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Nah I disagree, she’s doing that because she thinks it makes her look like the better person for sharing other people’s needs when really she’s doing it to spite her daughter and Ash. I think she’s behaving appallingly. no matter what’s happened she’s old enough to know better, posting on social to get attention is not on. She should be putting her daughters feelings above all else


Why would they withhold locations?
No I don’t agree that she’s doing it to spite them, if you look back on her social media, she’s been sharing stuff like this before Azaliya was even born. She was heavily involved with raising money for cancer charities, I believe someone previously said it’s because she either lost her sister to cancer or she had cancer
 
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No I don’t agree that she’s doing it to spite them, if you look back on her social media, she’s been sharing stuff like this before Azaliya was even born. She was heavily involved with raising money for cancer charities, I believe someone previously said it’s because she either lost her sister to cancer or she had cancer
She needs a break now , she’s done crappy things in the past but haven’t we all. She’s raising awareness for others with cancer & she visits A regularly

I hope she can open contact up with Saf
 
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It’s a shame really that she no longer has a relationship with her mother. Of course there’s reason but I feel like Saf could really do with her mother’s support.
Going back to azaylias funeral I remember Safs mum posting a pic with her in the background saying something along the lines of feeling helpless watching her daughters heart breaking with no arms around her.. so I suppose it’s not only us noticing the lack of support for Saffiya.
 
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She needs a break now , she’s done crappy things in the past but haven’t we all. She’s raising awareness for others with cancer & she visits A regularly

I hope she can open contact up with Saf
Everyone seems to dislike her for the things she’s done, will completely excusing all of Ashley’s behaviour because of Azaliya. I personally think it’s great she’s raising awareness for children with cancer who don’t have big profiles to benefit and help them!
 
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It’s a shame really that she no longer has a relationship with her mother. Of course there’s reason but I feel like Saf could really do with her mother’s support.
Going back to azaylias funeral I remember Safs mum posting a pic with her in the background saying something along the lines of feeling helpless watching her daughters heart breaking with no arms around her.. so I suppose it’s not only us noticing the lack of support for Saffiya.
Oh definitely, she’s probably raised what we’re talking about already with Saf but being a loving & doting partner she’s sided with Ash

Everyone seems to dislike her for the things she’s done, will completely excusing all of Ashley’s behaviour because of Azaliya. I personally think it’s great she’s raising awareness for children with cancer who don’t have big profiles to benefit and help them!
!!! She’s doing more than the foundation at this point , I thought the foundation page would post other people’s stories struggling & share on their insta stories etc

I’m so passionate about helping & supporting Saf , being in the loneliest & darkest places are the worst. I’ve been there & tried to end my life , I would hate if she got in that place
 
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Nah I disagree, she’s doing that because she thinks it makes her look like the better person for sharing other people’s needs when really she’s doing it to spite her daughter and Ash. I think she’s behaving appallingly. no matter what’s happened she’s old enough to know better, posting on social to get attention is not on. She should be putting her daughters feelings above all else


Why would they withhold locations?
I mean not advertising the day and time of where they will be if it turns into a bit of a circus.
 
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If he stopped all the bloody photos and meet and greets then maybe he wouldn’t be so tired and he would give his body time to relax and recover for the next day but they won’t as his thriving on it.
 
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You really need to go on the Rave thread. You are clearly just here to disagree with everyone else and quite frankly, you are coming across as rude, passive aggressive and a tad obsessed with Ashley and Saf. Go to the rave thread. Seriously. You dont get to try mod everyone else in this thread.
I don’t get why this poster hasn’t been warned tbh. It seems like this is all they are here for to argue and disagree with other posters! Comes across as if they know Ash and Saf personally and then gets angry when you suggest that too 🤦🏻‍♀️
People think they own a piece of this couple now,it’s bleeping weird
It is very weird but they created this and obviously want it too.
 
