Ashley Cain

[nichew]

Saff’s brother Danny seems very supportive of her always taking her out more then Ashley does he just seems to exercise non stop I know it’s his way of coping. But I would of thought saffs mum would of been more supportive of her daughter but you never see her with them even at saffs birthday.

I don’t know any of them personall, but what I’ve seen of them I like them both, but I’m wondering ppl saying he looks vacant from her, I wonder if it’s something to do with only they actually know how they feel and he knows he can’t help make her feel better, because nothing and no one could make him feel better and that he’s at a loss. I don’t know if that make scence.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

@Noonoosanne2 sorry for your loss. Hope you are all doing ok.

It was a long time ago but you still remember these things, mum and dad are good, birthdays and anniversaries hard but we cope together as family. I’m glad all those years ago there was no such thing as social media

 

[GobShyte64]

Whats the big news they keep talking about that they did at the children's hospital? Hopefully they donated some funds to the wards, or some toys or something for the kids to play with.

 

[username123!]

What is the difference between a foundation and a charity?

Generally speaking, charities can be classified into two main forms: public charities and private foundations or trusts. In the UK, a legal definition for a ‘charitable foundation’ does not exist. Although they share many similarities, the key to their distinction lies in the way they gather funds for operational purposes. There’s also a difference in how the two operate. Private foundations tend to hand out grants to individuals who meet some criteria set out by the foundation. Charities, on the other hand, are more likely to act, such as providing cooked meals or entertainment for elderly people. This distinction is not a rule, however, but more of a general tendency. The definitive difference between a foundation and a charity lies in the way they gather funds.

Private foundations often collect their funds from a single key source, for example, a wealthy benefactor. This may be a wealthy family who believes in the cause or a corporation that wants to give something back. As such, the funds of a private foundation are controlled because they are dependent on a main source of income.

 

[Notredamn]

Then re read them, because what you said was offensive towards people with learning difficulties

No need, because they aren't. I do wonder what makes you think that (actually I don't - not that invested haha), maybe you could examine the reasons you have perceived the mention of learning difficulties= offence? Not my lookout though.

 

[ash247]

Because they’re not self aware enough! They legit care about fame…. Hence why they even used a phrase for her in the first place

What phrase is this? I feel like I’ve missed something lol x

 

[BettySpaghetty]

Also there is a difference between a “charity” and a “foundation” - A private foundation is a non-profit charitable entity, which is generally created by a single benefactor, usually an individual or business. A public charity uses publicly-collected funds to directly support its initiatives. The only substantive difference between the two is the manner in which funds are acquired. From what I can see it is “ The Azaylia Foundation.

Thing is though he is doing all these exercise for the foundation. So I'm guessing he's planning on fundraising unless he is maybe just doing it for awareness

 

[littlelunches]

It took me a few times looking at the photo, but when I noticed it it was so clear. People grieve all differently, so I suppose my opinion is just an opinion.

sending my love to you X

Which pictures are these? That is so awful if true.

 

[Penguin12]

Do team GB members just get plucked from obscurity like that then? I thought they had all trained for years to compete? Very strange if he is. I assumed something like celebrity SAS though he isn’t a celebrity,just has always wanted to be and thought himself as one ?

I thought SAS but the new series is starting and he's not on it....

 

[Meringue22]

The time will come where they’ll be told or forced to strip it back. Might not be for a little while yet but here we are

I guess it’s being allowed for the time being but I think you’re right

 

[chocdip]

what ethnicity is saf?

I think she’s perinese (is that even a word) my apologies if I’ve got that wrong (half)

Ash and his brother appear to have different moms and dads I’m not sure how that works but matty posted a pic with his mom and it wasn’t Vicky but he also has a different surname to ash and his sister

what ethnicity is saf?

Just checked and her surname is widely used in South Africa and Pakistan

 

[LaurieLaurie]

Yeah, but she drove down to London in the am too to go on the Lorraine show.

I know and then they went their separate ways when she went to pick up her brother.

 

[chocdip]

Did she show the tattoo she had done of Azaylia? Idk if i missed it or not?

Not that I’ve seen maybe it isn’t finished if it’s big, not sure though

 

[levitating]

I thought SAS but the new series is starting and he's not on it....

SAS does tend to film so far in advance, the new series was filmed last September

 

[Romeo1]

They were on the train the other day

 

[Book]

Saf really needs her mom and I really hope to god she isn’t being influenced/stopped from being with her. It’s all so desperately sad

are they desperate for money or what - first the spammy hair curler thing that made her hair look awful and now this cheap looking mask?

Probably not never look as if they are or have ever been short of a penny. They are clearly taking advantage of their extra followers by the looks of it

 

[Goldfish]

What is the bike ride for? Is it to raise more money or just to spread the word and raise awareness of the charity?

 

[under the ivy]

Oh gosh just seen the pictures on her Mums IG Just don’t think it’s appropriate and could be quite triggering for all involved.

 

[username123!]

It would be nice to see him be affectionate to her but maybe that’s just the dynamic of them and they aren’t like it in public?
They’ve already achieved some amazing things for people (the bone marrow list having the highest sign ups ever) and now to be financially helping other families when our system provides the bare minimum of less - that is amazing. He’s a reality tv star he knows how to work the beast for attention and spotlight it’s been his job but you can’t knock what he’s doing and Saf by default. I hope they don’t crash in grief and learn to cope and how they move forward together.

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Honestly, they were vile. Name-calling, threats, etc. All on a group to show support and love for a sick baby.

This is the problem. Some of the people who donated (not all) seen to think they had bought into her life then, and are the same people who will now think they have a say in where the money goes, what people should and shouldn’t be doing.

the publicity was a blessing and a curse really