Autistic Interpretations #20 Val’s not a Mother nor is she a Nurse, she’s an online

[Susan830]

Well bored here today so I did watch the weekly!
Surprise, surprise she and Val are going to Disney for 4 days!!!
Nothing on it from Sunday or Monday. Must have been hiding in their rooms drinking.
Tuesday went to Nathan’s and both Jess and HH were obnoxious as hell. He made a casserole that had 100's of calories in it. Tons of nuggets, cheese, noodles with sauce and omg! But good old HH are it too. No lactose intolerance that day apparently. They put some bread on her plate, she smelled it right on her nose and said take it away!!! And her servants did. Check out the size of her bites! Disgusting. And why they were putting the casserole together she took a nugget and almost stuffed it up her nose TWICE! HH did catch that and they had her eat it vs putting it on the casserole. She would have eaten them all if given a chance. And of course she had to take some home. And no the baby couldn't have any!!!
And when she had to put her purse on the table she did but kept looking back it!
Only 1 gift from the PO...but it had cards!
And Val picked up her trailer and was not happy!! But she didn't want to cause a scene at the dealership. Because she knows people do but she is not like that!!! WTH...she used to pitch fits at Jessica’s schools all the time, her and mommy dearest. So another Val lie.
And is Nathan trying to look like a street person. If he is he is succeeding! Gross

 

[Gramma of 4]

Well bored here today so I did watch the weekly!
Surprise, surprise she and Val are going to Disney for 4 days!!!
Nothing on it from Sunday or Monday. Must have been hiding in their rooms drinking.
Tuesday went to Nathan’s and both Jess and HH were obnoxious as hell. He made a casserole that had 100's of calories in it. Tons of nuggets, cheese, noodles with sauce and omg! But good old HH are it too. No lactose intolerance that day apparently. They put some bread on her plate, she smelled it right on her nose and said take it away!!! And her servants did. Check out the size of her bites! Disgusting. And why they were putting the casserole together she took a nugget and almost stuffed it up her nose TWICE! HH did catch that and they had her eat it vs putting it on the casserole. She would have eaten them all if given a chance. And of course she had to take some home. And no the baby couldn't have any!!!
And when she had to put her purse on the table she did but kept looking back it!
Only 1 gift from the PO...but it had cards!
And Val picked up her trailer and was not happy!! But she didn't want to cause a scene at the dealership. Because she knows people do but she is not like that!!! WTH...she used to pitch fits at Jessica’s schools all the time, her and mommy dearest. So another Val lie.
And is Nathan trying to look like a street person. If he is he is succeeding! Gross

The 2nd time she had a nugget on her nasty nose, she put it in the casserole. I couldn't screen grab it while it was playing, had to pause it. And I believe Hannah only said something about the 1st one because she literally touched it with her mouth They shouldn't let her play with that baby's toys with influenza and norovirus going around.
And I agree with you @Susan830, Nathan needs to cut his hair and trim that beard. He does look homeless.

 

[WallFly]

Notice Val was MIA most of the week....careful Val your mental instability is showing. Looks like Hannah has been working double time since coming home from Italy...I'm sure Val.was full of resentment and self pity when Hannah came home. Putting her to work punishing her for going to Italy, while mommy dearest took care of Baby Huey.

As Susan pointed out all we really saw was the rude, crude, miserable ,bossy Jessica we've all grown to dislike in all her disgustingly rude disrespectful behaviour.
Val manhandling all the babies toys with her nasty hands revolted me. Her sense of intitlement is disgraceful ...and it's clear Hannah can't handle her.

Val should be ashamed of how Jessica behaves she's absolutely feral.

I have never seen such a tolerance and excuses for such horrificly rude behaviours then blame autism !?
Jessica gives autism a bad name.

 

[FairlyCertain]

Keely also is not permitted back into the Brooks Asylum.

I didn’t know about this. When did this come out?

 

[WallFly]

I didn’t know about this. When did this come out?

Val mentioned it " casually" last year on a live when she was in a pissy mood...snapping at Campbell about Keely..and Jessica's phone appointments.

That's why Jessica has a framed photo of Keely. Val has also mentioned in a few occasions how she and Keely are no longer friends.

I'm sure Keely tried to offer advice to Val which sent her over the edge...and that's what ended their friendship .

 

[winnie woo]

Video of the week. I guess Val stayed in her room watching Disney Videos all week.. first a hibernation day, game night, without Val, cooking with Nathan without Val. PO day gift opening without Val..she’s hardly with Jessica yet she’s so tired. Jess made it clear she harasses Keely at work, shouldn’t Val clue in and put an end to it. Not everyone wants Jessica’s calls all the time. Visit from H Tinsel and a Disney trip coming up. Nathan is looking as bad as the rest of the clan he must be going for a mountain man look. Gross!

