitting · May 20, 2023

WhatABore said:
Just seen that they're having a boy

"of course we're going to be boy moms" .... yeah its a 50/50% chance.

fallenwinchester5 · May 20, 2023

I thought they weren’t going to reveal the sex of the baby until they were born? I get that she’s been struggling badly with sickness, but they didn’t have to share it yet! Will they end up cracking and showing the baby? Hmmm Makes you wonder!

Tanne1999 · May 26, 2023

Why are all her food videos ‘make my famous xyz with me’ - when no one has ever heard them from her.

it’s literally just her dicing up fruit/veg with the same asmr sounds.

Tom_Nook · May 26, 2023

They've completely abandoned their YouTube updates. The most recent video from 11th April is full of comments from viewers to update those who don't use Tiktok or Instagram.

Tanne1999 · May 26, 2023

Tom_Nook said:
They've completely abandoned their YouTube updates. The most recent video from 11th April is full of comments from viewers to update those who don't use Tiktok or Instagram.

Julie is in ‘sick leave’ so isn’t sharing anything - except stories on Instagram. Not sure how that’s any different from the content she was putting out pre-pregnancy tbh.

juy7nhio · May 26, 2023

Tanne1999 said:
Julie is in ‘sick leave’ so isn’t sharing anything - except stories on Instagram. Not sure how that’s any different from the content she was putting out pre-pregnancy tbh.

Sick leave from making videos lmao. I threw up every single day for 7 months of my last pregnancy and commuted into the city full time until 2 weeks before my due date !

Tom_Nook · May 26, 2023

Tanne1999 said:
Julie is in ‘sick leave’ so isn’t sharing anything - except stories on Instagram. Not sure how that’s any different from the content she was putting out pre-pregnancy tbh.

If she's suffering with HG or something then I feel for her. Pregnancy can be really hard. But surely posting something so people aren't worrying would be better than radio silence? Even just one post saying there won't be any updates on Youtube because she's unwell, but please don't worry.... they're completely within their rights to stop sharing at any point but it seems a bit unfair when they were posting every day and a lot of it was very emotional/ heavy stuff encouraging sympathy and concern from viewers. Having said that, I'm sure you can share the content from Instagram stories on YouTube, so if she's posting to one platform but not others it doesn't make much sense!

fallenwinchester5 · Jul 5, 2023

They’ve just been away for a 3 week babymoon in Greece and now they’ve been gifted a stay somewhere else… bloody hell

Tanne1999 · Nov 1, 2023

They’ve had the baby. Let’s see if they stick to everything they said in pregnancy about not announcing the date, name, face pics etc.

WhatABore · Nov 1, 2023

They had a point last week some time where they went quite for quite a while, in their terms anyway. They said they were travelling. But I think that's when they actually had the baby.

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