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Something kayak related maybe? Because of the 12 months.
For 3 seconds during the prom transport story she had my sympathies because lack of mobility can be really isolating as a young person ... then she goes on about her mom driving her, lol. So no problem at all, just another demand towards peers to take care of her even if she gives nothing back.
She has no friends because she never worked on herself. As easy as that.
So last time she went kayaking, she uploaded videos of herself loudly saying how she hates people coming up to her kayak and trying to socialise (In earshot of everyone around her) and now she's crying that she feels unwelcome? This witch... literally might be the stupidest person I've ever seen on the internet. And that's saying a lot.
This. And it'll be the 2nd kayaking club she will have ruined for herself. But don't forget, they're the problem not her!!!
They probably didn’t infantilise her enough.
I can kind of empathise with the story. As a bullied/excluded kid I was often missing out on formative experiences and when you're 16 prom feels like everything and you want to do the 'expected' thing; get transport with your friends and celebrate the friendships you had at school.
The trouble is she hasn't moved on from that school way of thinking. People don't form groups as easily and there's no teacher to force everyone to be nice to her so she has to learn some social skills, but she refuses to do so. So she sits with the pain of 'always being excluded' even though if she worked through it in the therapy she'll never go to, she could really change things - I did and I love my social life now.
I'm assuming that it was a group event so she was invited by default. Beckie probably spent the evening by herself as she's made no attempt to socialise with the group in the past.
I think that if we are using her prom analogy with how she mentioned that she felt unwelcome as she was only an acquaintance of people and not a friend so she had to go to prom on her own, she felt unwanted in this event as she doesn't have friends there or perhaps people had their own groups and stayed in there ans Beckie didn't know how to engage with the people and sat on the side.
Or perhaps people did speak to her and it wasn't to the level that Beckie expected. Perhaps they did the small talk thing and left her to speak to someone else. I don't know if she expected someone to be there the whole time with her or perhaps main person she maybe speaks to spoke to someone else. I doubt that anyone would have been chasing her out of the event and saying that she wasn't welcome like what she is implying.
I think that a lot of Beckie's problem is that She has made no effort to socialise as she makes it clear she doesn't in kayaking videos.
She probably spends most of her time to the side with a camera on her on the water. She has also filmed herself moaning about people trying to speak to her Infront of them and loudly.
i understand it's difficult for her to do socialising due to her autism. I do think that she uses her autism as an excuse to be rude to people especially when she did videos such as moaning about people speaking to her or going on about how much she hates people and wants to be as far away as possible from them. You do get a big red flag when she hear her speaking and want to avoid her.
I do wonder if she will be trying to find a new kayaking club now. She did do that post moaning that she can't solo paddle due to her autism, so she'll have to join a club. The kayaking club would have been a good place for her to socialise especially it's people with a shared interest and it should have made it easier for her to engage with them but Beckie has ruined it for herself .
It makes me think of her church period when she went to church trying to find friends but more specifically, find a husband. She spent a lot of time moaning about how there was few men her age and the ones who were young were married and she stoped going eventfully. I do wonder if something else happened as she she used to go to bible classes with the women and they did a Thanksgiving but that social group has died as well. I do wonder what happened there.
I think that if we are using her prom analogy with how she mentioned that she felt unwelcome as she was only an acquaintance of people and not a friend so she had to go to prom on her own, she felt unwanted in this event as she doesn't have friends there or perhaps people had their own groups and stayed in there ans Beckie didn't know how to engage with the people and sat on the side.
Or perhaps people did speak to her and it wasn't to the level that Beckie expected. Perhaps they did the small talk thing and left her to speak to someone else. I don't know if she expected someone to be there the whole time with her or perhaps main person she maybe speaks to spoke to someone else. I doubt that anyone would have been chasing her out of the event and saying that she wasn't welcome like what she is implying.
I think that a lot of Beckie's problem is that She has made no effort to socialise as she makes it clear she doesn't in kayaking videos.
She probably spends most of her time to the side with a camera on her on the water. She has also filmed herself moaning about people trying to speak to her Infront of them and loudly.
i understand it's difficult for her to do socialising due to her autism. I do think that she uses her autism as an excuse to be rude to people especially when she did videos such as moaning about people speaking to her or going on about how much she hates people and wants to be as far away as possible from them. You do get a big red flag when she hear her speaking and want to avoid her.
I do wonder if she will be trying to find a new kayaking club now. She did do that post moaning that she can't solo paddle due to her autism, so she'll have to join a club. The kayaking club would have been a good place for her to socialise especially it's people with a shared interest and it should have made it easier for her to engage with them but Beckie has ruined it for herself .
It makes me think of her church period when she went to church trying to find friends but more specifically, find a husband. She spent a lot of time moaning about how there was few men her age and the ones who were young were married and she stoped going eventfully. I do wonder if something else happened as she she used to go to bible classes with the women and they did a Thanksgiving but that social group has died as well. I do wonder what happened there.