 

[Susan830]

Video of the week. I guess Val stayed in her room watching Disney Videos all week.. first a hibernation day, game night, without Val, cooking with Nathan without Val. PO day gift opening without Val..she’s hardly with Jessica yet she’s so tired. Jess made it clear she harasses Keely at work, shouldn’t Val clue in and put an end to it. Not everyone wants Jessica’s calls all the time. Visit from H Tinsel and a Disney trip coming up. Nathan is looking as bad as the rest of the clan he must be going for a mountain man look. Gross!

What ya bet we never see Hannah Tinsel?? She was supposed to have come before now and I am sure Val will postpone it again. Isn't Hannah T the one who let people message her and she outed Porn boy to them?

 

[WallFly]

Video of the week. I guess Val stayed in her room watching Disney Videos all week.. first a hibernation day, game night, without Val, cooking with Nathan without Val. PO day gift opening without Val..she’s hardly with Jessica yet she’s so tired. Jess made it clear she harasses Keely at work, shouldn’t Val clue in and put an end to it. Not everyone wants Jessica’s calls all the time. Visit from H Tinsel and a Disney trip coming up. Nathan is looking as bad as the rest of the clan he must be going for a mountain man look. Gross!

Val says Jessica is an adult , she's allowed to talk to whoever she wants when she wants about what she wants of course she uses her phone to harass keely, couple months back Jessica was in the car crying on her way to Nathan's obsessing because she texted Keely and got no reply fast enough so she texted her 5 more times in a row ! And Val blamed Keely!!! Saying when people say they are going to text Jess they need to do it!!!
Never mind Keely has a family and a full time Nursing job.
Everyone needs to be available to Jessica to listen to her scream baaaaaaad doggie! Hear about Dead Abby and hear what she ate for breakfast ...24/7!
While Val hides in her bedroom watching Disney while her younger daughter wipes her older daughters Ass and her sons exgirlfriend " marlow" showers Jessica.
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What ya bet we never see Hannah Tinsel?? She was supposed to have come before now and I am sure Val will postpone it again. Isn't Hannah T the one who let people message her and she outed Porn boy to them?

I'm thinking that normally when Jessica mentions things like Hannah Tinsel , Augustine money etc... They normally edit it out. This video looked liked a Hannah edit and probably hurried to get it out considering she seemed to go be doing most of the work all week.

I'm doubtful we will be seeing Hannah Tinsel anytime soon.also.

 

[WallFly]

Nurse Val ...let Greedy Guts eat an entire mega cookie...to herself WITH cool whip on top.
The Box CLEARLY says 10 savings per box.
( personally I would of cut it in 6) but the entire cookie!!!!??? And Jessica whinned about you having a bite!?!? What a selfish pig. Plain and simple.

That giant cookie was 100 calories PER serving...so that's 1000 calorie cookie not including the cool whip on top.
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Of course....Jessica was her mean, bossy, rude self...I'm waiting for the day she hails off of smacks the crap out of Val.
She did apologise for SLAPPING Val....but Val quickly corrected her and said she loves her " face pats"

10000000% bullshit.
She clearly slapped mommy's face!!! Lord I'd pay to watch that!!!

Give it up Val....we see and hear you whispering to Jessica .....whose clearly found her inner witch lately!!! Sleep with one eye open Val!

 

[Susan830]

OMG was Jess manic and arguing about everything! And when Val didn't want a cookie Jess was not happy so Val said can I just have a bite of hers! And the answer was NO!!! WTF... Plus she argued with Val and Val must have gotten testy because there were a few jump cuts!! Jess needs to be punished for disrespect like that. Send her to her room and take her phone away. BUT none of them have the guts to do that! Chicken shits...
And of course Taylor and Marlow were over too. They are so damn pathetic. 30 y/o women who act like 13 year olds. I can't imagine that Taylor's husband would put up with that! Are we sure she is married or just butch like HH and Marlow???

 

[Daisy0112]

The 2nd time she had a nugget on her nasty nose, she put it in the casserole. I couldn't screen grab it while it was playing, had to pause it. And I believe Hannah only said something about the 1st one because she literally touched it with her mouth They shouldn't let her play with that baby's toys with influenza and norovirus going around.
And I agree with you @Susan830, Nathan needs to cut his hair and trim that beard. He does look homeless.

Time to teach her to keep her face out of the food. Who wants to eat food that Jess had her nose in not to mention filthy hands and hair in the food.
I guess they are use to it. Gross.

 

[WallFly]

Isn't Taylor Marlows roomate? I don't know much about her.

As for Jessica .....she has been absolutely unhinged the last while, mean, nasty more argumentative than ever with more of a whiney threatening attitude.

