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I have mixed feelings about Rich.

Regardless to the billy big balls talk and attitude.... The "I win, you lose" "You are wrong and I am right" which I find really childish. The sticking the middle finger up etc. The only thing that I could really think was, 'This man looks really unwell'
I'm human too which means I do have the ability to show empathy and feel feelings.
Revealing the stoma, despite stripping down to do so, well it took guts to do that.

Nobody is FORCING Rich to do anything and that includes reading here. If I had a stoma and I read that some random nobody online questioned if I had a stoma? Well tough titty for them. I wouldn't give 2 hoots what they think. They are entitled to their opinions, but that sure doesn't mean they are right.
The Reddit stuff (from an outsider) actually reads really childish. An old school friend doesn't like Rich and will never speak to him again? I know many of my old school friends didn't like me either. Does that matter? Not one single iota. We were at school for education only, we weren't there to like each other and blow smoke up one another's arses. After we left school, they went down their path and I went down mine. 20 years later can they say that they are an "old friend?" No, they are just someone that happened to attend the same school as me. These are not 'friends'. Old school 'friends' do not KNOW me, they know a very young version of me.

Okay, so one person says they continued their friendship with Rich after they left school, and there was a falling out blah blah blah. They delivered a wedding gift and Lisa blanked them? That is their issue. They were so sad to their friend was dying and might never see them again.
It is all childish stuff but has been labeled a 'hate campaign'.

His past isn't squeaky clean, well mine isn't either.... again, humans aren't perfect, but here is the issue, he does try put across that he is perfect. Some of the comments and remarks he's posted since the bowelbro account was opened are actually really arrogant, rude and are the reason people grew suspicious.
If I made the comments, I'd expect people to question me.

Regarding this 'hate campaign' against Rich, has he forgotten the things he has done and the things he has said? Offered to pay cash for people's names? And still doing the exact same thing! Imagine if we was offering cash for his personal info? Think about that one. Offering cash for names and addresses. Threatening to contact friends, family, and ring workplaces? Isn't this what he is complaining about?
He is gonna drag people by the hair into the public court of opinion? Does he even realise the implications of what he writes?
He doesn't want his photos posting, but he is happy to take other people's photos without their permission and publish them to social media?

I really hoped that after yesterday's rant he would focus on the time he has left, focus on what matters to him. He posted evidence of the accusations which have bothered him and he tried to put an end to peoples suspicions. And like I said, respect where it is due, I think it must have taken some guts to strip down and show his stoma. It head on stops any suspicion that perhaps he didn't have a stoma...
Thats not enough for Rich though. Just 24 hours later he is now going "out someone at the alter for sacrifice". This man really doesn't think before he clicks 'send'.
 

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What rich is talking about is very much a civil matter. No one is trolling him, no one is sending him threats, no one is going near him or contacting him directly.

as someone up there said, rich has posted online for all to see and people have discussed public information.

the police would have to request information from tattle in regards to info on its posters, tattle does not have to give that info over and I doubt ever would, especially if it’s based outside the UK which it seems to be.

There are women out there being abused by their partners and police have no time to investigate, these women end up being murdered. Tattle is not on their agenda.

I suggest Richard puts his phone down and lives his life because he keeps adding fuel to the fire.

I don’t see him raising awareness for bowel cancer, I see him talking about himself, cooking, and ranting.

I don’t know what to believe anymore, if he has stage 4 cancer then I feel sorry for him. I know how it feels to get that diagnosis and it’s scary. When I was diagnosed I was told I had 2 months if I did not have treatment. I am now here 14 months later thanks to crizotinib.

rich should also count his blessings he has his wife and ‘amazing’ friends and family around him. He is very lucky if that’s the case. My family live In Poland and I’m a single mum to a toddler who’s father left at the point of my diagnosis. So if rich thinks I’m a miserable woman then he’s right. Life is hard and I do what I can for my daughter. Going back to Poland is not an option for me, in the UK we are blessed with the NHS and despite them taking months to finally diagnose me, instead of tit talking them online, I’m grateful for the treatment I’m getting at a brilliant hospital and don’t want to leave that behind.

