Ashley Cain #3

[Olgivy]

To be honest I think both sides are in the wrong with the freebies. These businesses are trying to exploit a grieving woman’s 1M follower platform to get more business, this is why they are doing it for free. And Saf knows this, and is taking advantage of it. It’s all a bit fucked up really. But this is social media for you.

 

[lmm1999991]

Surprised they’re not all asking her to stay on the live while she has her bath. “We can join you in the bath Saff” “I’ll have one too, it’ll be like we’re all having a bath together” absolute creeps!

 

[exhincher88]

I think the funeral was perfect from the videos a pictures I could see saff and Ashley smile. That’s something money can’t buy if you’ve lost your child. I’m glad they didn’t sit there crying over a cup of tea. God knows what that day was like for them the emotions the build up etc. If Ashley dancing helped him then good. I think we shouldn’t ever comment on the funeral. She was a baby, she didn’t get a 1st birthday never mind all the other mile stones.

Also Ashley is Caribbean, in our funerals we cry at the church then we dance, drink, sing, and share stories. Regardless of age, this is a part of our grieving process. If it’s different in your culture and you’ve been taught to be more reserved in these situations that’s absolutely fine, but you shouldn’t comment on what other cultures choose to do :/

 

[Tobodee]

IMO Ashley has already dumped Saf. I think he’s used the excuse that he’s broken etc and at the moment can’t give Saf a relationship. But he’s said to keep it between themselves and not let public know as he doesn’t want to deter attention away from A when really it’s just because he knows everyone will know he’s a cunt. (Even tho we lot already do)

 

[Goldfish]

Everyone that actually believes they haven’t profited from the go fund me is so naive it’s painful. And the fact is it’s disgusting that all of this is off the back of their dead daughter, yes they’re broken and they’d rather her be here, what fucking parent wouldn’t? But to then profit of off the situation in the way they have, the money, the gifted shit is just ridiculous. The harsh reality is, this isn’t a special case, there has been so many Azaliyas and there will be many, many more. This foundation wasn’t about her legacy for Ashley, nor was it about raising awareness for childhood cancer or sharing other stories, this was about securing his image in the public eye. This is a man who has been trying to worm his way into the spotlight for many years and by the sounds of it, completely mugged Saf of the whole time if they’ve been together as long as it’s been claimed. I have a friend who’s cousin is currently dying from cancer, she’s 9, you’ve not heard about it because her parents are just normal people like me and you.

 

[its_all_the_drama_mick]

It's been months since A passed away. They've barely done anything to raise awareness about childhood cancers. That's what is desperately needed. The BBC interview was a start, but the other 99% of their time has been all about Ashley. If they don't have the energy to raise awareness, and who could blame them, then get people to run the foundation and start making a difference. They know more than anyone that every single second counts when fighting childhood cancer. Use that money to save someone's life instead.

She passed away in April so 4 months ago, can’t really blame them for not having the strength to start the foundation within a couple of weeks of their daughter dying. If it has been years you would have a point, but I don’t think 4 months is a long enough time to criticise them for

 

[Noonoosanne2]

This poor women who has severe anxiety has travelled well out of her comfort zone, firstly on a train, been to new cities, spent hrs on lives to strangers, travelled by car to finishing points with friends not family, spent nights on her own without her so called partner, she’s been a week away from her happy place her daughters grave now she’s been left in the middle of nowhere ( obviously with friends) whilst he has trotted off home and will no doubt rub her face in it by posting a story with a stupid messiah speech at the grave later, his getting me mad

 

[rowdyroddy]

A lot of people on this thread seem to have some sort of vendetta against ashley... the comments and accusations against him disgust me tbh and i find it odd that people are so sure of their opinions, despite not knowing any facts and base everything off of social media which we all know can be faked. I really fucking hope he doesn't read here.

And before anyone says its tattle, its an opinion forum, i know that. But stealing from the charity, abusing saf, cheating on the challenge, setting up the foundation for his own profile!? Are just come of the things that's been said without any real evidence and there's a line that gets crossed sometimes which turns this "opinion" site into a place for trolls.

 

[Snoopdog]

Ughh my heart aches for Saf. I lost my little girl when she was 3 days old, we also had a very poorly little boy 12 months before we lost her. He was misdiagnosed several times and we nearly lost him. Thank god we didn’t. I had counselling after his illness because I was so angry all the time, but after our daughter, every time I was offered it - which was all the bloody time, I just thought what is the point, it won’t bring her back, she will still be gone. I can imagine that is how saf may well feel - and meds may help with the anxiety/depression, but her baby will still be gone. It’s been 4 years for us now, and still hurts like hell. At least I had my others to carry on for - if we didn’t, I’m sure I wouldn’t still be here. I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t still be with my partner either if he’d behaved like Ash is - I also didn’t like staying in bed because you fall asleep and then relive it all over again when you wake up. I really feel for her, so much. Ugh it’s horrific

 

[getmeoutofhere]

God that is disgusting. What a horrible little insecure man. I hope he doesn’t make comments like that to Saf, considering she’s talked about her weight gain, but I wouldn’t put it past him. He reeks of insecurity.

