Autistic Interpretations #18 Burnt food, panic attacks and lies upon lies

[Susan830]

Well this dinner video tonight proves, once again, that instead of learning to crack an egg for the rest of her life, Jessica needs to learn manners and the definition of rude. There’s no way I would ever stand for that, disabled or not…that is very ugly behavior being displayed. Val’s constant broken record excuse of Jessica having “complicated food issues” when she was younger is the reason she’s allowed to act like an entitled spoiled brat whenever food is involved. It’s pretty obvious that she doesn’t like to share anything. We’ve seen her atrocious selfish behavior many times before. Val has let her act this way for 36 years because she doesn’t want a meltdown and correcting, or teaching her, would be too much work. “Those are mine!” Right after she said this, with a nasty look on her face, that’s when Hannah should’ve stopped cooking dinner, walked off and let poor fragile Val finish cooking dinner for her precious Bessie.

Good old Bessie should have been disciplined as a kid. I am sure she was a holy terror back then considering she has been violent for years. But nope instead of a good ass whooping she was coddled. And she is now a witch.
And HH has got to be kicked out and made to grow up!! Get a job HH...
And outside of being a fricking porn star Madison at least got out...and of course he despises Jess.
You Val need to get a grip on your Joyful Life....it's going down the drain!
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Did she go hide in the camper to get away from Jessica whining demands? Two woman always so tired when then do nothing but lie in bed editing their boring repetitive videos. Val must blew through all her money from the sale of her house because now she traded in Hannah for Big Daddy. I wonder how Hannah feels about being pushed aside after being promised so much if she quit her job to assist Val. Maybe Hannah will finally realize just how selfish her mom is like Madison did years ago.
Now Campbell for Xmas someone needs to gift him his balls on a plate because he lost them when he allowed Val back into his house. As they say no one is promised a tomorrow so Val better hope nothing happens to Campbell because no one else would take in her and Jessica.
And that Sunday sleeping with her 36 yr old daughter is right down incestuous . I get she’s disabled but it just screams creepy! Maybe it wouldn’t be so bad if it was in separate beds. Georgia is a kissing cousin state where you’re allowed to wed your first cousin so I guess they think it’s Georgia family bonding
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He doesn’t let her pull I can’t because I am tired crap or it’s to heavy etc . She knows better and the same with Nathan they don’t let her pull that poor me crap. Jessica is this way because her mother sucks at parenting. Val just admit your to mentally unstable to care for her and let her go live in assisted living. Hannah and even the dogs have anxiety disorder because they to sense their owners are cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs .

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Good old Bessie should have been disciplined as a kid. I am sure she was a holy terror back then considering she has been violent for years. But nope instead of a good ass whooping she was coddled. And she is now a witch.
And HH has got to be kicked out and made to grow up!! Get a job HH...
And outside of being a fricking porn star Madison at least got out...and of course he despises Jess.
You Val need to get a grip on your Joyful Life....it's going down the drain!
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rbooth61 you are so right on Val going through all her money. She is spending like crazy...I sure would like a mixer like she just bought but unfortunately I have bills to pay! And the BS with her camper is probably a lie. No RV place would keep her camper for 3 months. I bet she sold it back or got behind on her payments and it was repossessed...
That place would be out of business if they took that long on all their repairs!!!

 

[rbooth61]

Well this dinner video tonight proves, once again, that instead of learning to crack an egg for the rest of her life, Jessica needs to learn manners and the definition of rude. There’s no way I would ever stand for that, disabled or not…that is very ugly behavior being displayed. Val’s constant broken record excuse of Jessica having “complicated food issues” when she was younger is the reason she’s allowed to act like an entitled spoiled brat whenever food is involved. It’s pretty obvious that she doesn’t like to share anything. We’ve seen her atrocious selfish behavior many times before. Val has let her act this way for 36 years because she doesn’t want a meltdown and correcting, or teaching her, would be too much work. “Those are mine!” Right after she said this, with a nasty look on her face, that’s when Hannah should’ve stopped cooking dinner, walked off and let poor fragile Val finish cooking dinner for her precious Bessie.

I would have walked away also . They’ve allowed this for so long but it’s never too late for a teaching moment on sharing and kindness. But they can’t do that because then people will be right that they failed at parenting
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Good old Bessie should have been disciplined as a kid. I am sure she was a holy terror back then considering she has been violent for years. But nope instead of a good ass whooping she was coddled. And she is now a witch.
And HH has got to be kicked out and made to grow up!! Get a job HH...
And outside of being a fricking porn star Madison at least got out...and of course he despises Jess.
You Val need to get a grip on your Joyful Life....it's going down the drain!
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rbooth61 you are so right on Val going through all her money. She is spending like crazy...I sure would like a mixer like she just bought but unfortunately I have bills to pay! And the BS with her camper is probably a lie. No RV place would keep her camper for 3 months. I bet she sold it back or got behind on her payments and it was repossessed...
That place would be out of business if they took that long on all their repairs!!!