Richard, if you’re reading, which I know you are. please count your blessings, stop being so angry (yes I know Such a diagnosis is tit!!!!) and spend the rest of your days with loved ones not having to panic about working whilst going through treatment and not panicking about putting food on the table for your own child.

Am I bitter? Yes. Is that what brought me to this thread? Perhaps, but also the inconsistencies due to your wild claims sometimes. I also came here because you act vulgar, you are a show off, you belittle others and you need to humble yourself.

I hope you get the surgery you wish and I hope you spend time with Lisa away from the internet enjoying yourself. Also. Money doesn’t equal happiness, which is very evident with your outbursts not just at people online, but the way in which you talk about medical professionals online who are trying to help prolong your life.

You can sit in your Ferrari and I will sit in my daughters bed tonight reading her a story. She is my world and I would take her over any of the material things you scream about.

good luck with treatment, good luck with your surgeries, I hope they find a miracle.
Good afternoon Doherty 557 I’m so sorry to hear of your diagnosis, it must be so so hard with a young child too. You sound like a lovely down to earth kind person and I really hope your treatment keeps working for you. You certainly put a lot of things into perspective and I hope Rich does read your words and reflect on how lucky he is in other areas.
If he does go into remission I’d like to think he would take stock of his life and his vile behaviour and change the way he is. I fear not, but who knows. Instead of blaming others and deflecting and telling himself that we are all jealous, he might just realise that money doesn’t buy you happiness and is not the be all and end all. Keep us updated on your progress hun and take care xxx
 
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I have mixed feelings about Rich.

Regardless to the billy big balls talk and attitude.... The "I win, you lose" "You are wrong and I am right" which I find really childish. The sticking the middle finger up etc. The only thing that I could really think was, 'This man looks really unwell'
I'm human too which means I do have the ability to show empathy and feel feelings.
Revealing the stoma, despite stripping down to do so, well it took guts to do that.

Nobody is FORCING Rich to do anything and that includes reading here. If I had a stoma and I read that some random nobody online questioned if I had a stoma? Well tough titty for them. I wouldn't give 2 hoots what they think. They are entitled to their opinions, but that sure doesn't mean they are right.
The Reddit stuff (from an outsider) actually reads really childish. An old school friend doesn't like Rich and will never speak to him again? I know many of my old school friends didn't like me either. Does that matter? Not one single iota. We were at school for education only, we weren't there to like each other and blow smoke up one another's arses. After we left school, they went down their path and I went down mine. 20 years later can they say that they are an "old friend?" No, they are just someone that happened to attend the same school as me. These are not 'friends'. Old school 'friends' do not KNOW me, they know a very young version of me.

Okay, so one person says they continued their friendship with Rich after they left school, and there was a falling out blah blah blah. They delivered a wedding gift and Lisa blanked them? That is their issue. They were so sad to their friend was dying and might never see them again.
It is all childish stuff but has been labeled a 'hate campaign'.

His past isn't squeaky clean, well mine isn't either.... again, humans aren't perfect, but here is the issue, he does try put across that he is perfect. Some of the comments and remarks he's posted since the bowelbro account was opened are actually really arrogant, rude and are the reason people grew suspicious.
If I made the comments, I'd expect people to question me.

Regarding this 'hate campaign' against Rich, has he forgotten the things he has done and the things he has said? Offered to pay cash for people's names? And still doing the exact same thing! Imagine if we was offering cash for his personal info? Think about that one. Offering cash for names and addresses. Threatening to contact friends, family, and ring workplaces? Isn't this what he is complaining about?
He is gonna drag people by the hair into the public court of opinion? Does he even realise the implications of what he writes?
He doesn't want his photos posting, but he is happy to take other people's photos without their permission and publish them to social media?

I really hoped that after yesterday's rant he would focus on the time he has left, focus on what matters to him. He posted evidence of the accusations which have bothered him and he tried to put an end to peoples suspicions. And like I said, respect where it is due, I think it must have taken some guts to strip down and show his stoma. It head on stops any suspicion that perhaps he didn't have a stoma...
Thats not enough for Rich though. Just 24 hours later he is now going "out someone at the alter for sacrifice". This man really doesn't think before he clicks 'send'.
He really is full of tit as if you would write that and explain the police ot coming for you!! You would say nothing he's a head
 
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What’s the deal with the police stuff, is he right? Can they actually come after any of us? I’m amazed they have the time and resources given police couldn’t help me at all when I was a victim of serious crime a couple of years ago. Also, won’t they be snooping into his business stuff now?
Even if we were turning up at his door and shouting “get yourself some new pants!” the police are so stretched they may not be able to respond. I asked yesterday what posts here were defamatory because I genuinely don’t know and if there was something, how would his Solicitor know who to sue?

