Brummy Mummy #16 Pre op, no time to shop, new book a total flop, don’t give Ste a wallop!

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Why does she always think phrases are Birmingham only?! People have been saying pack it in all over the world forever babs. Your desperate need for interaction and validation are a bit pathetic quite honestly. Take yourself off of social media and spend time with your kids. Give them your full attention. Be present in their lives. They’re only children for a short amount of time. If you’re not careful, they will end up resenting you when they’re older for flogging crap on Instagram instead of letting them be kids.
 
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Why does she always think phrases are Birmingham only?! People have been saying pack it in all over the world forever babs. Your desperate need for interaction and validation are a bit pathetic quite honestly. Take yourself off of social media and spend time with your kids. Give them your full attention. Be present in their lives. They’re only children for a short amount of time. If you’re not careful, they will end up resenting you when they’re older for flogging crap on Instagram instead of letting them be kids.
but brum is important for peskyblinkers and urm.... the villa?
 
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Don’t tell me that Cadburys isn’t just a Birmingham thing too, I can’t believe they sell it outside of its home town! Mind you I did think that factory is rather large for just brummies consuming habits!
 
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Don’t tell me that Cadburys isn’t just a Birmingham thing too, I can’t believe they sell it outside of its home town! Mind you I did think that factory is rather large for just brummies consuming habits!
To be fair I’ve eaten most of the Twirls that have been made there & I mostly wear purple 👍🏻
 
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I am just to death of people like emma and other “influencers” putting up stories saying about these threads being the issue and “trolls” as if they are exempt. They act like the are so high and mighty when they are not. Look at the amount of influencers who have been found out to have had accounts on here and that’s only the ones who have been found out.. a lot more of them certainly have accounts on here. They are just as bad if not worse as they are the ones trying to act the victim.its disgraceful.
 
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Oh yes, the super ‘creative’ ad - lots of us think they just hold up a candle and say ‘buy this product’ but there is SO MUCH MORE TO IT YOU GUYS! It IS SUCH HARD WORK BEING SOOOO CREATIVE! You know, COPYING the clothes of two characters and getting your CHILDREN to pose identically to the book cover...oh, wait...🙄🙄🙄🙄
 
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If she reads here, I want to put the following questions in her mind:

1) it has been discovered that your childrens images are on porn sites, why dont you remove them from your social media pages? What is more serious than that?

2) Why do you feel you are above criticism? Above those real housewives that you witch about? Above the mainly Male but some female celebs you put side to side on your insta stories and get people to vote for on attractiveness. Let's hope no one ever does that to you, I'm not sure you could afford the therapy required.

3) You have a problem with Tattle. Would you genuinely prefer it if these comments were on your instagram/blog pages/you tube? Because you cant block and delete everything. If the answer is no, then leave it alone. Be grateful it's not on your personal pages. You cant put stuff out there, controversially, then remove everyones voices. Trolling and having an opinion is different. I wouldn't dream of invading your private space, sm pages and I certainly wouldn't approach you in public to have a go. Not my style. But nor would you try to show me a home bargains haul in the middle of asda (I presume) however both things have their space on the internet.

4) I remember when I was about 12 my mum picked me and a friend up from school. She was playing a Steps tape (I'm fairly old!) In the car and singing. I wanted to open the car and roll out of it. Kids find their parents embarrassing. Its life. But you are magnifying that by 1000s and leaving them to deal with it themselves. How will you support the bullying when it starts? Therapy? Conversations about ignoring the haters? All totally avoidable. Stop now, think about their future.
 
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imagine what her day to day life is like - constantly comparing herself to other influencers, trawling other accounts and sites to get ideas for content and feeling jealous when she sees the gigs other influencers have been given. When her kids or Mickey interrupt all of this they would be told Babs was working and that was so important that it had to come first. What a shallow life. It's made an already self-absorbed person an utter horror. I can't see how she has any normal friends at all. I'd fear meeting her in case it ended up as fodder for the 'gram and she'd just talk about herself endlessly.
 