Jessica behaves like that because no one tells her no, ever Val will not permit it which is why no professionals are in Jessica s life ...a real health care giver, therapist etc... Would absolutely have rules, and boundaries and not allow Jessica to threaten , abuse, whine, pull that bossy tit...period.

There's definitely something going on in the Brooks Asylum....as for Jessica she's on a very bad path.... The day will come and she will absolutely lash out physically on the wrong person , the animals her baby cousins, it will happen because it's happened many times in her past with her dogs, Nonnie, children on the bus, bus driver, nurse , dentist and technician .....so it will happen for sure.

Just because Jessica has disabilities doesn't excuse her rude, violent , disrespectful behaviours. I've worked in classes alongside my daughter with hundreds of various aged autistic kids/adults ....and not ONE was ever permitted to behave like Jessica ever! Not the severely autistic, not the nonverbal, not the children not the adults, not the deaf/autistics, blind autistics, not the severely IDD autistic mixes.... I've seen more severe cases than Jessica CORRECTED for bad behaviours ....shown there are CONSEQUENCES for unacceptable behaviours!! THAT'S HOW THEY LEARN and grow to have fun productive lives and function in society!!!

Val wants pity, sympathy and autistic mother of the year awards for dealing with Jessica yet....she's the one who has never parented or taught Jessica the simplest of things ....ever.
Jessica only learned what she was taught at school nothing ever continued under Vals roof. Jessica gets worse and worse.....
And Val hides more and more ......can't wait to watch feral Jessica alone with mommy dearest at Disney.

 

[WallFly]

This mornings video...a quick " hint" to send jessica more cards she's going to make room.
Notice Val didn't mention how many Greedy Guts has?
Wait until people start asking in the comments ....Val will lie low ball the amount so people continue to send cards and gifts .
Last count was over at the old house 500...then 800... Then over a thousand right before the move to Campbell's .

Personally ...over a 1000 decks of cards , stacks of waiste deep colouring books " to read" which makes no sense especially since she doesn't colour !!

Jessica is a hoarder....and of course Val makes excuses blames trauma ( for food hoarding and gluttony) autism for hoarding her cds, cards, and colouring books....
Val could easy take out a couple hundred decks put them back in the boxes and regift/recycle them to Jessica same with old colouring books...
But Val is greedy and more is better.

Jessica rooms a sad state...walls bare...but Vals room is precious of course.

And for the love of God get a Jessica to a doctor ..get her some sunshine, fresh air and vitamins!!
She's so pale and the dark BROWN rings around her eyes are frightening she looks like uncle fester!
How can Val not be concerned!?! Then again she has zero concept of nutrition ...in last night's cookie video people commented about jessica eating the while cookie! Which we SAW val.put whip topping on...
But in the comments Val claims Jessica only ate 1/3!! MORE LIES.

We saw you give Jessica the entire cookie Val. No way Greedy Guts stopped shovelling in that THOUSAND calorie , 10 serving double chocolate chunk cookie!!! No way!! We saw her get mean at the idea of even giving you a bite!!

No one else ate.a whole cookie why you allowed Jess to make 5!? Thats 50 servings for the 5 of you!

Do better Val.

 

[winnie woo]

The card video is a lot of hogwash. There is no organization involved. We’ve seen Val scoop em off that bed and throw them haphazardly into whatever drawer will accommodate. Jess doesn’t have the skill to organize effectively. A video asking Jess about her cards, seriously? Val asks the question, answers the question and Jessica repeats the answer like a parrot. She does this with every conversation, Val doesn’t allow her to have a thought of her own before interjecting. There’s no way in hell she’d ever realize if some went missing. She stumbles counting past 15 so she has no idea how many she has. Learning to count like Braille was never a priority. I often wonder if she even knows her address and phone number.

 

[WallFly]

The card video is a lot of hogwash. There is no organization involved. We’ve seen Val scoop em off that bed and throw them haphazardly into whatever drawer will accommodate. Jess doesn’t have the skill to organize effectively. A video asking Jess about her cards, seriously? Val asks the question, answers the question and Jessica repeats the answer like a parrot. She does this with every conversation, Val doesn’t allow her to have a thought of her own before interjecting. There’s no way in hell she’d ever realize if some went missing. She stumbles counting past 15 so she has no idea how many she has. Learning to count like Braille was never a priority. I often wonder if she even knows her address and phone number.

Your e 100% right JEssica has zero organization skills and her cards are NOT organized in drawers just crammed in...
Val desperately tries to make Jessica appear to have special " skills" ( like rainman) she's doesn't , it's called savant syndrome and Jessica is far from it ...Cody from Cody Speaks has a photographic memory ..and Val is trying to create a narrative that Jessica knows where every card is, every deck and they are all organized ...

