Well Tattlers, I’ve had to wait until my lunch break to post this, so stop what you’re doing and get ready to have your mind blown.
One of Those Women ™️ received an anonymous message from a Facebook friend of Rebecca Kitchen this morning with the attached screenshots and shared it with our group. I don’t think it needs any further comment:
“Actually lost for words at her latest stunt. The "highest needs, severely disabled" child left alone yet again while she sleeps the day away with the DOOR UNLOCKED so anyone can walk in - she's lucky it was his father, even if he was being an arse. What if that alleged real life stalker had tried the door? Or just about anyone with bad intentions? She actually makes me rage inside, truly. Particularly with these claims of Oscar needing such high levels of support and supervision, yet she's happy to leave him alone, door unlocked so anyone can walk in (or leave) with no issue, while she's snoring her smug face off in bed in the middle of the day.
She shared this last night, but it was way too late to do much bar screen grab in case she realised how ridiculous it was to post her latest screw up on social media. I have to wonder how often this happens, with Oscar on his own not just in the morning but throughout the day, and how often that door gets left unlocked while this goes on. It's only pure chance that David turned up and created a scene that led to her sharing it online, how unlucky would you have to be that the one and only time you slept upstairs while your kid gamed the day away, you just happened to leave the door unlocked for the first time? Reeks of habitual neglect and her posts about how utterly wonderful she is as a mother and how much better she is for "home educating" (plugging in a games console) Oscar are just an actual piss take now. Despicable, lazy excuse for a parent, she really is.
As much as I believe kids belong with their families when it's safe for them, I'm starting to think Oscar would be better off in foster care, or a special guardianship with a family member that actually cares for him. She's insidious and would never actually improve herself or change, she's a genuine narcissist and I don't say that lightly. She's smart enough socially to know exactly how to fool the casual gaze, and puts on such a show when she wants people to believe she's one thing or another. Social services would struggle immensely to catch her out, and I doubt Oscar will ever actually receive the intervention he needs due to this, but christ he needs it. He needs to be away from that self absorbed, negligent, malingering chameleon of a "mother" and be placed with a functioning member of society. Likely there's a lot of damage done already, but perhaps if he was placed in school with staff understanding his background (his real background, not whatever nonsense she spouts to sencos and head teachers to make her seem like mother of the century and him seem like the most disabled neurodivergent child to ever exist) and with experienced foster carers who could get him properly involved in society and give him some routine and boundaries, he'd likely thrive.
Sorry, this has turned into a proper ranty rambling essay. She makes me sick, really bloody does.”