NoHintOfDrama
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He’s got that wide set eyes look, like his mother was a drinker while pregnant. Creepy.
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letsmeltthatlard
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empty fridge? he's done 2 huge shops in the last few days.
cunt.
cunt.
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Good morning i've found my way back to tattle and this page that i commented on before. Someone on here had asked me what do I make of Ben's latest posts and it is very hard to comment on because it is very apparent Ben alters his persona. It is very apparent that Ben will create posts to raise his ego, profile and instagram following but he also posts I believe to provoke the tattle thread on here because he enjoys being talked about, it makes him appear popular, infamous and relevant. In a narcissists mind any publicity is good to raise the infamy and his posts will be aimed at the parson called Lard who Ben will have a severe disliking for.
The backseat was taken because I wished to see how Ben acts without my analysis on him as a person, as his personality is his weakest trait he is seemingly moving onto food, with the focus on making his food look more presentable and he is planning photography of his meals to look pleasing for instagram, that is a way of Ben removing his lack of personality from his posts and of course to gain more following from other avenues of instagram to raise his profile. I have dealt with cases of obsessiveness of social media and I would imagine Ben to spend around 3-4 hours per day scrolling instagram, looking for ideas, competition, threats. He will have the added pressure now of trying to find out which of his followers are on tattle and he will suspect almost everyone of talking behind his back, his posts have a almost reserved nature about them now since becoming infamous on tattle. Ben will wake up daily and think what can he do for a few more likes and will obsess all day over this. It is typical of someone with NCD and a personality disorder like Ben has. That is why I suggested he finds a job and takes a step back from social media as a way of recovering from addiction and curbing his NCD but he has not heeded the advice given and sadly he seems to be a lost cause.
An interesting point is when a instagram friend of Ben's became involved in the slimming world magazine and won a competition. I would suspect that this enraged Ben greatly, all slimming world males and females will be competition to Ben, the narcissism will make him nasty, spiteful and resentful of others, he may appear to be happy at his so called friends accomplishments but deep down he will be very resentful. My ex husband for example was a competitive swimmer among other sports. As a narcissist he was always in competition even with close friends, a friend of his beat him at a gala one summer, myself and my family had to endure weeks of bitterness, resentment and mood swings. He rang his close friend every day as a friend but was incredibly bitter towards him behind closed doors and was horrible to live with during those weeks. Eventually my husband did a very silly challenge where he would swim the perimeter of a coast line because he knew his friend would not be able to compete with that and my husband had to win, it was narcissism and ego making him horrible to live with until he thought he beat his rival. Ben I would imagine to be worse. Slimming world is Ben's passion as is instagram, it is very obvious, he will dislike any male with a bigger following than him and I would imagine he would target them the same way my husband would, if not worse. He will hate and envy any male who appears in a slimming world magazine as Ben will feel angry as to why he is not the cover male, you can see that he feels that he should be a cover model. This is why he will write to as many magazine publications as possible to try and raise his profile, his close friends or instagram friends he will resent if they get more attention than he does, he will actively compete with them, belittle them to make himself look better and will try and outdo their accomplishments.
I would be very careful with Ben as his obsession with himself and becoming a slimming world celebrity will make him a very vindictive person. I read a slimming world magazine where a young man who lost a lot of weight around 16 stone was featured. This would have made Ben very envious, jealous and bitter. However, instagram addicts seem to have this need for attention and to be liked and as much as Ben for example may hate a rival, he will circulate with them and almost cling to them as long as they have a large instagram following, I am reading a lot on this currently. It is very much the school yard mentality of unpopular kids trying to make themselves popular with the in-crowd. So Ben will cosy up to accounts of large followings but will try and extract more followers for himself, he will be very resentful and competitive with these people but will try and hide that by pretending to be their friends. It is very shallow.