Susan it couldn’t been said any better about that dysfunctional pathetic family. Jessica’s disability gives her no excuse for being such a rude entitled witch like her mother. I would like to see Hannah put her in her place and before she walks away give her a good kick in the ass . Better yet take that bag of nuggets place it on the floor and stump it til the bag explodes. Then say well Jessica there all yours help yourself.

 

[Mixfile]

Good one! It’s short, sweet, and to the point.

schizophrenia interpretations .
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[misty.]

Good one! It’s short, sweet, and to the point.

Val and nonnie hate the word "schizophrenia ". And they read our comments here. If everyone OK with new thread name can someone please do it,I'm very hopeless with things. Thank you.

 

[grammacloud]

Did Val just post that she never thought to set an alarm for Jessica’s shower time ? Really! I mean come on! 36 years old, been showering for at least 25 of those years. And Val finally realized that she could try setting a timer for Jessica to take a shower at a reasonable time ! This shows how utterly stupid Val is. This just shows how much Jessica manipulates that household, so much so that no one thought to take back their sleep from the midnight shower queen. Val, WAKE UP! You are the MOM you set the rules. You don’t let her run the house. Jessica is not a functioning adult. Body wise she is an adult but mentally she is a 2 yr old. Why would you think she is possible of making any decision other than what potato to have for dinner. Would you let her make the decision to go to a storm shelter in a storm? Get out of the house in a fire? That is up to you. WAKE UP! No matter how much you want Jessica to be a decision making adult, she NEVER WILL BE. Get a grip and be the mom. Maybe it is finally time for that day program. Your patience has run out and you are getting old. Time for someone else to take over her care. Val, think of it, you could lay in bed all day, watch old tv shows and not have to deal with Jessica.

 

[Susan830]

Did Val just post that she never thought to set an alarm for Jessica’s shower time ? Really! I mean come on! 36 years old, been showering for at least 25 of those years. And Val finally realized that she could try setting a timer for Jessica to take a shower at a reasonable time ! This shows how utterly stupid Val is. This just shows how much Jessica manipulates that household, so much so that no one thought to take back their sleep from the midnight shower queen. Val, WAKE UP! You are the MOM you set the rules. You don’t let her run the house. Jessica is not a functioning adult. Body wise she is an adult but mentally she is a 2 yr old. Why would you think she is possible of making any decision other than what potato to have for dinner. Would you let her make the decision to go to a storm shelter in a storm? Get out of the house in a fire? That is up to you. WAKE UP! No matter how much you want Jessica to be a decision making adult, she NEVER WILL BE. Get a grip and be the mom. Maybe it is finally time for that day program. Your patience has run out and you are getting old. Time for someone else to take over her care. Val, think of it, you could lay in bed all day, watch old tv shows and not have to deal with Jessica.

I have not watched anything this morning but do you think Jess will do the timer thing? She has to get up and make noise whatever time she wants. You are so right she is a 2 year old. We never see that day planner thing, or the stickers so we know those were not her cup of tea!
They do need to set some boundaries but I think that she won't follow them. Just like letting her pick every meal and have the 3 hot meals a day.
She needs to be in a home and they will straighten her out! No one will kiss her ass there!!!
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Well I broke down and watched this mornings video. Jess stood there looking like a zombie . And making fish lips...grammacloud got most of it in her post but oh my Val suggested Jess have just one hash brown with her McDonald's breakfast and yowser she did not like that! I'm not doing that said Jess. They (Jess) decided they were OK to eat 2 because Granddad squeezes the great out of them. They are so delusional!
And not sure who's bedroom they were in but the Christmas tree is on an electric fireplace and there are all kinds of wrapped packages on and around it!!!!! And it was on!

 

[FairlyCertain]

Wow!! I’ve just lurking here for weeks, quit watching videos a long time ago, but this morning someone said it was a short one so I watched. Again, just wow!!! As Gramma cloud and Susan just said (in fact took the thoughts right out of my brain), can you just imagine what happened at the mere suggestion that there might be a reduction in hash browns?!?! Did you notice there was a jump cut, but she was still whiny about it and I’ll bet that she whined until the damned things were on her plate. Can you imagine having to 24/7 tiptoe around this spoiled brat?!?! I remember a couple of years ago hearing Hannah go on and on about how everything has to be worded perfectly or Ms Thing goes into an OCD meltdown. This is parental over-indulgence. Even two year olds can be instructed. I also agree that she will never be able to make adult decisions because she will never be an adult. The only “adult” decisions she can make are related directly to what effects her own selfish wants….just like any two year old on the planet. Ugh!

