All families are different, if they decided as parents that they want to sleep in separate beds then, that’s fine, if she wants to have the kids in the bathroom with her, no problem.
I don’t agree and wouldn’t do a lot of things she does, all the plastic tat rewards, rewarding them for normal behaviour, all the holidays etc, but I wouldn’t say someone is wrong because they do something different to me as a parent, we all make choices to suit our own lives.
I’ll admit half the week I end up in my sons bed and he’s in mine,does it concern me or my husband? No because it won’t last forever
I know plenty of people who bed share, plenty who bath with their children in normal families and I wouldn’t say they were a bad parent or wrong for choosing to do that.
I’m aware that this is a trash thread, and I do agree with most of the things said but unless the kids are in any danger I can’t see why her doing something you wouldn’t should come in to it.