Ironic coming from a man who looks no taller than 5’2 with fake teeth in his twenties really to be judging people on appearance.

 

[SunshineRae]

Ahh man, I’ve watched their clip on bbc news Instagram. Absolutely breaks my heart. That is a totally broken and bereft couple who need to love each other, be loved and get a shot load of professional help and support. No matter what I sometimes think of Ashley’s behaviour or his past, he is broken.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

Safiyya has spent a week asking how does she get to John O Groats but his mum and sister suddenly pop up with Ashley and the team!? That’s not a spur of the moment travel. Surely they would have told Saf their plan and picked her up? How are they allowed to be there yesterday but Saf never is?

As horrible as it is he only wanted her for the baby imo.

 

[mrslh]

Getting bored of it now especially ash he’s such a bad character. So obvious he has no feelings towardsnsaf . The guy says MY daughter not ours I’m sorry even my ex says ours and we ain’t together . He never says WE it’s always I . It’s obvious to everyone he’s neglecting her when she needs him the most . I don’t think it will be long till they break up .

 

[BettySpaghetty]

I'm honestly so close to messaging her brother saying please intervene. She needs support. She is not getting it off Ashley and is certainly not getting it when she is alone in a city she's never even been to before.

I feel like I'm watching her have a breakdown before my eyes

 

[noseynopinions]

I can't believe people are actually commenting on the Edinburgh Castle Instagram page and complaining like they were there. Clicked on one of the complainers profiles and she has Year 9 in her bio

 

[Amy.]

If you guys don’t know , she’s getting her lashes done tomorrow with this girl Jenna , she came on the live today. I’m sure Jenna is lovely but she sounded & looked so so desperate to meet Saf

Hopefully this jenna gives her a few home truths then, my heart just breaks for her like I feel so so sorry that she is in the situation she is in alone and has been put into a position by ash where she has nobody to turn to. He has 100% just ostracised her to the max. This ladies and gentlemen is what what an abusive relationship looks like. You don't need to be beaten black and blue to be on one, the mental game is even more poisonous. I've just scrolled through his IG and it's right it's all my daughter.. I can't believe I'm going through this.... my hero I have lost my baby..... he is capitalising on the death of their daughter and its shocking to see

 

[Heretoread19]

Just because you think it’s OTT doesn’t mean azaylia didn’t deserve it . They did what any parent would given the chance and I’m sure those who donated don’t care how the money is spent . I like this thread and I do believe ash is a dick and saf is Struggling but I don’t see how it’s anybody’s business how OTT their daughters funeral was , they did it how they wanted it and gave her a deserved send off .

No, that is where you are wrong.
They broke lockdown rules to have her party. I'm not saying funeral because it wasn't.

My son died just before Azaylia and we had 30 people at his funeral with just myself, my husband and my family afterwards for some sandwiches. We literally sat around in silence most of the afternoon.
I didn't want to dance and sing whilst mourning my son. Celebrate him yes, but we have many other ways to do that.

The whole funeral didn't sit right with me.

 

[chocdip]

Few pointers I don’t agree with regarding the new Ash fans.

Your saying their mortgage could already be paid off… it’s not Ashley’s words he still has a mortgage to pay for! Fact

Your saying they could have had savings, no Ashley said he sold his car and all of his belongings to raise money for Azaylia so why didn’t he donate it to the go fund me! Fact

He also said he had a shit car after selling his, this was a lie because only last month did he say goodbye to his brand new white BMW! Where was the shit car ? Fact

He said he spent his savings on a hotel and food while Azaylia was in hospital, ok this bit is true (ish) but let me tell you. For a start most of not all their food/coffee was free. The hotel you do know Birmingham children’s hospital offer families the Ronald McDonald charity house! Fact

You do realise they chose to stay at the £250 a night hotel with a gym not the £39 a night premier inn down the road! Fact

So let’s not all pretend he’s god

 

[Lillyloo]

His behaviour towards women has always been disgraceful. Which is even more shocking when he has sisters and says what a good family he is from.

He calls a random girl out at the dinner table and tells her she’s the ‘fattest’ girl there (she’s a size 10 max) for no reason and she walks off crying. When holly hagen calls him out he says he was only joking and that if he was being serious he would of said it to holly because she was loads bigger than the girl! GOBSMACKED!

 

[lmm1999991]

No same hotel she mentioned on live yesterday. And also miks the girl cousin or came to her room about 1/2AM to drop something to her. Miks room is right opposite safs

They’re not even in the same city anymore. Not being rude but do people not realise when you cycle miles you actually end up miles away Scotland is a big place it’s not a little village haha