It started when I was 6 and I was being sexually abused at home. It began with sneaking crisps and chocolate from the fridge. Any time it happened, I'd go steal a bunch of crisps or whatever and hide it in my room.
I started gaining weight very quick but nobody could work out why. -(my mum didn't give me the healthiest food on top anyway) and then the twice weekly weigh ins began.
My Mum would then shout at me for gaining weight each time.
This comfort eating got worse and worse and eventually turned to Binge eating around the age of 10. My Mum at the same time as weighing me twice a week, would, almost daily, leave bug bags of chocolate and crisps on my bed for after school and then shout at me for eating them all. And then again, shout at me for ganing weight.
She's put me on countless diets and at the age of 10, at 14 stone, I was signed up to Weight Watchers.
The binge eating continued along with the sexual abuse and then on top of that, not only was Mum shouting at me for not losing weight, I felt I had the extra pressure of the people weighing me at WW. Again, it made it even worse.
At the age of 12, I read in a magazine about Bulimia and wondered if that would help. So every time I binged, I'd make myself sick. And that continued. But by the age of 14, I was 21 stone.
I moved in with my Dad at this point. My dad was always home and the house was a lot smaller so I couldn't sneak food. Not as much anyway. I'd also started having to walk to school, where as before I had to bus. So I started losing weight.
Then as the stones dropped off, the comments and compliments got more. So I started making myself sick even without bingeing. I dropped from 21 stone to 15 stone in the space of a year.
Then I met my then boyfriend and got the freedom again where I could Binge Eat anytime I felt sad. Dealing with ptsd ect from the sexual abuse. Once I moved out at 18, I went from 13 stone up to 17 in 4 months.
Then the comments started about how I was gaining weight.
So the making myself sick started again and bingeing.
I went up to 27 stone. At 26, I joined Slimming world. I lost 9 stone. But again, thriving on the comments, I stopped eating. Which is basically how I lost all the weight. I was having no more than 1000 calories a day.
Fast forward to now, I'm 30, I haven't regained the weight because anytime I step on the scales and I've gained a pound, it sends me into a spiral of making myself sick and not eating.
I have huge guilt around feeling full. I can eat a salad and feel full and the only way to get rid of that guilt is to make myself feel sick.
This has resulted in really bad teeth and quite a few other things from constantly being sick.