I do believe as much as she may encourage Ben, I believe his wife will endure a lot of mental anguish and torture with him, as much as he loves the attention of females I believe Ben will not leave his wife as his narcissistic personality will not wan't her to be potentially happy with another man, what if another man is better than he is? Ben will dislike that. So no doubt Ben will seek out other women to stroke his ego, Ben will do what he likes and his wife will suffer and she will not have any opportunity to meet anyone else. Behind closed doors, given the glimpse of personality I can see online, he will be bad tempered, aggressive, childish and controlling towards his wife.
The backseat was taken because I wished to see how Ben acts without my analysis on him as a person, as his personality is his weakest trait he is seemingly moving onto food, with the focus on making his food look more presentable and he is planning photography of his meals to look pleasing for instagram, that is a way of Ben removing his lack of personality from his posts and of course to gain more following from other avenues of instagram to raise his profile. I have dealt with cases of obsessiveness of social media and I would imagine Ben to spend around 3-4 hours per day scrolling instagram, looking for ideas, competition, threats. He will have the added pressure now of trying to find out which of his followers are on tattle and he will suspect almost everyone of talking behind his back, his posts have a almost reserved nature about them now since becoming infamous on tattle. Ben will wake up daily and think what can he do for a few more likes and will obsess all day over this. It is typical of someone with NCD and a personality disorder like Ben has. That is why I suggested he finds a job and takes a step back from social media as a way of recovering from addiction and curbing his NCD but he has not heeded the advice given and sadly he seems to be a lost cause.
An interesting point is when a instagram friend of Ben's became involved in the slimming world magazine and won a competition. I would suspect that this enraged Ben greatly, all slimming world males and females will be competition to Ben, the narcissism will make him nasty, spiteful and resentful of others, he may appear to be happy at his so called friends accomplishments but deep down he will be very resentful. My ex husband for example was a competitive swimmer among other sports. As a narcissist he was always in competition even with close friends, a friend of his beat him at a gala one summer, myself and my family had to endure weeks of bitterness, resentment and mood swings. He rang his close friend every day as a friend but was incredibly bitter towards him behind closed doors and was horrible to live with during those weeks. Eventually my husband did a very silly challenge where he would swim the perimeter of a coast line because he knew his friend would not be able to compete with that and my husband had to win, it was narcissism and ego making him horrible to live with until he thought he beat his rival. Ben I would imagine to be worse. Slimming world is Ben's passion as is instagram, it is very obvious, he will dislike any male with a bigger following than him and I would imagine he would target them the same way my husband would, if not worse. He will hate and envy any male who appears in a slimming world magazine as Ben will feel angry as to why he is not the cover male, you can see that he feels that he should be a cover model. This is why he will write to as many magazine publications as possible to try and raise his profile, his close friends or instagram friends he will resent if they get more attention than he does, he will actively compete with them, belittle them to make himself look better and will try and outdo their accomplishments.
I would be very careful with Ben as his obsession with himself and becoming a slimming world celebrity will make him a very vindictive person. I read a slimming world magazine where a young man who lost a lot of weight around 16 stone was featured. This would have made Ben very envious, jealous and bitter. However, instagram addicts seem to have this need for attention and to be liked and as much as Ben for example may hate a rival, he will circulate with them and almost cling to them as long as they have a large instagram following, I am reading a lot on this currently. It is very much the school yard mentality of unpopular kids trying to make themselves popular with the in-crowd. So Ben will cosy up to accounts of large followings but will try and extract more followers for himself, he will be very resentful and competitive with these people but will try and hide that by pretending to be their friends. It is very shallow.
I do believe as much as she may encourage Ben, I believe his wife will endure a lot of mental anguish and torture with him, as much as he loves the attention of females I believe Ben will not leave his wife as his narcissistic personality will not wan't her to be potentially happy with another man, what if another man is better than he is? Ben will dislike that. So no doubt Ben will seek out other women to stroke his ego, Ben will do what he likes and his wife will suffer and she will not have any opportunity to meet anyone else. Behind closed doors, given the glimpse of personality I can see online, he will be bad tempered, aggressive, childish and controlling towards his wife.
letsmeltthatlard
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10% what? a saving? 10% more?
daft cunt can't even get that right... too busy arranging his frylight collection.
