BallsBurst
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I havnt put him on the mortgage and I won't be either. Come on now, this isn't why I'm asking for advice. It's absolutely my cost to bear and I can assure you hes more than happy for me to bear it!
Well aware we are not financially joined together. Again, won't be going down that road blind folded.
No need to disclose anything to me. You're absolutely right. I'm asking and now have my answer that I'm out of order.
He told me it's none of my business. He spat it actually. He was pretty angry.
I really am delighted for you and your husband being on such a level playing field and him letting you look after both your finances. It's what Id love too but unfortunately my BF carries on like this. He isn't aware of the legal implications and has absolutely no interest in hearing them.
Let me be clear. I am asking am I out of order querying this as I am worried about debt and or gambling. Not *how much he has*
There is very little left at the end of the month. I'm talking a tenner... We don't go out or do a whole lot.
The lad doesn't know what he's doing next week never mind saving for a future
Well aware we are not financially joined together. Again, won't be going down that road blind folded.
No need to disclose anything to me. You're absolutely right. I'm asking and now have my answer that I'm out of order.
He told me it's none of my business. He spat it actually. He was pretty angry.
I really am delighted for you and your husband being on such a level playing field and him letting you look after both your finances. It's what Id love too but unfortunately my BF carries on like this. He isn't aware of the legal implications and has absolutely no interest in hearing them.
Let me be clear. I am asking am I out of order querying this as I am worried about debt and or gambling. Not *how much he has*
He thinks it's none of my business. I disagree after sharing my home with him for 4 years. Of course he has contributed to the mortgage too. Honestly girls do you think it's a good idea to not let him pay his way?Do you tell him the ins and outs of your finances? Perhaps he thinks it's none of your business.
Maybe he has nothing left from his wages once all his direct debits are paid, or he wastes it on random crap.
Or he is saving his surplus money for something in the future.
No matter how much he contributes in ' rent' ,will you still consider it your house rather than both of your house? When I've lived with partners , we have never both paid equal amounts, someone has always paid more.
There is very little left at the end of the month. I'm talking a tenner... We don't go out or do a whole lot.
The lad doesn't know what he's doing next week never mind saving for a future