Here's a great idea - if there is no kayaking club suited specifically to neurodivergent people then how about she creates one? If she feels there is a need then others likely will too - she could apply rules e.g. personal conversations to a minimum/communication must be relevant to current paddle, which other likeminded people would find attractive. If no one joins then a) at least she can say she tried, and b) maybe she could do some introspection for why no one joined - is it that her requirements are bespoke only to her and therefore to bemoan clubs not suiting ND people as a whole is inaccurate, and is therefore futile and grossly self-indulgent? Does she need to find another hobby which better suits her? Does she need to get treatment/therapy to help her better navigate and feel more comfortable in social situations, thmaking a mainstream kayaking club a viable option for her? So much she could do to help herself but she isn't willing to do any of it - the world needs to hand everything to her on a plate.
The high has worn off and she’s moaning again. 🥱
She also just called herself “so self aware”. Is she having a giraffe
She ought to feel lucky that she isn’t self aware, she’d be totally humiliated by her behaviour and self obsession.
She also just called herself “so self aware”. Is she having a giraffe
She ought to feel lucky that she isn’t self aware, she’d be totally humiliated by her behaviour and self obsession.It would be a good idea but I think that Beckie would not do well with running her own kayaking club and I think that it would be a rehash of the trich groups and the drama that she caused.
I don't know if many people would want to follow her requirements for a group. What would happen if someone in the group who is ND, has wanted to join the group to make friends and they are speaking more than just about kayaking or not following Beckie's rules? Does she kick them out? I think that Beckie would have difficulty being around other ND people as she would be wanting to be the one struggling the most, probably thinking that she is the most ND out of everyone etc.
I could see have having a falling out with them and claiming that she is being kicked out of her club.
I rolled my eyes at her old story about her claiming that she believed that she is more intelligent as she is ND. I used to think that when I was in high school as I didn't mesh with people and watched people on the side lines as a ND individual, but I grew out of it, but Beckie is still in that mindset. I was also rolling my eyes at Beckie moaning about how her brain doesn't allow her to feel happiness and she is so bored with life, she can't even enjoy music!
Has she muddled up "self-aware" and "self-centered"?The high has worn off and she’s moaning again. 🥱
She also just called herself “so self aware”. Is she having a giraffe
god she’s jonesing for that adhd diagnoses so bad.
Is she now positing herself as some sort of genius?
I am creased today with her stories 
She’s saying she’s sooo much quicker and more intelligent than everyone else. She’s even too quick for the therapists the fake set up to pretend she randomly spotted a cat at that exact moment “see there’s a perfect example!” I nearly died laughing, Chanel bags from Temu would be more authentic than that!!!
YES Beckie a perfect example of what a prize tit you are!
She’s an absolute flannel.
She’s saying she’s sooo much quicker and more intelligent than everyone else. She’s even too quick for the therapists
the fake set up to pretend she randomly spotted a cat at that exact moment “see there’s a perfect example!” I nearly died laughing, Chanel bags from Temu would be more authentic than that!!!YES Beckie a perfect example of what a prize tit you are!
She’s an absolute flannel.
Also followers who CANT see the cat that she can see and spotted miles away are nowhere near as amazingly special and smart as Beckie. god what a arrogant prick
Lmao her comparison to Ms. Maizel. Girl that girl was a self centered stuck up witch. What Beckie needs is to take some responsibility. She like the girl in the video does not want to. Also I have a secret desire that her tiktok audience finds cringeys video about her being homophobic. I think she doesn't deserve any success until she addresses it publicly
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Anyone wanna be a babe and screen record her stories for here? I am blocked lol
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If she's as self aware as she claims to be why has she never spoken about her wrongdoings or missteps that have contributed to her being where she is in life, e.g. choosing to buy a flat instead of spending that money on private MH diagnoses and treatment. She's now living back at her parents, which is proof that her buying that flat was ill thought-out/timed, but she'll never say that. Is she completely innocent of all wrong doings that led to the ending of past relationships? Again, never heard her reflect on that - it's society/her exes who were wrong.
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Oh you are so right, I don't doubt it would absolutely go that way - I guess I was just trying to say that there is more she can be doing to make her life/issues better but she chooses to remain stagnant and stamp her feet when the world continues to move around/past her. It is incredibly frustrating.
If she's as self aware as she claims to be why has she never spoken about her wrongdoings or missteps that have contributed to her being where she is in life, e.g. choosing to buy a flat instead of spending that money on private MH diagnoses and treatment. She's now living back at her parents, which is proof that her buying that flat was ill thought-out/timed, but she'll never say that. Is she completely innocent of all wrong doings that led to the ending of past relationships? Again, never heard her reflect on that - it's society/her exes who were wrong.
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I wanna see too
What she describing is severe emotional dysregulation and chronic emptiness. Which she would know if she went to therapy. She is also unaware that certain experiences are also less special (or "big" or "colorful") when we grow older because we are not experiencing music for the first few times.
None of this is ADHD. She is such a boring person looking for interesting aspects of herself and comes down with nothing.
None of this is ADHD. She is such a boring person looking for interesting aspects of herself and comes down with nothing.
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