As much as I feel empathy for his family are completely innocent in their whole situation.
I don’t disregard any mental health AT ALL.
But i think it’s naive to think this could be kept a secret forever. But then I have to be honest, if this would have been a factor in consideration before the initial contact, would the same choices have been made?
Also playing devils advocate, the same choices have continued through the MH and it hasn’t changed any options.
like I said, I’m not meaning to downplay MH at all. Anyone who has been held hostage by their MH knows how serious it can be. But if there’s been clear and evident wrong doing, I don’t think it excuses what’s been done. Any choices that are made from here on out, will be due to it coming to light. That’s where it’s the snowball started.