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I have thought this. I am studying psychotherapy and Emma's compulsion to overshare and be liked by everyone would be something I would be exploring with her. She is drawn to this job because she is addicted to the approval and 'likes' that are generated by her social media posts, social media sites are developed in such a way that a chemical is released in the brain when interaction happens or you feel approval. This is addictive. Emma needs to be looking at this addiction and compulsion and find out where it comes from and why she hangs so much of her self worth from it.

Her therapist doesn't sound like they explored these issues properly. Or Emma just didnt want to do the work or didnt feel ready to change.
TBF I think she’s also probably addicted to the financial rewards and chooses to roll with/ignore the dark side of influencing as it’s a damn sight easier and more lucrative than teaching troublesome teenagers

Lets be honest, the thousands of pounds per ad is a big draw to her too. They all make out they're doing it for the general good, they're not - they're doing it because it's fast, easy money. There is nothing stopping any of them deactivating their accounts, nobody would bat an eyelid. What they fail to grasp is that social media for celebrities is a by-product of their main job....influencers are so far up their own arse they genuinely think they're some sort of celeb that's having to endure unwanted attention. It couldn't be further from the truth, they're driven by greed for a quick buck.
Nailed it. Let’s not forget though, she’s doing it to make us all happy and loves us all lots
 
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Nailed it. Let’s not forget though, she’s doing it to make us all happy and loves us all lots
But let's also not forget that it isnt her job to be relatable! 😴

If she reads here, I want to put the following questions in her mind:

1) it has been discovered that your childrens images are on porn sites, why dont you remove them from your social media pages? What is more serious than that?

2) Why do you feel you are above criticism? Above those real housewives that you witch about? Above the mainly Male but some female celebs you put side to side on your insta stories and get people to vote for on attractiveness. Let's hope no one ever does that to you, I'm not sure you could afford the therapy required.

3) You have a problem with Tattle. Would you genuinely prefer it if these comments were on your instagram/blog pages/you tube? Because you cant block and delete everything. If the answer is no, then leave it alone. Be grateful it's not on your personal pages. You cant put stuff out there, controversially, then remove everyones voices. Trolling and having an opinion is different. I wouldn't dream of invading your private space, sm pages and I certainly wouldn't approach you in public to have a go. Not my style. But nor would you try to show me a home bargains haul in the middle of asda (I presume) however both things have their space on the internet.

4) I remember when I was about 12 my mum picked me and a friend up from school. She was playing a Steps tape (I'm fairly old!) In the car and singing. I wanted to open the car and roll out of it. Kids find their parents embarrassing. Its life. But you are magnifying that by 1000s and leaving them to deal with it themselves. How will you support the bullying when it starts? Therapy? Conversations about ignoring the haters? All totally avoidable. Stop now, think about their future.
All excellent points well put.
I'd bet my life that her response would be 'OMG TROLLS!!!!! STEPHEN HELP IM GOING IN THE SHOWER 😫😫'
 
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If she reads here, I want to put the following questions in her mind:

1) it has been discovered that your childrens images are on porn sites, why dont you remove them from your social media pages? What is more serious than that?

2) Why do you feel you are above criticism? Above those real housewives that you witch about? Above the mainly Male but some female celebs you put side to side on your insta stories and get people to vote for on attractiveness. Let's hope no one ever does that to you, I'm not sure you could afford the therapy required.

3) You have a problem with Tattle. Would you genuinely prefer it if these comments were on your instagram/blog pages/you tube? Because you cant block and delete everything. If the answer is no, then leave it alone. Be grateful it's not on your personal pages. You cant put stuff out there, controversially, then remove everyones voices. Trolling and having an opinion is different. I wouldn't dream of invading your private space, sm pages and I certainly wouldn't approach you in public to have a go. Not my style. But nor would you try to show me a home bargains haul in the middle of asda (I presume) however both things have their space on the internet.