My feeling is he’s desperate for the truth to stay hidden and maybe the only ways he knows how to deal with things is throw money at something or threaten someone. He knows people here aren’t completely evil folk, sitting trolling someone with cancer for a laugh. He has provided the material which has been discussed and a few opinions have been added along the way and I think he’s struggling with not being able to control the narrative so is lashing out
 
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What rich is talking about is very much a civil matter. No one is trolling him, no one is sending him threats, no one is going near him or contacting him directly.

as someone up there said, rich has posted online for all to see and people have discussed public information.

the police would have to request information from tattle in regards to info on its posters, tattle does not have to give that info over and I doubt ever would, especially if it’s based outside the UK which it seems to be.

There are women out there being abused by their partners and police have no time to investigate, these women end up being murdered. Tattle is not on their agenda.

I suggest Richard puts his phone down and lives his life because he keeps adding fuel to the fire.

I don’t see him raising awareness for bowel cancer, I see him talking about himself, cooking, and ranting.

I don’t know what to believe anymore, if he has stage 4 cancer then I feel sorry for him. I know how it feels to get that diagnosis and it’s scary. When I was diagnosed I was told I had 2 months if I did not have treatment. I am now here 14 months later thanks to crizotinib.

rich should also count his blessings he has his wife and ‘amazing’ friends and family around him. He is very lucky if that’s the case. My family live In Poland and I’m a single mum to a toddler who’s father left at the point of my diagnosis. So if rich thinks I’m a miserable woman then he’s right. Life is hard and I do what I can for my daughter. Going back to Poland is not an option for me, in the UK we are blessed with the NHS and despite them taking months to finally diagnose me, instead of tit talking them online, I’m grateful for the treatment I’m getting at a brilliant hospital and don’t want to leave that behind.

Richard, if you’re reading, which I know you are. please count your blessings, stop being so angry (yes I know Such a diagnosis is tit!!!!) and spend the rest of your days with loved ones not having to panic about working whilst going through treatment and not panicking about putting food on the table for your own child.

Am I bitter? Yes. Is that what brought me to this thread? Perhaps, but also the inconsistencies due to your wild claims sometimes. I also came here because you act vulgar, you are a show off, you belittle others and you need to humble yourself.

I hope you get the surgery you wish and I hope you spend time with Lisa away from the internet enjoying yourself. Also. Money doesn’t equal happiness, which is very evident with your outbursts not just at people online, but the way in which you talk about medical professionals online who are trying to help prolong your life.

You can sit in your Ferrari and I will sit in my daughters bed tonight reading her a story. She is my world and I would take her over any of the material things you scream about.

good luck with treatment, good luck with your surgeries, I hope they find a miracle.

I hope Crizotinib continues works its magic for you, sincerely.
Money indeed doesn't equal happiness and it certainly can't buy life.

During yesterday's outburst, I witnessed a very sick-looking man that I can't help but feel empathy for. Its a cruel cruel hand to be dealt for anyone, including yourself. I also witnessed someone who was levelling down and admitting he isn't perfect, the very best version of perfect. I hoped he would move on and leave it at that.
He can't. Within 24 hours he is back to his usual self. I can only assume it is a form of attention seeking. I won't be feeding that attention craving any longer.
 
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He really is full of tit as if you would write that and explain the police ot coming for you!! You would say nothing he's a head
That’s exactly what I was coming on to say. If the police told you they were doing X,Y,Z you wouldn’t give the criminal a heads up 🤦‍♀️

Don’t you all just love a red letter day experience 👌🏻
 
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Logan Roy definitely had a quote about guns and sausages but I don’t think he ever said ‘jeepers peepers’ or ‘gee whizz’ to anyone, especially when giving people the heads up he was about to destroy them…If the police didn’t tell you not to forewarn the person they were coming for him, it’ll probably be because they think folk had the common sense not to do that. And if they did tell you, maybe they’ve read your threads and know what you’re like 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
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I think his outbursts are suggestive of someone struggling emotionally and mentally. I don’t know any of my work colleagues or my suppliers in their 30s who would act out like he is doing. The ‘I win, you lose!’, the ‘im getting a car, help me pick my outfit!’ reads more like someone who is either very young, or someone who perhaps has intellectual struggles or a low IQ.

