Ashley Cain

[xxexposethemallxx]

Hi all ,

Like many of you , I’ve followed their journey since A was born. I’m so glad I’ve found a thread ( like many others ) which agree what I think. I feel for them both so so much as I can’t imagine what it is like losing a child.

I am 23 & I have suffered with different mental illnesses since I was 14.

I worry for Ash & Saf so much mentally , like someone else said Ash is killing himself. From someone who has been in a dark place & has tried to kill themselves , Ash is on the way. He is in deep deep denial & all this exercise only helps the mind so much.

I wish I could give Saf a massive hug , even though she has amazing & loving support from her brother , she just looks so alone & broken. Her strength really inspires me & has helped me through hard times mentally.

We don’t know what happens behind closed doors but I feel they’re not together.

Sending my love to everyone xxx

 

[MamaD]

Hi all ,

Like many of you , I’ve followed their journey since A was born. I’m so glad I’ve found a thread ( like many others ) which agree what I think. I feel for them both so so much as I can’t imagine what it is like losing a child.

I am 23 & I have suffered with different mental illnesses since I was 14.

I worry for Ash & Saf so much mentally , like someone else said Ash is killing himself. From someone who has been in a dark place & has tried to kill themselves , Ash is on the way. He is in deep deep denial & all this exercise only helps the mind so much.

I wish I could give Saf a massive hug , even though she has amazing & loving support from her brother , she just looks so alone & broken. Her strength really inspires me & has helped me through hard times mentally.

We don’t know what happens behind closed doors but I feel they’re not together.

Sending my love to everyone xxx

He will crash and burn shortly. He can only push himself so much. The mind will make you stop if you don’t pay attention to it. He’s not working off his grief, he’s just tiring his mind and body out so he doesn’t have to think. They both need proper counselling and time away from social media.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

He will crash and burn shortly. He can only push himself so much. The mind will make you stop if you don’t pay attention to it. He’s not working off his grief, he’s just tiring his mind and body out so he doesn’t have to think. They both need proper counselling and time away from social media.

I agree also puts me off with their views on medication , fair play if you don’t want it but I think they would both really benefit. I know it can be hard accepting help but it’s out there for people that are struggling

 

[Jaceydooley]

I noticed he never has his too like anyone wants to look at his dwarf body ? I mean have some respect even when he was holding azaylia when she passed his top was off. just odd.

Dwarf body? What do you mean?

 

[openbook1]

I know Ashley & Saf are a bit of a touchy subject after what they have been through & I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, I may be in the minority here but I just wish they would both take a break away from social media, I know we only see a snippet of their lives but they really need to step away & grieve alone for a while, I feel Ashley is on the verge of a breakdown I know exercise is good for the Mind but he actually worries me that he doesn’t rest, it would be good to see them go away as a couple, I know they are starting The charity which is fantastic that Azalyias legacy will live on.
I will probably get slaughtered for saying this but I think the party in the cemetery tonight was a bit much it really isn’t the place for something like this I found it quite disrespectful towards the surroundings. Saf is looking more fragile and lost, it’s such a weird one as I cringe when she asks where she can get things from & recommendations on her stories when she knows she’s going to get gifted something
Sorry I’m really going on I just needed to get a few things off my chest ! I really do like the both of them and like I said I just think they need to step away & grieve

The whole situation is so sad. They look so broken. I remember there was a thread on here a while back before Azalyia passed away. I commented saying that I thought it was not appropriate to share videos of her dying on Instagram and got a lot of criticism for sharing that. I still stand by it. I can't believe people followed that account to watch a little baby slowly die. So bizarre actually.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

The whole situation is so sad. They look so broken. I remember there was a thread on here a while back before Azalyia passed away. I commented saying that I thought it was not appropriate to share videos of her dying on Instagram and got a lot of criticism for sharing that. I still stand by it. I can't believe people followed that account to watch a little baby slowly die. So bizarre actually.