4) I remember when I was about 12 my mum picked me and a friend up from school. She was playing a Steps tape (I'm fairly old!) In the car and singing. I wanted to open the car and roll out of it. Kids find their parents embarrassing. Its life. But you are magnifying that by 1000s and leaving them to deal with it themselves. How will you support the bullying when it starts? Therapy? Conversations about ignoring the haters? All totally avoidable. Stop now, think about their future.
I totally agree with all of this - especially the Tattle bit. It’s not on her personal pages. No one else has to be ‘subjected’ to it, unless they choose to look.
I began commenting on here because, after following her for a while, I asked her a small favour regarding a local babies charity I volunteer at. She said no, she couldn’t, which I found a little harsh - I only wanted her to mention it, not fully support it. Also invited her for a cuppa but got no response to that one.
Anyway - that got me thinking that maybe she’s not what she seems & when Tattle was mentioned on HER pages, I thought I’d have a little sneaky peek. The rest is history. I believe that what you see is what you get with BM, although she’d have you believe that’s a character she plays. The question here is - why would you pick THAT character.....
Now, I could confront her, I could stand outside her house with a megaphone (she took a pic of herself outside mine!!!) but I haven’t. I’ve never spoken to her. I respond to HER comments with a little wit & humour on this forum.
That is all. I’m no troll.
(No warts & never lived under a bridge. Allergic to Billy Goats too....)
 
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If she reads here, I want to put the following questions in her mind:

1) it has been discovered that your childrens images are on porn sites, why dont you remove them from your social media pages? What is more serious than that?

2) Why do you feel you are above criticism? Above those real housewives that you witch about? Above the mainly Male but some female celebs you put side to side on your insta stories and get people to vote for on attractiveness. Let's hope no one ever does that to you, I'm not sure you could afford the therapy required.

3) You have a problem with Tattle. Would you genuinely prefer it if these comments were on your instagram/blog pages/you tube? Because you cant block and delete everything. If the answer is no, then leave it alone. Be grateful it's not on your personal pages. You cant put stuff out there, controversially, then remove everyones voices. Trolling and having an opinion is different. I wouldn't dream of invading your private space, sm pages and I certainly wouldn't approach you in public to have a go. Not my style. But nor would you try to show me a home bargains haul in the middle of asda (I presume) however both things have their space on the internet.

4) I remember when I was about 12 my mum picked me and a friend up from school. She was playing a Steps tape (I'm fairly old!) In the car and singing. I wanted to open the car and roll out of it. Kids find their parents embarrassing. Its life. But you are magnifying that by 1000s and leaving them to deal with it themselves. How will you support the bullying when it starts? Therapy? Conversations about ignoring the haters? All totally avoidable. Stop now, think about their future.
This is brilliant!!
 
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I have thought this. I am studying psychotherapy and Emma's compulsion to overshare and be liked by everyone would be something I would be exploring with her. She is drawn to this job because she is addicted to the approval and 'likes' that are generated by her social media posts, social media sites are developed in such a way that a chemical is released in the brain when interaction happens or you feel approval. This is addictive. Emma needs to be looking at this addiction and compulsion and find out where it comes from and why she hangs so much of her self worth from it.

Her therapist doesn't sound like they explored these issues properly. Or Emma just didnt want to do the work or didnt feel ready to change.
Or she didn't have therapy at all and it was made up 🧐
 
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I'm sorry babs but putting together a world book day costume does not go under the title "werk" millions of parents do this every year without having to have a pat on the back for working so hard.

Writing a tiny book of poems (doctored from the Internet) does not go under the title "werk" my kids call that their school homework and don't flash it about looking for attention.

I shop in real shops every week so my family and I can stay alive, still not "werk" it is called life.

Jesus wept you. Are. A. bleeping. Bellend
 
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