I’m saying this, because it’s one thing to see a middle aged man on the internet doing it and being able to hit the mute button, turn him off, can you imagine living with this person? I really, REALLY hope his partner is being loved and looked after by her friends and loved ones. Because this must be unpleasant.
 
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I think his outbursts are suggestive of someone struggling emotionally and mentally. I don’t know any of my work colleagues or my suppliers in their 30s who would act out like he is doing. The ‘I win, you lose!’, the ‘im getting a car, help me pick my outfit!’ reads more like someone who is either very young, or someone who perhaps has intellectual struggles or a low IQ.

I’m saying this, because it’s one thing to see a middle aged man on the internet doing it and being able to hit the mute button, turn him off, can you imagine living with this person? I really, REALLY hope his partner is being loved and looked after by her friends and loved ones. Because this must be unpleasant.
That’s a sticking point I’ve had, I feel lucky not to know what it feels like to get that diagnosis and people would be more understanding if it was short bursts or every now and again because it must really duck your head up. But this has been going on for ages so I can’t help think this is his personality. It’s not nice to watch and a whole lot worse to be on the receiving end I’ll bet.

And then if I do feel a bit soft I remind myself that so many Tattlers here, Bowel Babe’s threads, other cancer influencers threads have been honest in a way some could probably only do anonymously about their health and he has spouted his wrath and venom at people who know what it’s like to walk in his shoes.
 
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That’s exactly what I was coming on to say. If the police told you they were doing X,Y,Z you wouldn’t give the criminal a heads up 🤦‍♀️

Don’t you all just love a red letter day experience 👌🏻
Police would advise to not interact, not discuss, and def not provoke while investigations took place.
We have been here before when Richard doxxed people and tried to scare them into not using Tattle. He concluded he had least changed a couple of people for the better (despite now knowing his past?)
Offering cash to people to disclose names and addresses.
Actually contacting one member's friends and family members.
Rich can't pick and choose who he is going to investigate, the law doesn't work that way. The whole "I see you. I will remove you from my investigation list, just leave me alone and stop posting on Tattle".
Meanwhile Rich himself has accounts on this gossip site? According to Rich sites like Tattle are for rum, rats that are akin to pedophiles, but he himself signed up to the site?

Rich has said people have contacted his friends, his employers? (was it) him, hospitals. In yesterdays video the reason he posted letters from the hospital and letters from his doctors which revealed telephone numbers and his NHS number. Rich INVITED people to use the detail on the letters to contact them, to prove that he is not lying. Rich gave permission to do exactly what he is complaining about apparently being done.
Rich can't complain about such and such and then invite people to do the exact same thing.
Regarding people contacting his employers (I may be wrong), his friends? I don't think thats the case? If he bothered to look at the Reddit thread closely, many are stating they are his old school friends, not that they are contacting his friends. I may have misunderstood, but it all sounded rather childish to me anyway.

Why Rich posts such sensitive private info on a Instagram account which was opened to raise awareness of Bowel cancer I do not know. I wouldn't be disclosing my NHS number and personal stuff to anyone, regardless if they believed me or not. Inviting people to make contact with his doctors? Isn't posting such a private letter enough?

Someone a few days ago actually said they didn't understand why Rich didn't say hello and join in the convo? He could have done at any point. Many of us used to follow Rich are really liked him when he first showed up trying to raise awareness. It is a shame that he started bragging about wealth and his taxes paying for treatments for those that cant work etc.
Rich wouldn't ever post and say hello. Why? Because it would break the cycle of him being able to have epic explosions rants on instagram. Everytime he posts saying he is a victim of 'hate', a post saying thanks to all the hundreds who messaged me to say they care appears. Guaranteed everytime.
Its attention. I am FORCED to now show my stoma. I hate doing it and have never done it, because well, its not nice is it. Sorry guys but I am FORCED TO so here goes.
Who FORCED rich to strip down and show his stoma?
 
