Ashley Cain

[turkeydinosaurs]

Thanks everyone x

 

[UnkindFoot]

I think it looks like he's made such an effort for her birthday, which is nice! Just because they aren't constantly updating stories together doesn't mean they aren't together, we do only see a tiny snippet of their day

 

[ai2021]

I can’t work out her birthday, it looks like everyone’s planned a lovely day for Saf one she deserves yet his there but his not if you get me,

I really tbi

ex on the beach and treating women disgustingly also rumoured that him and business partner were ripping people off from his car leasing/sales business

he was a footballer before ex on the beach. He was known from that.
And for everyone saying he looks vacant all the time, I’d be exactly the same if I lost my world in such a traumatic way. I think he really does try, but I’d be crushed so I’d imagine he is too

 

[Noonoosanne2]

I really tbi

he was a footballer before ex on the beach. He was known from that.
And for everyone saying he looks vacant all the time, I’d be exactly the same if I lost my world in such a traumatic way. I think he really does try, but I’d be crushed so I’d imagine he is too

His grieving massively they both are, you can see the affection in the old photos towards Saf just a shame you can’t see it now I really do stick by what I say they need to shut off something social media shut off the world go and grieve together, go away have a break from everything alone and come to terms with what’s happened as you never ever get over something like this and nobody is asking them to

 

[lay111]

Saff’s brother Danny seems very supportive of her always taking her out more then Ashley does he just seems to exercise non stop I know it’s his way of coping. But I would of thought saffs mum would of been more supportive of her daughter but you never see her with them even at saffs birthday.

 

[Pollie]

I think they are a good couple, usually the ones who are over the top on social media are the ones who are in trouble. I think they are just real.

 

[Penguin12]

Ashley posted this on Safs Birthday -

"Happy Birthday to this strong, amazing lady. You have been my rock during our relationship and especially this last year. Along with being the bestest mommy a little girl could wish for. We love you saf, happy birthday! Love from Ashley & Azaylia Ps Azaylia is proud of you every single day, keep being incredible! #HappyBirthday"

If he was so detached from her, would he honestly write that about her?

 

[Tobodee]

I honestly feel so so sorry for Safiyya, my heart broke for her on her stories, however I did think it was really distasteful posting the pictures of her when she had passed, and the videos of her final days when her nose was bleeding and they were up making her dance with music blasting! The baby just wanted to rest. I know everyone deals with things differently but they really should have left social media for a bit. Even just one day!
I agree Ashley seems distant with her too, I don’t think the relationship will last unfortunately . I do really hope they find contentment in their lives and as much happiness as possible.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Ashley posted this on Safs Birthday -

"Happy Birthday to this strong, amazing lady. You have been my rock during our relationship and especially this last year. Along with being the bestest mommy a little girl could wish for. We love you saf, happy birthday! Love from Ashley & Azaylia Ps Azaylia is proud of you every single day, keep being incredible! #HappyBirthday"

If he was so detached from her, would he honestly write that about her?

My ex wrote a gushing happy birthday message a few years ago and the hole was cheating on me with a client, so sometimes things are done for show, not saying Ashley’s cheating absolutely far from it but sometimes things are posted as you think they have to be and to distract people from reality

 

[Peakyblinders]

Ashley posted this on Safs Birthday -

"Happy Birthday to this strong, amazing lady. You have been my rock during our relationship and especially this last year. Along with being the bestest mommy a little girl could wish for. We love you saf, happy birthday! Love from Ashley & Azaylia Ps Azaylia is proud of you every single day, keep being incredible! #HappyBirthday"

If he was so detached from her, would he honestly write that about her?

Yes. He would.

 

[chocdip]

I’m honestly not here to skate him but there was some people being horrible in his comments about the money etc, he said he sold all his own belongings including his car and he’s got the worst car off the forecourt now, well it certainly doesn’t look like the worst car from the forecourt and that’s fine only if what you say is true

 

[Noonoosanne2]

I’m honestly not here to skate him but there was some people being horrible in his comments about the money etc, he said he sold all his own belongings including his car and he’s got the worst car off the forecourt now, well it certainly doesn’t look like the worst car from the forecourt and that’s fine only if what you say is true

I don’t believe he sold/gave away all of his belongings saying is one thing doing is another

 

[BelfastCc]

I read in previous posts that a girl commented under one of Safs pictures basically saying Ashley was a cheat even when his baby was sick - the comment was deleted very quickly.. there’s another thread about the two it’s in that. The coldness at the funeral was extremely hard to watch- yes people grieve differently but there hasn’t been much regard for the mother of the child in my eyes it’s very Ashley focused. & the birthday picture well he never done it before so why now? Maybe reading these comments. I hope they both do what’s right for themselves.

 

[Tobodee]

You know that’s absolutely vile if he’s cheated whilst their baby was poorly, but also, it doesn’t surprise me in the slightest if it were true

 

[Bellamy]

Did she show the tattoo she had done of Azaylia? Idk if i missed it or not?

 

[chocdip]

Did she show the tattoo she had done of Azaylia? Idk if i missed it or not?

Not that I’ve seen maybe it isn’t finished if it’s big, not sure though

 

[Cdinvoice]

Does anybody know why Saf never goes the important meeting for Azaylias foundation. It’s always him and his brother. I thought Saf was helping setting things up, seems Ash is handling it himself.

 

[Mrspowell]

Ashley is killing him self. He genuinely believes if he isn’t strong he’s letting Azaylia down. The podcasts. The constant exercise. He is very very unwell. His grief will get him no matter how far he cycles away from it. The two of them look broken. Ashley doesn’t look like himself just a shell. Saf looks like a lost little girl. The videos of her birthday she was holding her hands in a ball, like a child on a first day of school she’s broken and she’s being made to believe she has to get up and be strong. Someone needs to tell her it’s ok to stay in bed and let your heart bleed and sob for your baby. A mother who loses a baby. There are no words. My heart hurts for them despite the fact I agree with what people are saying here. The grave scene was uncomfortable saf looked uncomfortable didn’t she

 

[chocdip]

Does anybody know why Saf never goes the important meeting for Azaylias foundation. It’s always him and his brother. I thought Saf was helping setting things up, seems Ash is handling it himself.

I don’t understand this either, and all those London trips are so uncomfortable to watch. It’s like let’s show off these £200 trainers this Nike bag my new outfit etc just why Him and his brother posing where is Saf it’s her daughters charity too

 

[xannax]

I don’t know why it’s so bad to have days in bed, to cry and bad mental health days. They seem to think having this ‘always strong’ mentality is a good thing and always having things to do so you can’t think about your grief. I really highly doubt they will both go to therapy even though they’d heavily benefit from it. They are essentially putting a plaster over a wound but not solving the problem that’s deep rooted