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She honestly looks like she worships the ground he walks on and is so proud of him and admires and loves him so much, it’s actually breaks my heart, I wish he would show her the same love and attention
 
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She honestly looks like she worships the ground he walks on and is so proud of him and admires and loves him so much, it’s actually breaks my heart, I wish he would show her the same love and attention
She does doesn’t she 💔 to her this man is her world she’s shared love, a child, death 💔 highs lows it’s breaking my heart seeing her like this she needs him and I hope he realises that while she’s being strong for him who’s being strong for her.

You can see from previous posts I don’t like Ashley but they need each other no one will ever have what these 2 had as a couple weeks f he were to move on or vice versa their bond should be unbreakable
 
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I just feel so sorry for Saf, are people forgetting she is azaylia's mummy? She carried that beautiful little girl for 9 months and you can clearly see she is broken. Its as if its all just a big show about Ashley and his daughter and she's just forgotten about, its quite sad to see. I'm not in their position and hopefully never will be, yes we only see snippets of their life but I just feel that Saf isn't supported as much as Ashley.
 
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She does doesn’t she 💔 to her this man is her world she’s shared love, a child, death 💔 highs lows it’s breaking my heart seeing her like this she needs him and I hope he realises that while she’s being strong for him who’s being strong for her.

You can see from previous posts I don’t like Ashley but they need each other no one will ever have what these 2 had as a couple weeks f he were to move on or vice versa their bond should be unbreakable
I’m not sure where the word weeks came from think it was autocorrect but you get my jist
 
I just feel so sorry for Saf, are people forgetting she is azaylia's mummy? She carried that beautiful little girl for 9 months and you can clearly see she is broken. Its as if its all just a big show about Ashley and his daughter and she's just forgotten about, its quite sad to see. I'm not in their position and hopefully never will be, yes we only see snippets of their life but I just feel that Saf isn't supported as much as Ashley.
It's the Ashley Show.
 
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The video on azaylia charity page shows them hugging. I would say prob her more hugging him , but he was very emotional 💔
My eyes always wel up when I see how emotional he gets. It's like a mixture of being overwhelmed at the crowds & grief. Plus he's gonna be knackered & must be emotionally exhausted too. Imagine what goes through his head. Riding up the country, feeling physical and emotional pain wouldnt be anywhere near the amount of pain his daughter no doubt went through with the chemo they said she was on..

God bless her. What a cruel world we live in when children die of cancer & other diseases & illnesses.
 
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I honestly think Ashley’s head has clocked out of the relationship you you can tell,and it’s awful I feel so sad for Saf but I think deep deep down she knows it and is trying to cling onto him in hopes he will start to get feelings again but she’s just hurting herself 😢,I do wonder if it’s partly because of how Safs family acted and partly because they spent so much time apart when in hospitals ect.It’s sad to watch she was on live earlier and said she wanted to get cute because she hasn’t seen Ashley in few days and he didnt even hug her back just then 😭 poor poor girl I honestly think she’s amazing and I just feel so bad for her.She should go home get a therapist have a few days with her friends,cry,scream,shout what ever she needs to do that I feel Ashley is telling her is weak and I honestly think she and Ashley will split soon unfortunately
But they will always find peace knowing they created the most beautiful little girl❤ But I don’t see them making it through this and still being together I also think Ashley will crash and burn soon bless him masking it for now but his not dealing with his pain x
 
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I honestly feel saf gets pushed out so much . It’s the ash show and always has been . Even the newspapers leave saf out it’s always Ashley cains daughter no mention of saf it’s just so sad . Imagine carrying your baby for nine months and going through loosing your only child and not getting any love from the man you created your baby with . Awful 😞 I know everyone gives different but he hugs other people so he should hug his partner she must feel so low
 
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The video on azaylia charity page shows them hugging. I would say prob her more hugging him , but he was very emotional 💔
God watching that made me cry, you can see how much pain he’s in and how overwhelming the increasingly big receptions are and he’s trying to hold it together. Maybe full on hugging Saf would just break him, his body language says he’s trying to be strong, not deliberately being cold

I honestly feel saf gets pushed out so much . It’s the ash show and always has been . Even the newspapers leave saf out it’s always Ashley cains daughter no mention of saf it’s just so sad . Imagine carrying your baby for nine months and going through loosing your only child and not getting any love from the man you created your baby with . Awful 😞 I know everyone gives different but he hugs other people so he should hug his partner she must feel so low
But he was the “celeb” of the two pre this happening, albeit a very minor and not particularly great one (EOTB)
 
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I think he needs time out he looks emotionally drained I understand this whole keep strong but at some point he’s going to go down hill . He needs to grieve I think they need to both go away and grieve together it’s just so sad to see . x
 
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He's gonna end up very very poorly if this carries on. Being strong is just waking up, facing the day. Not 3000 mile bloody bike rides.
It's like he's frightened of people seeing him break, I hope Menkind or some charity from the hospital that specifically helps dads gets in contact with him soon. They've had 0 time to grieve and delayed grief is even worse
 
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You see when this is ended he will go on and do another challenge or his 50k a day rides he won’t take time he obviously doesn’t want to be in that house which is understandable but he needs to realise this isn’t about just him his off to Nuneaton tomorrow what a show that’s going to be, wonder if Safs mum will be there from a distance ? I still get bad vibes from all of this
 
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You see when this is ended he will go on and do another challenge or his 50k a day rides he won’t take time he obviously doesn’t want to be in that house which is understandable but he needs to realise this isn’t about just him his off to Nuneaton tomorrow what a show that’s going to be, wonder if Safs mum will be there from a distance ? I still get bad vibes from all of this
Completely agree , horrible to say but I think the truths will come out in the end
 
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He's gonna end up very very poorly if this carries on. Being strong is just waking up, facing the day. Not 3000 mile bloody bike rides.
It's like he's frightened of people seeing him break, I hope Menkind or some charity from the hospital that specifically helps dads gets in contact with him soon. They've had 0 time to grieve and delayed grief is even worse
His broken underneath all this you can see in his eyes,they both need professional help and stop thinking they can deal with it through exercise and keeping busy because they absolutely will at some point end up breaking down
 
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It might sound petty but I wish they wouldn’t keep letting balloons go 😢, also as someone says earlier a lot of the turn outs are younger girls not there for A but their for a photo op with Ashley
I don’t think I could hug a sweaty man after a bike ride all day 🤣🤣🤣
 
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I genuinely do not think this is about fame or celeb status. I think he doesn't wanna be in that house. Which I 1000% understand. If it was any of my kids I'd lock the front door and never go back in. He needs to be open and honest, not all this I'm a warrior I'm a fighter mentality, cancer isn't a boxing match it's an evil evil disease.
 
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I genuinely do not think this is about fame or celeb status. I think he doesn't wanna be in that house. Which I 1000% understand. If it was any of my kids I'd lock the front door and never go back in. He needs to be open and honest, not all this I'm a warrior I'm a fighter mentality, cancer isn't a boxing match it's an evil evil disease.
Couldn't agree with you more on this, everything in the house is a reminder of his daughters death, including Saff.not that her life/ death is not on his mind every second of the day but physical reminders there also
 
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