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I hope Crizotinib continues works its magic for you, sincerely.
Money indeed doesn't equal happiness and it certainly can't buy life.

During yesterday's outburst, I witnessed a very sick-looking man that I can't help but feel empathy for. Its a cruel cruel hand to be dealt for anyone, including yourself. I also witnessed someone who was levelling down and admitting he isn't perfect, the very best version of perfect. I hoped he would move on and leave it at that.
He can't. Within 24 hours he is back to his usual self. I can only assume it is a form of attention seeking. I won't be feeding that attention craving any longer.
I agree. I witnessed a very sick man yesterday too, and it’s really sad to see. But when someone is “wrongly” accused—and even though they are frustrated, they simply present the evidence calmly and then move on. Rich presents his “evidence” with aggression, threats, abuse, and then flips into “kindness” which is bizarre to witness (and slightly triggering—if you know you know).

I hope that he can achieve a good health outcome. But I also hope that he isn’t taking advantage of people. I would like him to prove that he has sent the manuscript over to the “publisher” to be printed, and that he has recorded the audiobook.

I do not think this is the case, but I’d really love to be wrong.

Side note: I think he said there was some delay with the publisher (correct me if I’m wrong), but my gut instinct tells me there is no reason for there to be a delay because it’s a vanity press. Rich is PAYING them to publish, not the other way round. They simply provide print services, that’s all.

He made claims that his book would hit the Sunday Times Bestsellers list, and that he would do signings at Waterstones (again, someone correct me if I’m wrong).

That is a whole lot of fantastical thinking, wrapped up in vagueness and an elusive deadline. And this would be totally fine, if other people’s money wasn’t involved.

Here is the audiobook Shopify listing. I distinctly remember someone in his IG comments saying she had purchased this. I’ve not seen him mention anything about recording.

 
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I think his outbursts are suggestive of someone struggling emotionally and mentally. I don’t know any of my work colleagues or my suppliers in their 30s who would act out like he is doing. The ‘I win, you lose!’, the ‘im getting a car, help me pick my outfit!’ reads more like someone who is either very young, or someone who perhaps has intellectual struggles or a low IQ.

I’m saying this, because it’s one thing to see a middle aged man on the internet doing it and being able to hit the mute button, turn him off, can you imagine living with this person? I really, REALLY hope his partner is being loved and looked after by her friends and loved ones. Because this must be unpleasant.
He met with the police and the police left. He then stripped down and showed his stoma because he felt FORCED? He said in doing so he knew he would likely get body shamed but he didn't care, because he quite likes how he looks.
I wasn't able to share the video and I wouldn't have done so anyway. I screenshot what he asked, prove that he has a stoma and isn't buying supplies from amazon and sticking them on his belly. NOBODY FORCED HIM, NOBODY SUGGESTED HE DO THAT, NOBODY ASKED HIM TO DO THAT. A comment was made, a simple throw away comment that not everything we see and hear on the internet can or should be believed. Supplies can be purchased from Amazon. The new SCAMANDA Podcast would have the most level headed of people question what they see and read online (including Rich possibly). There is no accusation that Richard personally buys stoma supplies and pretends that he wears a stoma.

It is unpleasant. It's sad, very sad.
 
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So he’s got his Ferrari, but it says congratulations Lisa & Richard. I’m guessing it means it’s actually his wife that has bought it 😂
 
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I agree. I witnessed a very sick man yesterday too, and it’s really sad to see. But when someone is “wrongly” accused—and even though they are frustrated, they simply present the evidence calmly and then move on. Rich presents his “evidence” with aggression, threats, abuse, and then flips into “kindness” which is bizarre to witness (and slightly triggering—if you know you know).

I hope that he can achieve a good health outcome. But I also hope that he isn’t taking advantage of people. I would like him to prove that he has sent the manuscript over to the “publisher” to be printed, and that he has recorded the audiobook.

I do not think this is the case, but I’d really love to be wrong.

Side note: I think he said there was some delay with the publisher (correct me if I’m wrong), but my gut instinct tells me there is no reason for there to be a delay because it’s a vanity press. Rich is PAYING them to publish, not the other way round. They simply provide print services, that’s all.

