They have to report gifts over $10,000. That deck, the car. Etc is more than
plus the deck, new car, surgery potential new house!
Not to white knight for them, because again, I don't care for how they exploit Jess for profit. But technically we don't know enough about the things you mentioned to know whether or not they should or should not be reported. For instance, we have no way of knowing if the car was paid in full. That's an assumption you are making. My guess is more than likely not. We also don't know what money they used to pay for the car. If it was money they earned from Crispy subscriptions (as well as the money they receive from the government for being caretakers) then that is earned income. Not a gift. So the car does not need to be reported.
In regards to the deck, if I remember correctly they "fundraised" half of the money for it, then Val's family chipped in for the other half and offered to build it for them. I think it was about $500 total. I could be wrong though, but I seem to remember Val saying this either in a YouTube video or on Insta-stories when showing the progress of the deck.
As for them both getting Lasik, I have not had the procedure myself but a quick Google search states that the procedure is usually not covered by insurance since it is considered cosmetic. Pricing usually starts around $2,000 though it could be higher depending on where you live. So at the least, it probably cost them $4,000 for both to have the procedure done. Again, we don't know if they each paid in full and if so, was it with money from Crispy subscriptions/earned income, or was it gifted money. Another scenario is they put it all on their Disney credit cards and are paying it off in increments.
IMO, they're still very much small-time compared to other social media personalities. Unless a rich Crispy comes along that sends $1,000 gift cards/checks or Val gets some kind of lucrative, big-time book deal, they are never going to make a ton of money beyond having enough to live off of and a little extra for things like Disney. Which is not bad at all and better than some regular people. But to make big-time money, you need sponsorships and they are not going to get the same sponsorships that lifestyle/fashion/beauty influencers do. I think Jess' age also works against them, as brands that want to promote inclusivity tend to have sponsorships with younger individuals with intellectual or physical disabilities.