Genuinely can’t believe how much she has let herself go, won’t comment on her weight as people come in all shapes and sizes I suppose but it’s the way she has filmed herself looking like she did in that beige dress and went ahead and uploaded it. It’s the complete lack of pride in her appearance unless she’s going to an event.
I know we all make more of an effort when we’re going to a thing, whether it be a wedding, work event, whatever, but just allowing yourself to look completely unshowered the rest of the time screams ‘I have given up on myself and I have no self respect’
We’re all entitled to days where we don’t look our best but surely just get up in the morning, shower, make sure your either clean or at least brushed, skincare done, acceptable outfit if you need to pop out or have unexpected visitors or knocks at the door, a bra if you need one which she does. What makes it worse is the fact she knows she is filming herself and putting it online?
It then seems that when she does have to go to an event the idea of scrubbing up well for it is a huge stress. Overthinking make up and outfit and getting flustered. If she put a bit of time into her morning getting herself presentable she would surely feel better about herself and start making better choices. She is someone who needs a routine and doesn’t have one and it shows.