Ashley Cain #3

[getmeoutofhere]

Are there ever any men at the finish lines? All I’ve seen is hoards and hoards of women and tired kids

 

[mrslh]

I know her mum has done wrong but I do think his mum seen right through him and I agree completely with her . Ash never held saf at the funeral as a mother it must have been sad to see her daughter not being comforted .

this whole I and My daughter and me me me is starting to piss so many people off so it won’t be long till somebody calls him out on it .

id also slap my partner if he was making me be strong when I don’t feel it I’m sorry but she’s lost her first and only child in the most heartbreaking way if she wants to cry let her . He’s a selfish man and it shows !! I’m so lucky my boyfriend didn’t do this when we lost our baby . I know everybody grieves different but that girl has been left alone for to long why he fills his ego with women throwing themselves at him absolutely shocking !!

 

[Emzykins]

It would me up so much that he posted about his mum and sister being there, showing their T-shirt’s and thanking them, yet Saf followed him a lot and she’s nowhere to be seen on his stories. Something definitely isn’t right and I do agree that he’s already dumped her. The whole situation is heartbreaking, that clip from the BBC is another example of where they weren’t comforting each other during their cries, and the way Ashley looked at her at one point was really off, he had an almost evil look in his eyes!!

 

[bettyrogers9]

I know it’s been said before but I don’t think I can ever understand these people who have created Azaylia dedicated pages and continue to post photos of her. Like these people have seen these photos, saved them to their phones, written captions and hashtags to upload them with. I just don’t get it. There’s raising awareness of childhood cancer and then there’s this.

 

[Lozzie212325]

This is going to sound harsh but I would absolutely hate if one of my family members grave was near As. I just think it is so excessive. Imagine the other parents who have children there, probably makes them feel shit.

 

[queenpoppy27]

Not too sure what happened as I missed the start of it but from what I could make out it was that she got given off to for filming a live at the castle today by a worker. That comment about the castle should give a donation to the charity as an apology. Fuck off wonder has little ol’ Dana given a donation herself the flea

 

[mrslh]

I definitely think he’s a bully to saf . Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors but I know one thing my boyfriend wouldn’t be sat in the same house hearing me cry on live ….

 

[Olivemaks]

Now we’ve got a lady very sick with cerebral palsy offering to bungee jump for azaylias cause.

 

[Millieminion]

Haven’t yet read through the thread outside the first page of the last one but also get the impression poor Saff is really under supported, and wish I could hug her.

It sounds weird but I think Doreen Lawrence would be a fantastic person for her to talk to - obviously Stephen was a lot older and murdered not unwell but Doreen has navigated through similar in the high profile sudden death of a child and has subsequently campaigned for decades, something Saff wants to get into with the foundation?

Maybe it's just me but if that was my friend on her own like that,on the other side of the country,I would absolutely be with her,even if she told me not to,I understand (kind of) during the week that maybe they are all working etc but it's the weekend and surely at least one of them are off to go be with her,if us as strangers are seeing how broken she is then surely her friends see it more.where is the crowd that were at the funeral?none of them free for a day or two!

 

[Heretoread19]

Subtle as ever

When I start earning again....
So, how are they living then? Off what exactly?

 

[Noonoosanne2]

How far are people travelling tonight to fan girl over him his in the middle of nowhere I keep expecting Miss Hoolie & Josie Jump to fly at him

 

[Mamabear29]

It's all getting a bit weird isn't it. I really feel for Saf but someone needs to intervene. The last thing she should be doing as a grieving parent is giving up her evenings to do lives with strangers and giving 10 year olds a platform to sing like wtf? I feel part of the reason she is so addicted to social media as it was her coping mechanism when Azaylia was here and it's hard to let that go. This is going to sound bad but as a mother I definitely would be like what the fuck on Safs behalf if I found out she was sharing my kids singing on a public account.

 

[heretoreaditall2019]

So you think him driving the car he did flashing his trainers and everything else is not a flashy lifestyle.He has always made sur he portrayed his expensive lifestyle so there’s no backtracking now and pretending otherwise. Also he has himself bragged about his detached house with his as he said 3 bathrooms, on more than one occasion. And for the record I have one too before you come at me with I’m jealous I’m not! But if you think his house and lifestyle are average then wow is all I can say! Most families and their extended families have to sell everything they own when they try to raise the money they did. And it doesn’t fly with me that neither can work when he is able to do what he is doing and Saf is working on insta. As I said they are no better than the millions of families that have to go through this all whilst HAVING Zero choice but to work. And this comes from personal experience.

Whaaaaa

They obviously have a different set up to other families as he’s earnt whatever he’s earnt in the past to acquire assets like the car & the wardrobe which he could then liquidate when they needed cash to get them through this year? With all due respect every family’s circumstance is different and it’s not as if they were out of work asking for people to pay their hospital parking or food shop, they’ve been self sufficient in that regard all money was for treatment and now had gone into a charitable trust?

There are two financial stories here - 1) the foundation and the donated funds, which I agree with everyone else here need to be spent on charitable endeavours not PR or ego puff pieces or personal play things (van, bikes, etc) and 2) their personal domestic finances. The two may cross wrt salaries out of the charity but we’re not at that point in time yet. Nothing in their personal life screams excess or as if they’ve gained a better quality of life following the gofundme, I think it’s grossly unfair to suggest so as there’s not even the slightest of indications of that - and there’s not to say there won’t be in the future but lord

 

[Emzykins]

Let's try and keep this a calm thread so it doesn't end up getting locked guys. I think the whole situation is getting to everyone, if people like Ash then you can always make a rave thread so you don't have to see comments you may not like. We are all allowed our own opinion, this isn't a rave thread, so we will be openly talking about things we dislike/don't agree with.

Let's all be friends x

 

[mrslh]

She basically stopped her sons medications to make her day easy even though she had carers most nights and he had full time school . She then stopped his peg feeds to make him eat normal foods obviously he couldn’t she was advices from hospitals not to do this in the end it resulted in serious weight loss . She then left him a week before he passed away to go partying in London . The list goes on even Christmas she didn’t celebrate it or get him presents or anything not even a tree because she claimed he wouldn’t understand . She’s now living it up in Morocco dressed to the nines partying whilst selling merch of her dead child it’s sick trust me it’s shocking go read her threads it’s awful

 

[queenpoppy27]

Two young girls defo no older than 10 on her live singing dancing in the sky. Wtf. My daughter is 9 and I wouldn’t want her being exposed to their Instagram with the pictures of a poor sick and dying baby. PARENTS WATCH WHAT YOUR KIDS ARE DOING ONLINE FFS!!

 

[Amy.]

Let's go champ....... my god just do one now it's getting so old

 

[Cov1989]

It’s all beginning to stink and I so so wished it didn’t

 

[heretoreaditall2019]

I would like to think most people would have just had a "normal" funeral and given that money straight to the hospital to buy a life saving machine or given straight to make a wish foundation. There was no need for lavish and expensive things at the funeral.

Tbh I just thank god I’ve not had to consider such a thing. I can’t get outraged over grieving parents having some joy on the day of their daughter’s funeral, sorry.

 

[Goldfish]

I feel like people keep mentioning the nurse mum to try and deter from how bad people think Ashley and Saf are with their exploitation of Azaliya and their death as hers is quite obviously worse, however this also isn’t a rave thread or the nurse mums, but the last few pages have become like that