He made claims that his book would hit the Sunday Times Bestsellers list, and that he would do signings at Waterstones (again, someone correct me if I’m wrong).

That is a whole lot of fantastical thinking, wrapped up in vagueness and an elusive deadline. And this would be totally fine, if other people’s money wasn’t involved.
Presenting evidence is one thing but then inviting people to contact his doctors? He is upset that people have contacting his friends (or something to that tune), his employers? I think (I could be wrong) but then invites anyone and everyone to contact doctors, the hospital, the private home medical company?


Yes he said his book would hit the Sunday times bestsellers list and it would be available in waterstones. I cant remember the signings bit other than he intended to sign the first 500 books he was posting out.
An audio book was going to be made available and a Kindle edition on pre order.
 
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It was me who mentioned the stoma. I just asked if he’s lying about other things could he by lying about that? I never said he was lying or asked him to video himself proving it 🙄

I can’t quite believe how thin his skin is, for someone approaching his 40’s who claims to have happiness, love, millions and everything he wants, he sure cares a lot about what strangers think about him. I would have thought that if he was receiving the 1000’s of messages of support and love he says he is then they would drown out the handful of negatives he’s getting over here, or so you would imagine.

He’s a very strange contradiction.
 
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One other question that came up after rereading all the threads last night, in his podcast chat he claims he gave £10,000 of his GFM to a child with cancer. Seemed to have forgotten that yesterday when he was telling us all about his GFM & if he had donated that why is his GFM money not ten grand down?
He mentioned he'd not been completely honest earlier, but had actually paid the 10k out of his own pocket (see SS below).

What’s the deal with the police stuff, is he right? Can they actually come after any of us?
He keeps talking about "hate crimes" and the police are on it. I haven't seen anyone here despise Rich because of any disability, perceived or real. People here despise him because of his arrogance, bullying and threatening behaviour and braggadocio. "holes" is not a class of people the law protects from the expression of hateful sentiment towards them!

Many of us used to follow Rich are really liked him when he first showed up trying to raise awareness. It is a shame that he started bragging about wealth and his taxes paying for treatments for those that cant work etc.
I was really surprised, when I read back in the threads here recently, how much regard and support Rich had received here, even up until late last year. Tattlers, even the most vociferous current skeptics, actually were empathetic and generous in their compassion towards him.

When you read back to the evolution of change of opinion here, it was really his own behaviour that gave rise to questions, then suspicions, then investigations and then to feeling very differently towards him.

Sure, everyone can have an opinion, and what should it matter to us, really. I don't care what his opinion of me is. He has opened himself up to scrutiny by publicly disclosing his personal life, equally so when he's asked for money to support himself or for his narrative in the form of a book, which he's shared numerous pages already.

People are entitled to scrutinise him and his credibility. I think it's inevitable that when you show yourself to be a bully, an arrogant, entitled, mean spirited and conceited little man, people are bound to begin to question what exactly is true or not true or is missing from the evocative narrative you are attempting to present. If a loose thread emerges, people are going to want to see what unravels from it. He doesn't get to control his own public narrative, his image or public opinion once it's in the public domain, much as he'd like to.
 

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He mentioned he'd not been completely honest earlier, but had actually paid the 10k out of his own pocket (see SS below).



He keeps talking about "hate crimes" and the police are on it. I haven't seen anyone here despise Rich because of any disability, perceived or real. People here despise him because of his arrogance, bullying and threatening behaviour and braggadocio. "holes" is not a class of people the law protects from the expression of hateful sentiment towards them!



I was really surprised, when I read back in the threads here recently, how much regard and support Rich had received here, even up until late last year. Tattlers, even the most vociferous current skeptics, actually were empathetic and generous in their compassion towards him.

When you read back to the evolution of change of opinion here, it was really his own behaviour that gave rise to questions, then suspicions, then investigations and then to feeling very differently towards him.

Sure, everyone can have an opinion, and what should it matter to us, really. I don't care what his opinion of me is. He has opened himself up to scrutiny by publicly disclosing his personal life, equally so when he's asked for money to support himself or for his narrative in the form of a book, which he's shared numerous pages already.

