Ashley Cain

[Spider12]

No I meant that Saf and Ash implied that her mom was stealing donated gifts or something. And that is why her mom took the said donations and left them on the doorstep. Absolutely agree it’s awful thing to do. But then accusing your mom of that to the world wasn’t great either. I don’t understand why it bothered them that Safs mom was accepting gifts in the midst of all that trauma. when there are sooo many accounts that have zero connection to them profiting from their baby’s death. And Saf often likes said accounts posts

Ohh sorry I’ve got confused there. I do remember the post Saf and Ash put out but I didn’t make the connection at all that they were referring to her mum.

 

[Lollypops12345]

I know Ashley & Saf are a bit of a touchy subject after what they have been through & I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, I may be in the minority here but I just wish they would both take a break away from social media, I know we only see a snippet of their lives but they really need to step away & grieve alone for a while, I feel Ashley is on the verge of a breakdown I know exercise is good for the Mind but he actually worries me that he doesn’t rest, it would be good to see them go away as a couple, I know they are starting The charity which is fantastic that Azalyias legacy will live on.
I will probably get slaughtered for saying this but I think the party in the cemetery tonight was a bit much it really isn’t the place for something like this I found it quite disrespectful towards the surroundings. Saf is looking more fragile and lost, it’s such a weird one as I cringe when she asks where she can get things from & recommendations on her stories when she knows she’s going to get gifted something
Sorry I’m really going on I just needed to get a few things off my chest ! I really do like the both of them and like I said I just think they need to step away & grieve

Totally agree

 

[nichew]

If you search his name this is the top thing that comes up, along side pushing the trolley into the bus, there’s a good article on his casual racism and bigamy…. An ideal role model to use to gain traction for your ill child…..

Have u got like for his thred pls

 

[openbook1]

I know many do not agree with me but I feel so sad for Saffs mom it does seem she was the one who found the bruise and took Azaylia to hospital despite what Ashley and saff say, she was then cut out of her dying grandchild’s life. Not only has she lost a grand baby she’s lot a daughter and has most of the general public vilifying her

Did her mum get to see AZ at all when she was sick? Was she allowed at the funeral? I wonder if it was granny that took AZ to the hospital with the bruising etc, did social services get involved? Not sure if it's the same in the UK but here if a child is taken to hospital with an injury (bruise, cut, etc) they will question the parents, even if things seem innocent... So all bases are covered.

 

[Book]

I think its because a lack of people of colour signing up to these things. Black people especially do not trust medical people due to past history where they were used to be experimented on, etc. Thats why many aren’t vaccinated too. Their thoughts & opinions get past down generation to generation.

Thank you.

 

[BettySpaghetty]

Okay phew!! I can still have faith it's all going to a good cause

 

[getmeoutofhere]

That’s a good question. I know people who did the same challenge to raise money for a friend with cancer and they did maximum riding per day a) to make it a tougher challenge and raise more cash and b) to cut down on costs - fewer nights in hotels, food, etc as possible. They cycled pretty much 11-12 hours a day.

Ashley and co do seem to be doing anything like that at the moment. It’s day 3 and they’re still not going to be out of Devon, so they must be looking at at least 3 weeks to finish. Don’t get me wrong, that’s still a bit endurance challenge but it’s going to cost them quite a bit.

They are doing about 4-5 hours and 50-60 miles a day at the minute from what I’ve seen

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Yeah that’s what I was getting at before - and that funeral/party would not have been cheap.

Sorry didn’t see your post from earlier!

 

[BettySpaghetty]

Because Az was so young when diagnosed with cancer, does that mean she was likely born with it??
[/QUOTE]
I'm sure I remember saf saying that the drs had said she wasn't born with it

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Just watched Safs stories. She’s been driving all day… doesn’t ashley drive? poor girl must be absolutely knackered! Thank god for her brother man, clearly they are 2 peas in a pod - was so nice hearing her laugh for a little bit with her brother just then. All she does bless her is praise Ashley. Ash is doing this n that, I’m so proud, etc meanwhile its her brother supporting her & putting a smile on her face…

I don’t think they are actually travelling together

 

[openbook1]

Her mum posts things on her Instagram about narcissistic personalities now I don’t know if she means herself or someone else. Obviously a lot has gone on behind closed doors between them. The photos were very very hard to look at and I don’t think people realise that Azalyia had actually passed in them. I know a leopard can change its spots and he says his exercising for his mental health but to be honest I hear anger & aggression in his voice every time he speaks, what good is he going to be when he seems angry with himself there’s one thing keeping yourself fit it’s another exhausting and killing yourself. I doubt very much he would listen to anyone though and those closest to him must see it. His very angry with the world which is understandable I would be to but his going to crash and burn massively there’s only so much your body can take. I’ve never lost a child but I’ve lost people very very close to me including a brother who was a child so I’ve saw my parents grieve they grieved together as they were the only ones who understood what each were going through. My mum ended up in a psyc hospital due & dad visited every single day but he got her through it,
Sorry for derailing

Wait.. they posted photos of Az dead???? WTF? I never noticed that.

 

[openbook1]

They’re really fixated on orange / lion king , it won’t help their mental state

I must have missed why they are obsessed with it.

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Is that it he rode for longer at home

4.36 and 4.48 yesterday. Around 57 miles a day on those two. You can see on strava what he’s done, today’s hasn’t been posted yet so they must still be riding

 

[Amyx1518]

What phrase is this? I feel like I’ve missed something lol x

Let’s go champ

 

[lockdown sux]

@Noonoosanne2 sorry for your loss. Hope you are all doing ok.

 

[chocdip]

Just been watching their live loads of people asking about her and ash she says they are so strong and spend lots of quality time together off camera so I dunno

 

[Notredamn]

I wasn’t attempting to school you, just showing you my opinion and how to be careful with how you word things because they come across the wrong way to what you believe you said

Ah, there was no need. My posts are very clear and unambiguous to most, but thank you.

 

[Lola123]

We don't but this is the speculation I'm speaking of. How do we know they won't put it all into the foundation and do great things. Crazy thread

But we don’t know it won’t, you can take what I’m saying as fact if that’s how you decide to take it. I’m just saying possible outcomes

 

[username123!]

The mum follows Ashley on Instagram?

 

[Bellamy]

Did she show the tattoo she had done of Azaylia? Idk if i missed it or not?