Ashley Cain

[Christmascupcake90]

I feel they are both so lost and its awful they haven't been offered bereavement counselling, it would help them so much!

 

[catspyjamas_Hensteeth]

Also, not sure whether Instagram followers are people set out in order of how recently a person was followed, but if they are then the amount of models etc ashleys followed in the space of time with all this going on must make her feel like absolute shit

It does order if you search on a browser, rather than the app

 

[GobShyte64]

It was just her and her brother driving down.

Yeah, but she drove down to London in the am too to go on the Lorraine show.

 

[Notredamn]

Thank you to the poster who linked the podcast earlier, just sat and watched the whole thing. Bless Ashley and Safiyya

 

[Jaceydooley]

I noticed he never has his too like anyone wants to look at his dwarf body ? I mean have some respect even when he was holding azaylia when she passed his top was off. just odd.

Dwarf body? What do you mean?

 

[Book]

I’ve just seen the post that her mum has posted, I think it is so inappropriate for her to be sharing those videos and photos of Azaylia in distress. Its not her place to be sharing those photos, if I were Saf or Ashley I would be so angry.

Yeh I agree I hope she has permission it’s awful to see at all. But if Saf and Ash had no input it’s not good that baby needs some peace xx

 

[Notredamn]

It is a double standard.
Fine for strangers to set up a page for the baby but not fine for her mother
Fine for strangers to send THEM gifts for the baby but not through the mother.

we can agree to disagree.
Could her mother of handled it better, probably. Does it make her an awful person, only they know what’s gone on.

Notice Ashley has finally managed to include Saf this morning and put his arm around her.

how on earth could they begin to dictate which strangers should or shouldn't close their support accounts down? Sadly they realise that if you share so publicly there will always be weirdos pop up. They should have been able to count on their own family ie. mother to be respectful though!

 

[ash247]

Totally this! I don’t have Facebook or a “personal” Instagram and it pisses me off the amount of people including family that post pictures of my kids without even asking me! I’ve pulled people a few times about this. It’s just fucking manners!

I have had this also. No Facebook or Instagram however I have a friend who basically checks my families accounts for photo uploads if any of my children which I’d never consent to. I’ve asked multiple occasions for things to be removed in my eldests early years luckily it has stopped now because I became angry on many occasions x

 

[openbook1]

Can't remember if this podcast was mentioned but I think they both come across quite well on this. Better than Lorraine.

 

[Loopyloo92]

Seen this earlier.

 

[Book]

I'm not going to speculate because I don't know so as I said Il be waiting to see the facts.

Yes let’s hope the FACTS are revealed. But Im not sure the public donates will ever receive a full account of where EVERY single penny of the funds has been spent. But yeh heres hoping it’s all gone to help children and their families sooner rather than later

 

[Romeo1]

He said in his stories that that was the company he was meeting ( think it's sports related) they sent that out to them

 

[Book]

if you're confident in your opinion you don't need me to explain why mine is 'more valid'. I'm not trying to sell you anything lol.

So you think that it is ok for anyone let alone strangers to profit from a dead baby ? I am taking it you are a friend of the couple since you are adamant your opinion is right? Like I said let’s agree to disagreeMoving on now, thanks for your input and for setting me on the right path

 

[Notredamn]

I’ll say it again yet they are not shutting down the disgusting profiteering accounts selling their poor dead baby??? And actually are endorsing these accounts by liking their posts etc. Makes very very little sense to me. And I am just as disgusted at your opinion that you think it’s ok to leave a sick baby. That’s my opinion I Would never dream of doing so. And I am allowed an opinion that differs from yours no?

I 've given several reasons as to why. Who knows though as we are all different.
I don't care what your opinion is of me or these two bereaved parents because I don't think anyone respects or takes much notice of such judgemental people really

 

[Notredamn]

Just want to add my two pence here... they put a statement in the group which had ties to her mother and i think they asked for the group to be closed down? so why couldn't they post an update to their pages asking for these groups and fan pages (as awful as that sounds those are the type off accounts) to be stopped and taken down?

cos they can't control what strangers do or cos they brought mass awareness and a source of support most probably.

 

[Lola123]

Just out of interest, the green fake grass where they’ve got all the decorations etc, is that a temporary measure until it’s closed over? Or is that perm fixture

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

If ash has been with Saf for 10 years, does that mean he's been cheating on her when he was on ex on the beach n all that jazz? How long ago was he on it?

thats why I was confused , unless they’ve been on & off for years. I’m not sure

 

[Romeo1]

There is going to be the odd bonkers remark, claim etc that’s life - have you seen newspapers and the media but it’s up to us as individuals to keep perspective and not believe everything you read or see. I would hope most people know this is an opinion/gossip site and not hard facts and a lot of it is speculation based on individuals perspective and impressions

That's true x

 

[Coconutclub]

thanks!
I think as someone who doesn’t struggle with money but does sometimes need to budget and watch where my money is going, I would be a bit gutted to know I’ve probably just contributed to a massive party ect because that’s not something I’d donate money for.

but I agree with your reply, I do genuinely think it was set up to help the poor babe

Yeah I understand what you mean . It was a large amount of money there will be questions. I think you have to donate to fundraisers of this nature (life saving treatment that may not sadly happen) with the understanding that this may not be where the money goes. I donated on that basis. Sadly I can think of a few examples in the past that I have donated where the person / child has not lived long enough for the fundraised treatment to take place, if you donate to a personal fundraiser or a go fund me style donation you run this risk. Hopefully now the foundation has been set up this will all be more transparent.

 

[BelfastCc]

Apologies a foundation costs money* my bad