Save 10% using the code "Slimben10" on the link below
there you go ben, I did it for you.
let's wait till he reads his page again and I bet he changes it
daft cunt can't even get that right... too busy arranging his frylight collection.
Save 10% using the code "Slimben10" on the link below
there you go ben, I did it for you.
let's wait till he reads his page again and I bet he changes it
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Clemmieinwonderlust
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im So glad he’s no longer usin Food porn In his tags when he posts Ella.
that was always so wrong
oh wait I just looked again and he did
WHAT THE FUCK iS WRONG WITH YOU?
WHAT KIND OF FATHER ARE YOU ???
that was always so wrong
oh wait I just looked again and he did
WHAT THE FUCK iS WRONG WITH YOU?
WHAT KIND OF FATHER ARE YOU ???
Clemmieinwonderlust
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ive shared my story before i suffer from pts and depression after being raped in my teens. I would never reach out to anyone like that the way they were acting in there video shows they have no understanding of what they are talking about. Imagine going to Ben for support and advice id rather poke my eyes out
the video had absolutely no meaning a 4 year old could have cameup with the concept
the video had absolutely no meaning a 4 year old could have cameup with the concept
PeekABooToYou
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Btw I knew he put me in mind of someone with those weird fucking eyebrows and creepy eyes 
had to add a bit of facial hair and a dicky-bow to get it just right and accurate!
I absolutely cannot stand Mr Bean, he creeps the hell out of me. Can’t watch him at all but he’s everywhere...programmes, cartoon, Johnny fucking English. Definitely reminds me of this imbecile
My editing skills are seamless
had to add a bit of facial hair and a dicky-bow to get it just right and accurate! I absolutely cannot stand Mr Bean, he creeps the hell out of me. Can’t watch him at all but he’s everywhere...programmes, cartoon, Johnny fucking English. Definitely reminds me of this imbecile
My editing skills are seamless
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elloelloello
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Ben, I know your reading this. And you are seriously doing yourself no favours.
The worst thing you can do for yourself is send people here. We literally have screen shots of you admitting ‘what happens in London stays in London’ - how can you even write those words? Do you not give a fuck about your children? Your wife? Do you have any respect for yourself or your family? Don’t you think it’s a bit weird everyday posting other women’s accounts on your story with love hearts? Does she even know what your like online?
And most importantly- why the fuck do you keep using a central perk bag as a backdrop? Do you think they are going to cast you in the reunion or something?
Oh and while I’m at it, stop grating your mushrooms into your omelette- it’s fucking weird. It will taste much nicer in larger chunks, I am no chef but I promise ya- give it a whirl.
The worst thing you can do for yourself is send people here. We literally have screen shots of you admitting ‘what happens in London stays in London’ - how can you even write those words? Do you not give a fuck about your children? Your wife? Do you have any respect for yourself or your family? Don’t you think it’s a bit weird everyday posting other women’s accounts on your story with love hearts? Does she even know what your like online?
And most importantly- why the fuck do you keep using a central perk bag as a backdrop? Do you think they are going to cast you in the reunion or something?
Oh and while I’m at it, stop grating your mushrooms into your omelette- it’s fucking weird. It will taste much nicer in larger chunks, I am no chef but I promise ya- give it a whirl.
letsmeltthatlard
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ben lost 10 stone on slimming world, james bond cosplay followed, he chats up women on trains, tags fuck out anything and everything in the hope of a freebie... piled all his weight back on (Right only come here coz the thread title intrigued me lol can some give me the Down low in 1 post lol
) oh and his wife looks like a manatee.
Laura VanderBooben
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Omg! What a to ol
This thread is so juicy and a guilty pleasure. Secretly livin gfor it . I'm not not sure if it's because I was a SW member too and followed Ben
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Starrysky
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He’ll be the one being sick next.Oh My God - they don't look cooked properly...
Got a few more for you Benjaminge.
Fact number 11: Your ego grew with your weight loss.
Fact number 12: You still hold on to being the greatest loser, even though you have piled it back on.
Fact number 13: You treat your wife like a door mat.