People got way way to invested in the situation some seemed like they were competing with each other, I found certain things quite concerning the way grown women with children of their own were acting

 

[Soflora]

The way they filmed poor Azaylia in her last days was horrific..

she was being passed around, loud music, singing. I felt so sorry for her she looked like she just wanted to be held

 

[openbook1]

Her mum posts things on her Instagram about narcissistic personalities now I don’t know if she means herself or someone else. Obviously a lot has gone on behind closed doors between them. The photos were very very hard to look at and I don’t think people realise that Azalyia had actually passed in them. I know a leopard can change its spots and he says his exercising for his mental health but to be honest I hear anger & aggression in his voice every time he speaks, what good is he going to be when he seems angry with himself there’s one thing keeping yourself fit it’s another exhausting and killing yourself. I doubt very much he would listen to anyone though and those closest to him must see it. His very angry with the world which is understandable I would be to but his going to crash and burn massively there’s only so much your body can take. I’ve never lost a child but I’ve lost people very very close to me including a brother who was a child so I’ve saw my parents grieve they grieved together as they were the only ones who understood what each were going through. My mum ended up in a psyc hospital due & dad visited every single day but he got her through it,
Sorry for derailing

Wait.. they posted photos of Az dead???? WTF? I never noticed that.

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

The way they filmed poor Azaylia in her last days was horrific..

she was being passed around, loud music, singing. I felt so sorry for her she looked like she just wanted to be held

Physically couldn’t watch when A could barely open her eyes , broke me so badly

 

[BettySpaghetty]

If that was my baby I would have held her all day every day.

 

[kcab0231]

He will crash and burn shortly. He can only push himself so much. The mind will make you stop if you don’t pay attention to it. He’s not working off his grief, he’s just tiring his mind and body out so he doesn’t have to think. They both need proper counselling and time away from social media.

This…

I know it is not the same at all but when my husband died I was a young widow at only 24 and didn’t know what to do so focused on other things, started a new career and went back to Uni,
Eventually the grief caught up with me and I had a breakdown, I feel that if I had tried to allow myself to grieve earlier in my journey I would not have been as unwell as I was by the time it caught up with me.

I hope they both get the help and support they need!

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

This…

I know it is not the same at all but when my husband died I was a young widow at only 24 and didn’t know what to do so focused on other things, started a new career and went back to Uni,
Eventually the grief caught up with me and I had a breakdown, I feel that if I had tried to allow myself to grieve earlier in my journey I would not have been as unwell as I was by the time it caught up with me.

I hope they both get the help and support they need!

So sorry for your loss

 

[Lola123]

The presents they got for his mum! All about the wee baby, now yes, they all miss her but get her some things that are about her but don’t make everything about her! (I’m sorry if this comes across as being cold)

 

[Bumblebee2019]

I find the number of Facebook accounts dedicated to Azaylia and posting pictures of her really concerning. Who are the people behind them? Why are they posting and tagging Ash and Saf in reposted pictures of their daughter?

 

[Soflora]

Wait.. they posted photos of Az dead???? WTF? I never noticed that.

Yes i could tell as soon as i saw it, her little hand was yellow

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

I find the number of Facebook accounts dedicated to Azaylia and posting pictures of her really concerning. Who are the people behind them? Why are they posting and tagging Ash and Saf in reposted pictures of their daughter?

I find the dedicated accounts on insta strange too & them tagging Ash & Saf constantly. Doesn’t help their grieving process

 

[openbook1]

I totally agree. Imagine during your final hours there a party going on around you. Laughing, loud music and being moved from person to person. I have young children and would want peace so I could take in every last second of them. I wouldn’t want a party!

That and the obnoxious yelling of "let's go champ" in her face was so sad. She was like a prop being passed around.
Her graveside is so tacky

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

That and the obnoxious yelling of "let's go champ" in her face was so sad. She was like a prop being passed around.
Her graveside is so tacky

Find it upsetting but a few toys & flowers would be so lovely

 

[Soflora]

Oh god, the birthday presents for his Mum...
Everything is orange and Azaylia themed

 

[Tobodee]

Oh god, the birthday presents for his Mum...
Everything is orange and Azaylia themed

I’ve just seen that. Just why? I think a photo in a frame would have been lovely but all that…. Is just too much