 

[888MHBB]

Why does she need so many presents?? I, also, get my family more than one because I have only 1 son and 1 grandson, but it looks as though she has 10 or more under “her” tree. I would bet Hannah and Madison, Val’s other 2 children that she doesn’t seem to claim, will not get that many, or even close to it. More, more, more and she will not appreciate, or take care, of any of them. I do understand splurging a little more at Christmas, but she gets all year long and the excessive Disney trips should be considered as part of her Christmas. Explain to her that those trips are ver expensive so they would be part of her birthday and Christmas presents.
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spending money, grifting, spending more money..all day every day

 

[rbooth61]

Wow!! I’ve just lurking here for weeks, quit watching videos a long time ago, but this morning someone said it was a short one so I watched. Again, just wow!!! As Gramma cloud and Susan just said (in fact took the thoughts right out of my brain), can you just imagine what happened at the mere suggestion that there might be a reduction in hash browns?!?! Did you notice there was a jump cut, but she was still whiny about it and I’ll bet that she whined until the damned things were on her plate. Can you imagine having to 24/7 tiptoe around this spoiled brat?!?! I remember a couple of years ago hearing Hannah go on and on about how everything has to be worded perfectly or Ms Thing goes into an OCD meltdown. This is parental over-indulgence. Even two year olds can be instructed. I also agree that she will never be able to make adult decisions because she will never be an adult. The only “adult” decisions she can make are related directly to what effects her own selfish wants….just like any two year old on the planet. Ugh!

Whats appalling is they think that they set an example to other families with autistic adults. Who in their right mind would ever want to look up to them for parenting advice! And the followers who tell Val what a great mom she is must be smoking crack . We can all see through the crumbling dysfunction that’s why she’s sucking up to Campbell.

 

[HartofTexas]

Did Val just post that she never thought to set an alarm for Jessica’s shower time ? Really! I mean come on! 36 years old, been showering for at least 25 of those years. And Val finally realized that she could try setting a timer for Jessica to take a shower at a reasonable time ! This shows how utterly stupid Val is. This just shows how much Jessica manipulates that household, so much so that no one thought to take back their sleep from the midnight shower queen. Val, WAKE UP! You are the MOM you set the rules. You don’t let her run the house. Jessica is not a functioning adult. Body wise she is an adult but mentally she is a 2 yr old. Why would you think she is possible of making any decision other than what potato to have for dinner. Would you let her make the decision to go to a storm shelter in a storm? Get out of the house in a fire? That is up to you. WAKE UP! No matter how much you want Jessica to be a decision making adult, she NEVER WILL BE. Get a grip and be the mom. Maybe it is finally time for that day program. Your patience has run out and you are getting old. Time for someone else to take over her care. Val, think of it, you could lay in bed all day, watch old tv shows and not have to deal with Jessica.

Val has zero maternal instinct and zero sense

 

[SadieLove]

I’ve been comparing AI to other families that I watch and AI is almost the exact opposite of these other channels. Most of these families show only glimpses of their child, maybe some photos here and there. If and when they do film them, it’s at a birthday party or something similar and it’s only for a short time. (I’m not including FA in this but I don’t watch them, either). None of them film breakfast being prepared every day with bed head still in jammies and out of sorts, scratching/rubbing, zoning out episodes, “self-talking”, etc. Who wants to be filmed like that? It astounds me that anyone would film someone at their most vulnerable moments and then post for all the world to see. I cannot imagine, as a family member, being able to sit back and allow that to continue. They all participate in filming a disabled, mentally challenged adult that has the mind of a child. She has no idea what is actually happening. When she’s asked “do you want to make a video?”, that’s very misleading to her because again, she’s thinking it’s only a few of “the good ones” (people or friends that she trusts and regulars she’s told about when on a livestream), that are watching, not the whole entire world. She’s not asked “do you want to make a video where millions of strangers will be watching you?” because she just might say NO.

 

[grammy1955]

I saw where Tales of an Educated Debutante, Carrie and one other mom are writing a book together. Wonder why they didn't ask Dawg to participate!

 

[SadieLove]

I saw where Tales of an Educated Debutante, Carrie and one other mom are writing a book together. Wonder why they didn't ask Dawg to participate!

I saw that too and thought of that right away. Kate from Finding Cooper’s Voice is the other one involved. She’s awesome. Didn’t she and Val do an interview together or something a couple of years ago?

 

[grammy1955]

I saw that too and thought of that right away. Kate from Finding Cooper’s Voice is the other one involved. She’s awesome. Didn’t she and Val do an interview together or something a couple of years ago?