More lies....Jessica is a hoarder and just loves being told everything is hers...more! More! more!! Insert seal clap here.

 

[Susan830]

WTH was the point of this mornings video? In my opinion Val was trying to get Jess worked up. You could see at the end when she suggested the tub for extra cards Jess was ready to get whiny and argue. And Val sounded like a total witch shooting all those questions at Jess. She wasn't even giving her time to process answers to them! What a good mother you are Val....not!
And like WallFly said she is no savant...very far from it! But apparently she needs a new wrinkle instead of saying Jess has CP, blindness, autism and god knows what else she made up.
And Val you just let stood there and let Jess lie about them all being Bycle cards on her bed! They weren't. She has no organizational skills and she is just saying things to say them. And at the end she agrees Bycle cards are her favorite but what happened to the "wolf" cards?? The expensive one at about $10.00 a deck??
How about this Val....next Thursday when Jess is gone go to her room and take half the cards and put them in a tote (or 2) and get them out of her room. She will never notice. Then next week do the same with the coloring books! She will never notice!

 

[WallFly]

This is the video where Val talks about not fighting labels ...it's basically her admitting when and why she gave up on Jessica ...... And started as we have seen embellishing Google diagnosis, lying and adding more and more labels like seizures blindness, etc...

If you listen Jessica's primary diagnosis was/is moderately to severe Intellectually Developmental Disability.

Bottom line this is when the light went on and Val went full throttle Munchausen by Proxy on Jessica for sympathy and all the " perks" that come along the special attention, groups, government funds, programs, tax exemptions , JOBS as caregivers for family members.. Etc...
This was the decline of Jessica....

 

[Susan830]

This is the video where Val talks about not fighting labels ...it's basically her admitting when and why she gave up on Jessica ...... And started as we have seen embellishing Google diagnosis, lying and adding more and more labels like seizures blindness, etc...

If you listen Jessica's primary diagnosis was/is moderately to severe Intellectually Developmental Disability.

Bottom line this is when the light went on and Val went full throttle Munchausen by Proxy on Jessica for sympathy and all the " perks" that come along the special attention, groups, government funds, programs, tax exemptions , JOBS as caregivers for family members.. Etc...
This was the decline of Jessica....

I could not watch that! A.Val loves to hear herself talk and B. she admits that she fought the system. Yet she blames the professionals for not listening to her. Val they didn't need to listen to you witch about everything that SHE thought they were doing wrong.
That "I am special and know more than any of you " attitude got Jess into what she is or isn't today. This reminds me of Priscilla and Abby on Fathering Autism. She wants Abby to suddenly become a "real" girl and not the disabled person she is. Val wants Jess to be "normal" too. I think it's because she knows Jess is the way she is because of her and her drugs and drinking. And I believe that's true. VAL your daughter is as good as she will ever get and that's all on you. If you would have let the professionals do their jobs Jess might have had a fighting chance at life.

 

[pokermom]

This is the video where Val talks about not fighting labels ...it's basically her admitting when and why she gave up on Jessica ...... And started as we have seen embellishing Google diagnosis, lying and adding more and more labels like seizures blindness, etc...

If you listen Jessica's primary diagnosis was/is moderately to severe Intellectually Developmental Disability.

Bottom line this is when the light went on and Val went full throttle Munchausen by Proxy on Jessica for sympathy and all the " perks" that come along the special attention, groups, government funds, programs, tax exemptions , JOBS as caregivers for family members.. Etc...
This was the decline of Jessica....

Best advice I was ever given. It’s been almost 36 years ago since we were finally leaving the NICU and my son’s doctor told me “don’t rush him”. Three little words, Today I still say them to myself. Val took what she was told to extremes. She enjoys all the things she says Jessica cannot do. It takes time. Patience. Our special loved ones can do so much. They can learn, grow, achieve. Just don’t rush them!

 

[WallFly]

Best advice I was ever given. It’s been almost 36 years ago since we were finally leaving the NICU and my son’s doctor told me “don’t rush him”. Three little words, Today I still say them to myself. Val took what she was told to extremes. She enjoys all the things she says Jessica cannot do. It takes time. Patience. Our special loved ones can do so much. They can learn, grow, achieve. Just don’t rush them!

When there's consistency ...you don't have to rush!

Yes there are times I have disagreed or had concerns with than plans teachers , therapists and myself have put together ....but we address it as a team ...maybe alter wording or consequence of technique ...I've never claimed to know better....ever. Val believes her way is the best way......and i t is.. To keep her cash cow making her money and keeping her in 3,4,5 Disney trips a year and supplying FAKE jobs for friends and family that they can afford Taylor Swift concerts, new trucks, campers and trips to Italy!!

Vals got scams...all day !ong.