What is this balls didn’t they go out on Valentine’s Day? A dinner out while in France? Or does a date night only count if you can bin off the kids for the entire night? If that’s the case then WTAF does she think most people without on tap childcare do?!
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Where exactly is Essex….?
Omg you beat me to it. Hilarious
maybe she thinks Brentwood is in Scotland? Or maybe these are the type of friends that will only travel pyjama distance to maintain their friendships?Didn’t have couple time for 15 months!!! Hahah I can’t wait to see this London move go up in flames. She’s ridiculous, she had reliable local childcare that was available adhoc and her children were comfortable with. She just didn’t want to go out because she doesn’t think Brentwood was cool enough for a meal with Tommy and she never met friends because she didn’t have any!
And the last time her and Tommy had a child free evening was before her c section?? She went out on Valentine’s Day and went for a date over half term?? Does she realise it’s not normal to have regular overnight dates when you have two young children? Most people might use overnight childcare for their children like once a year for a special wedding or something! The fact that she thinks it doesn’t count if you go for a mean and return to your children IS NUTS.
Also this weird “it’s okay to do things in your own time” angle is so bizzare. She’s acting like she’s Mother Earth, so attached and nurturing to her children. Her baby was in childcare from 6 months and she just recently dumped her still breastfed baby for a full week of days and nights! Being “ready” is a total excuse for insta sympathy. I would love to know who she is comparing herself to every time she posts this comment because everyone in the industry seems to spend more time with their kids than Ashley, yet she thinks she’s so hard done by.
And the last time her and Tommy had a child free evening was before her c section?? She went out on Valentine’s Day and went for a date over half term?? Does she realise it’s not normal to have regular overnight dates when you have two young children? Most people might use overnight childcare for their children like once a year for a special wedding or something! The fact that she thinks it doesn’t count if you go for a mean and return to your children IS NUTS.
Also this weird “it’s okay to do things in your own time” angle is so bizzare. She’s acting like she’s Mother Earth, so attached and nurturing to her children. Her baby was in childcare from 6 months and she just recently dumped her still breastfed baby for a full week of days and nights! Being “ready” is a total excuse for insta sympathy. I would love to know who she is comparing herself to every time she posts this comment because everyone in the industry seems to spend more time with their kids than Ashley, yet she thinks she’s so hard done by.
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IS SHE TAKING THE PISS
SHE’S ON CRACK
TOMMY IS GAY
I’ll see myself out
SHE’S ON CRACK
TOMMY IS GAY
I’ll see myself out
What happens at the end of date night when you sleep in separate rooms?
Do you wait to be invited in for ‘coffee’ in your long-term partner’s bedroom?
Do you have ‘coffee’ and then move to your own bedroom?
How romantic.
Do you wait to be invited in for ‘coffee’ in your long-term partner’s bedroom?
Do you have ‘coffee’ and then move to your own bedroom?
How romantic.
Now she’s back in LDN she can jet off for a weekend in Portugal, you just can’t do that when you live in Essex.
Seriously though Ash, I think the last thing TNB wants is more couples time with you. You’re just latching on to that because you haven’t got any friends to go out with so you have to push a big ‘date night’ narrative instead.
Seriously though Ash, I think the last thing TNB wants is more couples time with you. You’re just latching on to that because you haven’t got any friends to go out with so you have to push a big ‘date night’ narrative instead.
I bet Jas babysits. Ash will remind her that she lived in their house for months and Jas will feel like she has to.
Or wait for the no-one told me babysitters are expensive!
Or wait for the no-one told me babysitters are expensive!
She literally lived under 30 minutes from Stansted airport in Essex 
Remember when she went out diving in the Maldives and said she had left her ‘mum era’ behind 
Sadly for her it was still waiting for her when she returned to shore in the form of a small baby and a toddler.
Sadly for her it was still waiting for her when she returned to shore in the form of a small baby and a toddler.
They also went to Craig David. I’m sure there’s more
Oh my goodness.
Her Battersea flat is actually in Wandsworth.
Her Battersea flat is actually in Wandsworth.
Someone said on here her flat is less than a mile from her new house. Jas will be living there and will pay her back in the form of childcare with Ada 1000000%
Jas was probably filling out rental paperwork that time on stories
Jas was probably filling out rental paperwork that time on stories
So that's it, she's got her life back. Back in London, Ada off the boob, able to travel. Assuming they have child care sorted (will she be be introducing her FT help soon? she's young, free Ashley again....but with a check list of 'life goals' ticked off that of course you absolutely shouldn't worry about and don't mean success and are only there because society and the patriarchy.
I can't understand why she chose to breast feed Ada and not introduce a bottle sooner given how it made her feel with Alf, her intention so start childcare sooner, her resentment of the responsibility/tie of exclusive BF.
Can it really have all been for content or be able to laze in bed and leave Alf to TNB? She has chosen to end it with the move back to London, which is her prerogative, as is a weekend away, a week alone to do the house, childcare etc, but not while claiming to be a present, attachment, responsive, child-led parent.
She'll be happier for it and she's say it's the magic of London when she could have done it in Essex but didn't bother. Just like she didn't bother to make friends, do date nights (ish), join the community etc rather sulking until she got back to London.
I can't understand why she chose to breast feed Ada and not introduce a bottle sooner given how it made her feel with Alf, her intention so start childcare sooner, her resentment of the responsibility/tie of exclusive BF.
Can it really have all been for content or be able to laze in bed and leave Alf to TNB? She has chosen to end it with the move back to London, which is her prerogative, as is a weekend away, a week alone to do the house, childcare etc, but not while claiming to be a present, attachment, responsive, child-led parent.
She'll be happier for it and she's say it's the magic of London when she could have done it in Essex but didn't bother. Just like she didn't bother to make friends, do date nights (ish), join the community etc rather sulking until she got back to London.
They’re ‘doing it all again today’ so that’ll be NNB taking Alf to Lovely Day 2.0 tomorrow then
Ashley James #48 - She's done with "at times" putting the kids first. Parenting - she's the worst.
So date nights are only official if they share the same bed and they're away from the children. Every other date night doesn't count.
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