wthamidoinghere
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Some people on this thread either didn't witness Britneys behaviour 18 years ago or they have rose coloured glasses superglued to their face. People are so desperate to believe she is an innocent angel who tried to make her marriage work against all the odds and it must be Sam at fault. It must be Sam who orchestrated this entire relationship and then subsequently ruined it.
Britney is not, and has never been, the typical blueprint of a good person. She was a great performer. She was also rude, inappropriate, a cheater, an absent parent (pre cs when she was out all night partying and taking drugs instead of looking after her small children) and an all round hot mess. Do you know how hard it is to maintain a healthy relationship with someone who won't take accountability for their traumas or their own mental health? It's fucking exhausting.
To add to this: I'm speaking as someone who has been cheated on due to the fact that I was completely insufferable. Diagnosed BPD, refusing to take my meds, refusing therapy, refusing to listen to my family, refusing to listen to my husband and instead getting high every day to mask the pain of what was going on inside. Do I blame my husband for seeking solace in somebody who gave him the time of day? No. Looking back, I truly don't. I was a horrible spouse.
Britney is not, and has never been, the typical blueprint of a good person. She was a great performer. She was also rude, inappropriate, a cheater, an absent parent (pre cs when she was out all night partying and taking drugs instead of looking after her small children) and an all round hot mess. Do you know how hard it is to maintain a healthy relationship with someone who won't take accountability for their traumas or their own mental health? It's fucking exhausting.
To add to this: I'm speaking as someone who has been cheated on due to the fact that I was completely insufferable. Diagnosed BPD, refusing to take my meds, refusing therapy, refusing to listen to my family, refusing to listen to my husband and instead getting high every day to mask the pain of what was going on inside. Do I blame my husband for seeking solace in somebody who gave him the time of day? No. Looking back, I truly don't. I was a horrible spouse.
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