Fact number 14: You’re a massive beg.
Fact number 15: Your hashtags don’t even relate to the photos you post.
Fact number 16: You’re a dishonest bell end.
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DomMcGoldio
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I can’t follow this bloke he makes me sick I did see his post about his facts he said he has a HGV licence, I got mine in the army and when I got laid off recently from an agency contract they never paid me for two weeks and I’ve got a family to think of they still haven’t paid me so I’ve gone back to another agency and I’ve signed up to do class 1 work. They are crying out for drivers country wide. What annoys me about him is they he hash tags man of the year all over the place, he ain’t a man, he sponges off his wife and acts like a dick online. Slimming world need to look at who and what they class as a man because he ain’t one. My wife is a key worker, we both need to work to live. This dick annoys me because all he does is spend all day on Instagram begging for shit. He should go out and earn his own money and pay for things like everyone else. The word for people like him is ponce.
Your achievements mean nothing unless they’re placed in a shrine room to self gratify yourself inWhat really fucks me off is the fact that he hasnt posted a weigh in for easily 3 months now...
He has no excuse at all either, He cannot blame lockdown even though that will be the reason when he posts another pity post.
In the last few months, We had the absolute nightmare of having to move house, I now live absolutely nowhere near my group, but still, every tuesday I travel to my group (until lockdown started) because it means a lot to me, I have made friends there and they help me and I help them enormously..
No way without their help would I have been able to get where I am and I know if I changed groups it would totally throw me off...
Lockdown isn't an excuse ben... I'm proof of that, You carry on sniffing your pizzas, and I'll be over here still working hard and hopefully inspiring at least one person....but Oh yeah...you warn people off me
Simple... bots can't interact the way humans do. You can buy likes too... Not sure if he knows that
In all seriousness exceptional effort lard
letsmeltthatlard
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It's facetofacefriday tomorrow and I cannot fucking wait
TheFabFader
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I think yesterday’s relative silence and no multiple photos of his delicious family meals speaks volumes about Ben’s state of mind now. All his arse-licking, sharing of #widn stories, tagging SW, exercising (illegally) and on plan meals hasn’t brought the glory he wanted as the award has been shared.
Grow the fuck up, Ben, you can’t always get what you want, as Mr Jagger told us years ago. I predict a weekend of bingeing, he’ll be eating that pizza, not sniffing it!
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Big-ego-to-bigger-ego-Ben won’t be Man of the Year again.
Grow the fuck up, Ben, you can’t always get what you want, as Mr Jagger told us years ago. I predict a weekend of bingeing, he’ll be eating that pizza, not sniffing it!
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Big-ego-to-bigger-ego-Ben won’t be Man of the Year again.
letsmeltthatlard
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of course he has m8.str8 out of his hydr8 m8 bottle m8.
letsmeltthatlard
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he claims a 3lb loss this week, added to the 6lb from the week before, so thats 9lb, 9lb off what ben?
the people you follow and look up to you (lmao) deserve to know, oh but thats right... you only post the good stuff
the people you follow and look up to you (lmao) deserve to know, oh but thats right... you only post the good stuff
letsmeltthatlard
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Funny that there has never been not a single mention any operation being performed since his weightloss...Says there he decided to shed the weight after not being able to go on rides with the kids but in a different article it states he decided he had to shed the pounds after being warn he could die during a much needed operation on his wrist
kind of like the x factor sob stories... "oh, I've come on to sing to pay tribute to my dads sister that I never met, her next door neighbours cat ran off and I hope this song gets back to the cat and the little cunt comes home"
Angiegirl
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Well done on your awards and great achievement, I got target 11 years ago although I didn't have much to lose however I'd never dream of displaying my certificates, nor do I wear my target badge ,they are all stuffed in a drawer out of sight !thanks so much,
my mrs said "shall we put them up on the wall in the new house?"
No...no we fucking wont
I mean don't get me wrong, I've laminated them, purely to keep them from getting ripped but they will not be going anywhere near the fucking wall
That display he's got going on is way over the top !