She was not ready to foster a child. She thinks she is mature but she is still very self-absorbed. It shows in her constant focus on her own needs. It feels incredibly selfish and like she is doing it because she wants to play mum, rather than thinking about if she has the tools and life experience to be the best foster carer she can be.
I wonder how much she consulted her parents before becoming a foster carer, since she has placed such a huge burden on them by having them take “little one” at every possible opportunity and constantly be on call because she can’t parent and have a period at the same time.
She complained about how not being allowed to put out information on her foster child would negatively impact them in the future if they look back on her videos. I think looking back and seeing videos consistently describing how challenging you are and how much your foster carer needed to be away from you are far more damaging.
I also find it unsurprising to see she finally snapped and her gentle parenting went out the window. She should never have posted such a patronising, irritating, smug video on gentle parenting as someone who had been parenting a child for less than a month. She was still in the honeymoon phase and the video would have been far more impactful if she could have actually spoken about the challenges of gentle parenting and times she has slipped up.
I wonder how much she consulted her parents before becoming a foster carer, since she has placed such a huge burden on them by having them take “little one” at every possible opportunity and constantly be on call because she can’t parent and have a period at the same time.
She complained about how not being allowed to put out information on her foster child would negatively impact them in the future if they look back on her videos. I think looking back and seeing videos consistently describing how challenging you are and how much your foster carer needed to be away from you are far more damaging.
I also find it unsurprising to see she finally snapped and her gentle parenting went out the window. She should never have posted such a patronising, irritating, smug video on gentle parenting as someone who had been parenting a child for less than a month. She was still in the honeymoon phase and the video would have been far more impactful if she could have actually spoken about the challenges of gentle parenting and times she has slipped up.