People are entitled to scrutinise him and his credibility. I think it's inevitable that when you show yourself to be a bully, an arrogant, entitled, mean spirited and conceited little man, people are bound to begin to question what exactly is true or not true or is missing from the evocative narrative you are attempting to present. If a loose thread emerges, people are going to want to see what unravels from it. He doesn't get to control his own public narrative, his image or public opinion once it's in the public domain, much as he'd like to.
Don’t sue Rich, I’m caveating this question by saying I may be misremembering but were suspicions not raised about what looked like he was maybe buying followers to get over the 10k threshold that would allow him his own thread here?
 
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Don’t sue Rich, I’m caveating this question by saying I may be misremembering but were suspicions not raised about what looked like he was maybe buying followers to get over the 10k threshold that would allow him his own thread here?
He ran ads to his Instagram page several times (they came up in my newsfeed), which I always thought was odd given that he has always maintained it is just about community and not monetising anything. I don’t believe he never wanted to monetise that page. He would never have turned “BowelBro” into a limited company otherwise.
 
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Police would advise to not interact, not discuss, and def not provoke while investigations took place.
We have been here before when Richard doxxed people and tried to scare them into not using Tattle. He concluded he had least changed a couple of people for the better (despite now knowing his past?)
Offering cash to people to disclose names and addresses.
Actually contacting one member's friends and family members.
Rich can't pick and choose who he is going to investigate, the law doesn't work that way. The whole "I see you. I will remove you from my investigation list, just leave me alone and stop posting on Tattle".
Meanwhile Rich himself has accounts on this gossip site? According to Rich sites like Tattle are for rum, rats that are akin to pedophiles, but he himself signed up to the site?

Rich has said people have contacted his friends, his employers? (was it) him, hospitals. In yesterdays video the reason he posted letters from the hospital and letters from his doctors which revealed telephone numbers and his NHS number. Rich INVITED people to use the detail on the letters to contact them, to prove that he is not lying. Rich gave permission to do exactly what he is complaining about apparently being done.
Rich can't complain about such and such and then invite people to do the exact same thing.
Regarding people contacting his employers (I may be wrong), his friends? I don't think thats the case? If he bothered to look at the Reddit thread closely, many are stating they are his old school friends, not that they are contacting his friends. I may have misunderstood, but it all sounded rather childish to me anyway.

Why Rich posts such sensitive private info on a Instagram account which was opened to raise awareness of Bowel cancer I do not know. I wouldn't be disclosing my NHS number and personal stuff to anyone, regardless if they believed me or not. Inviting people to make contact with his doctors? Isn't posting such a private letter enough?

Someone a few days ago actually said they didn't understand why Rich didn't say hello and join in the convo? He could have done at any point. Many of us used to follow Rich are really liked him when he first showed up trying to raise awareness. It is a shame that he started bragging about wealth and his taxes paying for treatments for those that cant work etc.
Rich wouldn't ever post and say hello. Why? Because it would break the cycle of him being able to have epic explosions rants on instagram. Everytime he posts saying he is a victim of 'hate', a post saying thanks to all the hundreds who messaged me to say they care appears. Guaranteed everytime.
Its attention. I am FORCED to now show my stoma. I hate doing it and have never done it, because well, its not nice is it. Sorry guys but I am FORCED TO so here goes.
Who FORCED rich to strip down and show his stoma?
No one forced him but it’s because he has embellished the truth at times and by showing his stoma he’s trying to shut us up and make the narrative of ahh poor Rich arn’t we nasty and horrible to him. No sorry he’s not a nice person I don’t believe ever has or ever will it’s his narcissistic personality and his massive ego. Didn’t take courage to show his stoma NO ONE had a gun to his head it was to suit him and it’s always about him. He last year wrecked a family by taking thousands of pounds and didn’t do the work, it was taken to court and proved. He’s a lying thief and he can’t help himself. He knows we have him susses stage 4 cancer or not he was t told he was going to die in 3 months that was him exaggerating and he knows it. The GFM was welcomed by him he wanted money because he’s a greedy manipulator and it’s in his dna. I don’t feel sorry for a man that shows zero empathy or emotion to others he doesn’t deserve it. He was t a man that made mistakes when he was young because he’s still doing it ?!!! What’s his excuse of last year ? bull and he is a bully and a control freak.
 
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