You know they are desperate for content. She mentioned a roommate a while back. From little bits you see it’s a brick (or partial brick) house. She also mentions upstairs a lot. I think it belongs to her mom. A house that size will be expensive upkeep even if she doesn’t have to pay a mortgage. I need to do some looking.
It's not even the fact of moving ...it's if they don't want to answer questions , or show the place , or get bitchy with comments then why post it in the first place. I agree desperation.
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Just read a long informative post over on FACEBOOKs Autistic Interpretations A Joyful . From an Anonymous contributor with some good info.
I do believe a lot of what was written especially the fact that Val and Jessica are so dependant on each other it's not doing Jessica any favours preparing her for a future when Vals no longer here.
Val is Jessica's biggest setback. She was and would be far more successful if professionals were still allowed to be part of Jessica's care team.
I do believe Jessica's teachers were right in asking Val to get her tested for schizophrenia, As an autism mom...it infuriates me that Val uses autism as her personal punching bag blaming everything Jess does , her BAD behaviours , her rudeness, violence, greed and selfishness, her mean and nasty disposition on autism.
Again I have to point out... According to Val own words in her blog and vlogs... Jessica use to be much more independent..she stayed home alone in her early 20's, she walked with her cane to take the bus to her placement job, she was involved in more activities ...when Val wanted to go to nursing school and work she didn't start that until she moved out from Campbells....
So clearly Jessica was left to her own devices .....often, not assuming just going by Vals blog.
That being said it's a huge RED flag and you have to wonder what changed...because Jessica at one time was high functioning ...and today she can't wash her hands, toilet, figure out the fridge from the freezer...
Sorry...I don't buy it for one second. When Val decided she preferred staying at home rather than working she needed a reason ...and Jessica became it. Jess use to go to school all day every day, even went away to school, went to a volunteer job, slept over at Nonnies, Hannah's, Marlows..
Now she can't be away from Val supposedly for 5 minutes. I think Val created that unhealthy "attachment " deliberately ...because she needed an excuse to go back to staying home all day.
Jessica is/ WAS high functioning ....I don't believe autism is her main diagnosis...her autism is mild, however her IDD and her hydrocephalus and I believe she has schizophrenia...are bigger contributors to Jessica but VAL..is the her biggest problem.
As for her mild CPP... I believe that as well....her " siezures" we know was a lie....she's not and never was an epileptic..( Since there is no cure but Val no longer comments as uses seizures and epilepsy as another excuse)
Obviously Jessica has serious issues but... She's fully capable of being and doing much more in her life ..she did for years and years....until Munchausen mom wanted to not have to work anymore...when Val was working they were only going to Disney once a year, even missed a year or two.... It's funny how you can quit a job, handball of a sudden afford yearly family passes and 3,4,5 vacations to Disney a year.
No matter how you look at it.. Val does more harm to Jessica for obvious reasons ....and has undone all the work teachers and therapists put in, made Jessica a recluse, took away all of her outside support systems .....took away her walking stick..... And forces Jessica to HAVE to depend fully on Val.
We've caught and exposed so many lies, scams, family secrets, neglect and abuse under Vals roof....with PROOF that it's no wonder she's hiding out.
I still hope the day comes where APS gets involved and helps Jessica.
