So I thought I’d come here to have a laugh about something that happened to me at work today. I laugh because if I don’t I’ll cry as that place is just one joke after another...
I suffer from anxiety and have had private conversations with my line manager about it in the past as it’s been the reason for me needing time for therapy sessions & the occasional half day or day off of annual leave which I’m entitled to take and don’t actually have to give reasons for.
I’d booked a day off this week to spend time with my family, it was all approved and dandy. Then I had a conference call with my boss and one other colleague and my boss was presenting her desktop on Skype to take us through a slide deck. She then went to message our colleague who hadn’t joined yet and by doing so I saw their previous Skype conversation in which they were discussing my day off and assuming it was mental health related!! This other colleague is new to the team and is not in any way shape or form my manager or anything.
I was so mortified I didn’t say anything at the time but shortly after the call ended I’ve written her an email telling her what I’d seen and that my personal business has nothing to do with anybody else. Luckily my anxiety is manageable but I know for a lot of people it isn’t so simple and something like that could have triggered some serious issues!
I was mostly thanking god that it wasn’t a conf call with other colleagues or external clients on as I’d probably be making it an HR issue - that would have been horrendous.
Don’t really need advice as I’m handling it but just thought I’d pop it here for the LOLs and ask if anyone’s going through anything similar?
I suffer from anxiety and have had private conversations with my line manager about it in the past as it’s been the reason for me needing time for therapy sessions & the occasional half day or day off of annual leave which I’m entitled to take and don’t actually have to give reasons for.
I’d booked a day off this week to spend time with my family, it was all approved and dandy. Then I had a conference call with my boss and one other colleague and my boss was presenting her desktop on Skype to take us through a slide deck. She then went to message our colleague who hadn’t joined yet and by doing so I saw their previous Skype conversation in which they were discussing my day off and assuming it was mental health related!! This other colleague is new to the team and is not in any way shape or form my manager or anything.
I was so mortified I didn’t say anything at the time but shortly after the call ended I’ve written her an email telling her what I’d seen and that my personal business has nothing to do with anybody else. Luckily my anxiety is manageable but I know for a lot of people it isn’t so simple and something like that could have triggered some serious issues!
I was mostly thanking god that it wasn’t a conf call with other colleagues or external clients on as I’d probably be making it an HR issue - that would have been horrendous.
Don’t really need advice as I’m handling it but just thought I’d pop it here for the LOLs and ask if anyone’s going through anything similar?