I didn't see it but I bet she regrets it.

 

[FairlyCertain]

They all participate in filming a disabled, mentally challenged adult that has the mind of a child. She has no idea what is actually happening

Exactly! And that’s what elevates the channel to the level of a sideshow attraction, like back in the awful days of fat ladies and Siamese twins. AI followers want to see Jessica fumble around and do her thing. They could not care less about actually learning anything. (Shudder). Makes me sick.

 

[Susan830]

Well Vals anxiety is now so high when she gets asked what's for breakfast, lunch or dinner. And she didn't mention a name but she was talking about Princess Jess! Someone mentioned earlier that she is sick of Jess and it sure acts that way! Start looking into group homes Val since you can't take care of her anymore!
And as you can see she had to start the video out by laying down resting. And apparently her hygiene is going downhill quickly. Stringy, greasy looking hair and another t-shirt!
They cleaned out all the leftovers and that's what everyone including Marlow ate for dinner. But Val was just going to have water and popcorn....if you watch she seems tipsy.
And what got me was when she was saying things in the freezer for 3 weeks had to be tossed!!!!! WTH is wrong with her? They should still be good for a couple months...thats how long I keep mine frozen. She had criticism for the carrots HH made..they were canned and nuked but chef Val said they needed seasoning like butter. You could have done that when they were on your plate dummy.
The pictures are first plate HH, second Marlows and third was the gluttons plate. And there was some red stuff in a container that looked like shredded beets that Val forbid HH to eat! That was very odd!
The situation in that house is getting very curious

 

[grammacloud]

Val, you have done this to yourself by putting way too much emphasis on food. What do expect when that’s the only thing you film. No one needs to talk about food and meals every second of every day. Even well known chefs don’t talk about food 24/7. You haven’t given Jessica any direction other than food in her life. Even at Disney, it’s food, food ,food. Give it a rest. Quit filming every bite you put into your mouth. Quit making Jessica talk about food every second. You are OBSESSED !

 

[SadieLove]

Oh please. Anxiety because Jessica is food obsessed and asks a million times a day what’s next on the menu? We all know that’s the someone she’s talking about. Jessica has been coddled her entire life by everyone. Food has always been her main focus and it’s been allowed to continue because no one will tell her no or tell her to stop obsessing about it. They’ve posted videos of them joking around with her about what’s for dinner but now all of a sudden, Val’s anxious about meal times? If they have that much food left over that they have to throw it out because it’s too old, then they’re making too much. So wasteful.

 

[winnie woo]

I wouldn’t eat any of that crap Val showed in tonight’s video. She can’t even remember when she made it and is considering serving it. Some of those things are really old, we see the video long after they’re actually cooked so god knows how old. It all looked pretty rough. She has to learn to say no to miss piggy and stop preparing huge meals for breakfast, sometime before it’s even light outside, then a big lunch to satisfy princess, if not then STFU and stop complaining.
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I saw where Tales of an Educated Debutante, Carrie and one other mom are writing a book together. Wonder why they didn't ask Dawg to participate!

Because the interview kate did with Hannah Val and Jess was more than enough. Also if any of you remember someone spilled the beans about porn boy on Adrian’s page, without saying it was AI she mentioned that she was informed an autism family had a son who does porn. She laughed it off but I bet they heeded the warning to steer clear of the grifters. All three ladies have such different pages, a pleasure to watch and learn from.

 

[poohbear22]

Well Vals anxiety is now so high when she gets asked what's for breakfast, lunch or dinner. And she didn't mention a name but she was talking about Princess Jess! Someone mentioned earlier that she is sick of Jess and it sure acts that way! Start looking into group homes Val since you can't take care of her anymore!
And as you can see she had to start the video out by laying down resting. And apparently her hygiene is going downhill quickly. Stringy, greasy looking hair and another t-shirt!
They cleaned out all the leftovers and that's what everyone including Marlow ate for dinner. But Val was just going to have water and popcorn....if you watch she seems tipsy.
And what got me was when she was saying things in the freezer for 3 weeks had to be tossed!!!!! WTH is wrong with her? They should still be good for a couple months...thats how long I keep mine frozen. She had criticism for the carrots HH made..they were canned and nuked but chef Val said they needed seasoning like butter. You could have done that when they were on your plate dummy.
The pictures are first plate HH, second Marlows and third was the gluttons plate. And there was some red stuff in a container that looked like shredded beets that Val forbid HH to eat! That was very odd!
The situation in that house is getting very curious

That was the boxed hot Cheetos Mac and cheese Hannah made one day . No cooking with Nathan video this week ? They had leftovers she said .