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Saf stated she’s an independent woman which is great , if she stays & he goes off abroad. I hope she can relax a bit more , maybe get in contact with her mum again
 
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If he stopped all the bloody photos and meet and greets then maybe he wouldn’t be so tired and he would give his body time to relax and recover for the next day but they won’t as his thriving on it.
No way in hell that will happen. He thrives off attention and always has done🤮
 
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I don’t get why this poster hasn’t been warned tbh. It seems like this is all they are here for to argue and disagree with other posters! Comes across as if they know Ash and Saf personally and then gets angry when you suggest that too 🤦🏻‍♀️

It is very weird but they created this and obviously want it too.
Agreed. Its not about having a different opinion we all do! Its the constant passive aggressive comments at everyone and constantly belittling other posters. Its not what Tattle is about.
 
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When i had a miscarriage at 10weeks we came home from the hospital and i was going back the next day for a D&C. Whilst we were at home
It started to happen naturally. It was painful and i just went and sat on the toilet ...
My husband didn’t really know what to do and he came upstairs knocked on the door and asked if i minded if he went and played golf 🙃🙃🙃 i said yeah yeah fine as i wanted to protect him and not let him see what i was going through. I look back now and think what a twit but i think he just didn’t know how to cope with what was happening and didn’t want to see me going through what i was. I know its not the same AT ALL but maybe Ashley just finds it hard being with Saf because he’s feels he can’t cope with seeing her in bits?? But she might look back eventually and resent him for not giving her the love she needed when it was needed the most!!
i dunno would just like to think there is some sort of reasoning for his cold behaviour.
Ps. my husband is amazing and loving but just didn’t cope well in that instance!! He’s not a monster 😅
 
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Like someone said it really has become a circus. And Ashley is just going to run himself into the ground. Go to each stop off point quietly go to your hotel and eat and sleep! Making a whole big spectacle of it is just stupid. And realistically, as awful as it is people are going to forget about baby A, remember Alfie was on everyone’s profile banners on fb, now u never hear or see anything about him now and that’ll be baby A soon. Once another high profile sick baby comes along she will be pushed to the side while all the crazies worship a new sick baby, it’s just bleeping weird!
 
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Ashley is evidently loving the attention from everyone. It’s the Ashley Show and I bet the majority of people* were there purely to see him
and him only. It should be a shared achievement for both him and Saf and he clearly doesn’t see it that way. She’s really supported him and he doesn’t seem to acknowledge it or give much back at all. I wish he’d show her a bit of warmth 🙁
*desperados
 
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That cousin who's there is a wannabe influencer I think. She's standing about with a bucket looking like a UFC ring girl 🙄
 
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That cousin who's there is a wannabe influencer I think. She's standing about with a bucket looking like a UFC ring girl 🙄
Yeah its clear from her profile she is desperate for insta fame. Its so sad to see them all use this for their own gain.
I sadly think this is becoming a new social media phenomenon. Becoming famous for loss of a child. The Nurse Mum is pretty much copying all they do. Its disgusting. Competing to have the saddest loss story on insta. They all need proper help.
I worry so much for Saf. I really hope she gets some proper support and counselling soon.
 
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I agree..
They should arrive quietly, eat and sleep otherwise he will crash and burn or injure himself. It’s just an evening out for some people and probably isn’t bringing in much cash, I’m sure they’re all tagging them on stories but that’s for their own ‘look at where I am’ thing people do these days.
 
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Now it's interesting, I've just watched the video of Ashley talking about Azaylia on their foundation Instagram, he looks a broken man, and safiyya looks so withdrawn, when he cries she doesn't touch him or reach out there either.

I don't think he wants fame from this at all, I really really don't. I think they're broken, they don't know what to do with these emotions, they're not ready to talk to anyone yet or consider anything other than constant distractions, Safiyya is probably clinging to her brother for support as he's not as emotionally connected as Ashley.
 
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Now it's interesting, I've just watched the video of Ashley talking about Azaylia on their foundation Instagram, he looks a broken man, and safiyya looks so withdrawn, when he cries she doesn't touch him or reach out there either.

I don't think he wants fame from this at all, I really really don't. I think they're broken, they don't know what to do with these emotions, they're not ready to talk to anyone yet or consider anything other than constant distractions, Safiyya is probably clinging to her brother for support as he's not as emotionally connected as Ashley.
Agreed they are both utterly broken. But they are definitely wanting fame from this. Particularly Ashley without doubt.
 
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